How to do an erotic massage

Video: Top Tip for erotic massage from a Tantric Massage Therapist

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Part 2 of 3: Massage
Part 3 of 3: Targeting the Right Points
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1 Take a shower and tidy yourself up. To make the experience as pleasant as possible, you both need to feel comfortable, clean and fresh. Shower and tidy yourself up, paying special attention to your hands and nails. The nails must be clean and trimmed before you start the massage.

If you are giving your partner a massage, you can take a bath together to tune in to intimacy. Sharing a bath or shower can be a great start to an erotic massage session.
You can also start with a massage, and after that, when the whole body and hands are in oil, jump into the bath together and wash it off.

2 Create a comfortable and inviting environment. It doesn't matter if you massage on a professional massage table, on a bed or on another surface, you need to create as comfortable an environment as possible for the person you are massaging. The room should be warm enough to undress if necessary, and the sheets should be clean and fresh. Light candles and incense sticks to create a special atmosphere in the room.

Sometimes the massage uses hot stones, blindfolds, massage pins, and a variety of other devices, but sometimes it’s best to keep it simple. It is not necessary to select an intricate set of tools to give a sensual massage and give pleasure to your partner.
Calm and quiet music can be a good addition to an erotic massage, or a banal and uncomfortable mistake. Ask your partner what they prefer and avoid the Barry White clichés.

3 Use a variety of massage oils. While it is possible to do a decent massage without any oil, it will deprive your partner of the more pleasant sensations. For a more comfortable and sensual massage, use natural massage oils.

The massage oils sold are often filled with many different scents, which can give a massage an intense sensory experience. Some people prefer odorless oils, but you can try several scents to determine what works best for you.
It is not necessary to buy oil specifically designed for massage.While it may sound strange, edible oils such as olive, coconut, or cocoa butter can also be used successfully for massage. Many massage therapists prefer to apply edible base oils to the skin.
You can make your own massage oil by adding lavender, calendula, rosemary, or other aromatic herbs or essential oils to the natural oil. You can save money by mixing oils yourself and storing them in jars.

4 Talk to your partner first. The most important part of a sensual massage has nothing to do with where you put your hands. A massage will not be sensual if it does not involve trust and emotional closeness. Both before and during the massage, it is necessary to talk and listen.

When doing the massage, ask questions such as "Do you press too hard?" or “Is that so nice?” when moving to a new area of the body. Listen and adjust your massage accordingly.
Just don't turn massage into an interview. Be judicious and listen for the sounds your partner makes. Moans of pleasure are a good sign, so you need to keep doing what you are doing.

Part 2 of 3: Massage

1 Heat the oil in your hands. Pour a generous dose of oil on your hands and rub it between your palms to warm up. Then gently spread the oil over the part of your partner's body that you want to massage. As a rule, they usually start from the back and shoulders.
- Never pour oil directly onto your partner's back if it is cold. This can be uncomfortable and uncomfortable, and your partner may feel tense. Warm the oil in your palms and add more periodically if the skin begins to dry out or the oil is absorbed into the skin.
- If you want to warm up the oil, do it very carefully and always test it on your own skin before applying directly to your partner's back.
2 Press firmly and evenly with your palms. There are many different massage techniques, but there is no big secret to pleasing your partner. Use a firm but gentle touch, rubbing your partner's muscles with long strokes. Use the base of the palm for most of the movement and use the rest of the hand at sensitive points.
- Remember to massage along the muscles, not press on the bones. If you press on the elbow joint, then the person will not be very pleasant, but if you massage the inner part of the forearm, it will bring pleasant sensations to the partner.
- If you've never had a massage before, try experimenting on yourself. Rub your own shoulders and determine what will please you. Find the same points on your partner's body and remember how much pressure you put on your own shoulders. Massage your partner in the same way.
3 Use your thumbs in tense areas. Basically, massage should start with long, even strokes, and then return to problem or painful areas and work them out with your thumbs. If you find a point that your partner is particularly pleased with, or wants you to work harder, switch to your thumbs for extra support and pressure.
- Always be careful when you massage your thumbs in a circular motion over your partner's shins, the area just above the buttocks, and the lower back.
4 Focus on areas that are usually neglected. Everyone knows that touching the genitals and other erogenous zones is always pleasant. But if you jump right into these areas, the massage can be a little raw or hasty. Take your time, and as long as your partner is comfortable (chat with him!), Explore the rarely massaged areas of the body for the most sensual and thorough massage possible. Don't forget about points like:
- Wrists
- Arch of the foot
- Fingers and palms
- Back of the neck
- Ears
- Back of knees
5 Use other parts of your body. Touching your forearms, elbows, knuckles, and even an oiled chest or torso can be very effective massage techniques to help relieve your partner's tension and create a more intimate atmosphere. If your partner doesn't mind full-body contact during massage, take full advantage of your body to deliver a pleasant sensation to your partner.
- Sometimes other objects are also used in the massage. You can use rolling pins, or even the massage oil bottle itself, to roll it over sore muscles and relieve tension. But they need to be used correctly. This item may be less sensual (not to mention colder) than your hands, so keep that in mind and don't over complicate the process.
6 Do not hurry. Massage is not a quick prologue to sex. Concentrate a little on the massage itself, pampering your partner with sensual touches just for the sake of the touch itself, simply because it is pleasant, and not because it can lead to something more.
- Avoid distractions during a sensual massage. The massage will be much more sensual if you are not watching a sports channel at the same time. Turn off the TV and devote all your attention to your partner's body.

Part 3 of 3: Targeting the Right Points

1 Start at the shoulders and back of the neck. It is always best to start at the shoulders and neck, slowly and gently massaging the back of the neck along the spine with your thumbs. Work your way down the back of your neck in small circles, paying particular attention to your partner's reaction.
- The point where the neck meets the shoulders is another great massage area. Pay particular attention to the point where the shoulder blade begins. Always work along the bone, not across it.
2 Work your back on both sides of the spine. As you move to the back area, remember that the muscle that runs along the spine on both sides is best massaged slowly, this will give your partner a pleasant sensation. Use your thumbs and massage this area with small circular motions and long strokes, applying even pressure. Do not press directly on the spine, massage the muscles that run along it on the sides. This will give your partner great pleasure.
3 Massage the back of your legs. Pay special attention to the calves, massage both large muscles of the back of the legs separately. This can be the difference between a good massage and a great massage. Work your thumbs up along both tendons at the back of your thigh to work on areas that may hurt.
4 Don't forget about stops. Working the arch of your foot with your thumb can be amazing. Massage each finger separately, sparing no oil. Use your thumbs and move in small circular motions as you work out the arch of your foot. When massaging your feet, you need to use strong pressure, otherwise it can be a little ticklish.
- If you always massage from head to toe, sometimes change your tactics. Start at your feet and work your way up. Slowly.
5 Massage slowly with long strokes. When you have worked your partner's entire body and covered it with a lot of oil, use long strokes with your palms from neck to heels, moving very slowly and touching all the points you just massaged. This will be a very pleasant end to the massage. This can be done with the forearms or knuckles to diversify the partner's previous sensations in these areas.
6 Ask your partner to guide you. Always be attentive to what is pleasing to your partner. If you want to work on the front of the body or other areas as well, talk about it and decide together. Good communication is the most important part of massage.
- Consent to massage does not mean consent to sex.Never touch your partner in intimate places without first discussing this course of events.