How to make your dreams come true

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Content

Steps
Part 1 of 2: Develop a plan
Part 2 of 2: Stay Motivated
Tips
Warnings
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There is no better time than now to start making your dreams come true. You can achieve whatever you want if you are diligent and come up with a sensible plan of action. All that is required of you is knowing what you want and taking small steps towards your success. On the way, of course, you will stumble upon several obstacles, but if you draw conclusions from your mistakes, you will come even closer to your final goal. Want to know how to make your dreams come true? See Step 1 to get started.

Steps

Part 1 of 2: Develop a plan

1 Be specific. The first thing you need to do is define specifically what you want. You can write down all your dreams and desires in a special diary or notebook. If you don't know what exactly you want, how are you going to achieve it? However, you can start moving towards your goal, even if you are not yet 100% sure what you want. At a minimum, you should have an idea of what you want to achieve, and you need to figure out how to make that idea more and more specific as you move closer to success.
- For example, let's say you love to write and want to become a real writer.You may not yet know if you want to write novels, be a journalist, or have an inspiring blog, but you can decide on this as you move closer to your dream.
- Don't worry if you haven't figured it out yet. Perhaps you are just dreaming of finding a job that makes you feel like you are changing the world for the better every day. There are many paths that can lead you to this goal, so such a common goal can play into your hands.
2 Turn your dream into a burning desire. You will need to turn your dream into a burning desire in your heart. A strong desire to make your dreams come true will strengthen your self-confidence and help you get through the worst stages of your life. To turn your dream into a burning desire, you need to believe that your dream is achievable and that you can make it come true. If you present your dream as a generalized desire (for example, you want to lose 5 kilograms this year or move to a warmer climate), but do nothing to fulfill it, then you will not be able to take it seriously.
- When your dream has become a burning desire, you can no longer call it a dream, since the whole point of a dream is that it is not real. You must see her as something more.
3 Turn your burning desire into a goal. Now you should turn your burning desire into a goal. In the last stage, you turned your dream into a burning desire because you believed that it was possible and that you could fulfill it. To now turn your desire into a goal, you need to believe that you will fulfill it. This confidence is based on your commitment to the idea that if something is possible, then you can do it, and if you can do it, then you do it now. It is important to remember that goals have a time frame. Thus, by setting the time to reach a certain goal, you are accepting the fact that you are committed to achieving it.
- Having turned a burning desire into a goal, you can no longer talk about it as a dream or desire. This is now the goal of your life, the goal that you must achieve.
4 Develop an action plan. Develop a strategic action plan. You need to develop a strategy to achieve your goals; this strategy is commonly referred to as an action plan. There is no one-size-fits-all action plan that fits every person; each strategy depends on the person and their goals. That is why the key to creating your plan of action lies in yourself, and you need to find it in yourself.
- Write down every step of your plan. This will help you develop a more solid plan. Remember, however, that life does not always go according to plan, and that you may not be able to complete each step of the plan as you wrote it down, and that you may need to revise your plan of action or reformulate it as you go. towards your goal.
5 Take action now. Once you turn your goal into a personalized action plan, you need to take action and seize every opportunity that opens up to you. It's time to stop making excuses and putting off until tomorrow what you can do now. Of course, there are many good reasons to put off achieving your goal for a while, such as planning your wedding, a busy work schedule, difficult personal relationships, etc., but if you treat your goal in this way, then you risk all life to continue to postpone its achievement until later, and so nothing will be achieved.
- There is a principle in the universe by which similar things are attracted to each other. Where there is a need, there the universe finds a way to meet this need with new possibilities. You should be ready for new opportunities as you begin to act on your plan to achieve your goal, which will help you realize your burning desire and make your dream a reality.
6 Set short term goals. Divide your main goal into several parts and set a time frame for each of them. Your success lies in small steps in the right direction. For example, if you dream of writing a novel, then you can start moving towards this goal by participating in a master class on art writing, or even try your hand at writing a short story of several pages. Getting started right away will make it much more difficult to finish without the foundation you need to provide you with the skills you need to make your dreams come true.
- When you formulate short-term goals to fulfill your dreams, or think about long-term goals, it can be helpful to get advice from people in your field, whether they are close friends or acquaintances, to find out how they achieved their goals. This will help you better understand what short-term goals you should set and how realistic they should be.
7 Track your progress regularly. When you pursue your dream, it is important to have an idea of what you have already achieved. Moscow was not built right away, and you may not move forward as fast as you would like, but it is nevertheless important to realize that you are moving forward. Here are some things to look out for when you personalize your progress:
- Have you met all the goals that you have set for a given period of time.
- Do you want to keep following your dream.
- Have you distracted from fulfilling your dreams.
8 Enjoy your journey. The most important thing is not to think that your life is terrible and that you will not be happy if you do not fulfill your dream. In fact, when you achieve your dream come true and the euphoria has passed, you may return to your old life and look for a new dream. This aspiration is completely normal, so try to enjoy every step of the path, instead of thinking that you will be happy / proud of yourself / will find meaning in life only when you reach your goal. Instead, enjoy the journey and be proud of yourself along the way.

Part 2 of 2: Stay Motivated

1 Visualize success. From time to time, close your eyes and imagine what your life will be like when you reach your goal. Tell yourself that you already got what you want, and imagine what your life, home, relationships, and thoughts will look like when you get what you crave the most. This is a great motivational tactic for those moments when you feel exhausted and think that you will never be able to make your dreams come true. Visualizing the happiness and pleasure that you will feel when you achieve your goal will help you see that your goal is much closer than you think.
2 Maintain your self-confidence. If you want to succeed and make your dreams a reality, then you cannot become a pessimist when something starts to go wrong or when your dream seems unattainable to you. Always keep your head up firmly, believe in yourself and keep moving forward. It is perfectly normal to doubt yourself sometimes, but in the end, you must fully believe in your ability, because if you don't believe in yourself, then no one can believe in you.
- A positive attitude towards life will help you maintain your self-confidence. If you only imagine the worst outcome of the situation, then it will turn out to be so.
3 Don't forget to take some time to rest. While perseverance in following your dreams and achieving your goals is essential, you should also remember to rest so you don't overwhelm yourself and stay calm. You don't want to overwhelm yourself with anxiety, not get enough sleep, and forget about your friends.In fact, if you take rest breaks from time to time, you will feel renewed energy and an even greater desire to achieve your goals when you return to achieving them.
- Regular meditation will help you stay calm, calm, and visualize your goals.
- Yoga is also good for balancing your body and mind. It will also help you let go of anything that bothers you and prevents you from reaching your full potential.
- It is very important to stay happy and healthy all the way to your ultimate goal and remember to take care of yourself, no matter how hard you work. Make sure you sleep at least 7-8 hours a day, eat three healthy meals a day, and don't drink too much alcohol. This will help you keep your sanity stable and you will be much more likely to get what you want.
4 Learn from mistakes. If you want to make your dreams come true, you must be able to learn from your mistakes and failures, and use them to move forward. If something doesn't work out for you, then you should sit down and think about what went wrong and what you could do differently next time. Of course, sometimes you just might not get lucky, and all you can do in this case is just keep moving forward, but usually, you will see that you could have done things differently. After all, crazy is the belief that you can do the same thing in the same way, but expect different results, and you definitely don't want to fall into that category.
- Instead of letting failure discourage you, use it to return to pursuit of your goal with even greater vigor.
5 Accept constructive criticism. While it is extremely important to stay focused on your goal and not let strangers get in your way, it is just as important to listen to the people who are trying to help you. Of course, you can ignore all the negative people who try to ruin your mood and lead you astray, but if a friend you can trust or someone who knows a lot about your goal tells you that you have to do something otherwise, you should think carefully about their words and decide if their advice is helpful to you.
- Of course, just because someone cares about you or knows a lot about your goal does not mean that he or she knows the best way to proceed. It is up to you to decide which advice you follow and which one you don't.
6 Make the necessary sacrifices. You may have to give up many things you care about in order for your dreams to come true. You will have to work really hard and give up some of the things that you enjoy, such as frequent parties with friends or time with your family. You may need to abandon your goal of running in your next city marathon because training will take too long, leaving you no time to prepare for your final exams. Make a list of the things that take up your time and decide which ones you can give up.
- Nobody said it would be easy. Something like cutting back on the time you spend with your family can be quite painful, but you have to remember that you can restore balance to your life once you achieve your goal.
7 Remove all obstacles that stand in your way. Think: what is the biggest obstacle to you in pursuing your goals at the moment? A bad friend who constantly humiliates you and says that you are worthless? A relationship that leaves you no energy for yourself and your dream? A job that prevents you from being realized? Maybe a love of alcohol, because of which you sometimes get too tired to do something meaningful? Whatever obstacle (or several) stands in your way, it's time to get rid of it once and for all.
- Make a list of all the things that are holding you back from achieving your goal. Ask a close friend to help you. You may not even realize how something as simple as a TV addiction is holding you back from reaching your full potential.
8 Stop making excuses. One of the most important characteristics of highly successful and motivated people is their ability to stop making excuses and keep moving forward no matter what. Of course, you can think that your parents mistreated you and caused your low self-esteem, that you are often unlucky, that people always mistreat you, and all this may be true, but you must use all adversity to become stronger, not as an excuse for why you can't get what you want.
- Not everyone is born lucky. You can stop, feel sorry for yourself, and solve problems that need to be solved, but you cannot go through life feeling like a victim if you want to succeed.
9 Reconsider your dream if you cannot achieve it. This shouldn't make you depressed. Of course, if you work hard to complete the right plans, you will have a better chance of success. However, not all dreams come true, especially if you are dreaming of something like a career as a famous actor or writer. Even the most talented celebrities and successful people have had simple luck on their side more than once; you may be the most talented and aspiring person on earth, but you never get what you want. If this is the case, and you have already tried many times to achieve your goal, but failed, then at some point there will come a time when you will have to realize that you need to change your goals or create completely new goals in order to live a full and happy life. ...
- You cannot fully rely on your dream to come true, as you risk feeling like a failure if it doesn't come true. Instead, you must find a way to live a fulfilling life that has many positive aspects. This may require you to rethink your expectations, but you will feel more fulfilling and proud in yourself.

Tips

You must KNOW that nothing is possible to make your dream come true.
Be nice to everything you do and remember that only you can set obstacles for yourself.
Dreams will always remain dreams. If you want to surpass your dreams in real life, then you have to work hard - this is the only path to success. Believe in your dreams, don't let others prove you otherwise, believe in yourself.
From the first step to the realization of your dream, you will come across one word that many very often do not understand, but which, nevertheless, plays a very important role in the process of turning your dream into a burning desire, desires into goals, goals into an action plan , and then in life itself with a dream come true. You cannot copy someone else's method, since your method should only be yours. This word is MEDITATION, which really means "to be given deep thought about something." When you are contemplating something, you are consulting the wisdom within you to find the correct answer. This answer is embedded in yourself, because deep in your soul there is a connection with the source of power in this world.
You can't just decide that your dream has become a burning desire. As you meditate on your dream, it grows in such a way that the seed it was originally will give rise to your burning desire. In turn, burning desire will automatically become a new seed, which will grow into the goal during meditation. Your goal will become a new seed, which, again in meditation, will give rise to a plan of action that you must follow in order to achieve greatness in life.