Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

There are many reasons why you should focus on your studies in school over boys. Knowledge will last you longer. Pay attention to boys as a high school student or college student, when you no doubt feel with all your heart that you are ready for a long-term relationship. Remember, guys are not things you can easily throw left and right (most of the time).

Steps

1. 1 Set long-term goals for the entire school year. If you know what needs to be done in the long term, remember to remind yourself of these goals and accumulate a baggage of specific knowledge that will motivate you.
2. 2 Set short term goals. They can be delivered for a month, a week or a day. Knowing what you want to achieve from your studies and extracurricular education will give you more motivation to achieve those goals.A pre-prepared to-do list will help you with this, in which you can cross out homework or other tasks that have already been completed.
3. 3 Think about your top priorities and remember what matters most to you at this stage in your life.
4. 4 Think about how your progress in school will help you in your future college or university entrance, and how much easier it will be for you later in life if you work hard now and finish the job you need to finish.
5. 5 Stay organized.
6. 6 Always try to be busy. Volunteer or participate in community service at your school or other organizations. Try to find for yourself what you like. This can be not only a fun activity, but also serve as an additional plus for your further admission to universities, as well as distract you to some extent from thinking about boys.
7. 7 Avoid socializing and walking with boys. Business before pleasure. If you share these concepts, you will be better off.
8. 8 You may need to come up with personal constraints by telling yourself that you are not going to interact with the guys until you get your first job or achieve the highest academic results.
9. 9 Remember: a girl who knows how to be at her best and manage her time always seems attractive to boys, and even sometimes impressive.
10. 10 Focus on your tasks and at the same time think that other people, such as your family members, would like to see you succeed in school.

Tips

• Don't look at the boy too often. So you risk falling in love.
• Don't look at him or think about him at school.
• If you catch yourself thinking about him at school, try to immerse yourself in your studies. Engage your thoughts with something else.
• Distract yourself in every possible way.
• It is sometimes helpful to fall in love with a boy in your class. You can impress him by showing that you are smarter than him. So you can even study with him to help with lessons, or just not look stupid if he asks you for help. It can really help you in school if you don't overdo it. Try not to stick your nose in this boy's mistakes.

Warnings

• The boy might think that you are a real geek, so explain that you need to focus on your studies at school. He will always understand you if he is a good guy.