Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Convincing the Girl to Play
• Method 2 of 3: Playing video games together
• Method 3 of 3: Lay the Foundation for Next Time
• Tips

At some point, many guys find themselves in a situation where, on the highest order of their girls, they have to part with their favorite game console. This can be avoided by using your girlfriend's proven game socialization strategy and gradually introducing her to the culture of video games, and vice versa. Make games fun for both of you! Important note: there is no guarantee that a girl will like it, so don't get mad if that doesn't happen.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Convincing the Girl to Play

1. 1 Find out if she has ever played a video game. It is unlikely that she will turn out to be a seasoned player, but, most likely, she played Mario as a child. Perhaps your girlfriend likes to play games on the internet sometimes. Knowing her game history will make it easier for you to find a game that she likes.
2. 2 Present this as a new entertainment for your time together. Remind her that you both play video games so you can spend even more time together. However, keep in mind that this will only count as “time for you two” if she really enjoys playing; don't try to force it with arguments.
3. 3 Pass it off as an exercise. If you have a “Wii fit” (video sports trainer from Nintendo), you can make games part of a physical workout that you can do together. This is one of the best ways to find games that your girlfriend not only wants to play, but that you can play together.
4. 4 Buy her game-themed things. There are tons of stylish video game-themed accessories that you could buy for your girlfriend. Tetris bracelets and mushroom earrings from Mario can be a good option.
5. 5 Bargain. At first, when trying to nudge a girl into playing video games, you may need to compromise. Offer to take her to dinner or watch her favorite romantic comedy instead.

Method 2 of 3: Playing video games together

1. 1 Pick a game that she might like. She probably won't like the creepy first person shooter, so think carefully about your choice.
   • Try to choose a game or gaming system in which she will not get confused and that does not require a quick response. Many non-players are intimidated by the need to use combinations of buttons.
   • If possible, find a game you can play together.
   • Consider your girlfriend's personality when choosing a game. Some girls prefer colorful games for all ages, such as Katamari Damacy, Bust A Move, Lego Star Wars, The Sims, or some variation of Mario. In general, girls are more fond of games in which the character of the character is well revealed and there are interesting storylines. The games in the Shin Megami Tensei: Persona series are a great example of a good storyline.
   • Do not offer games that include strippers, prostitutes, and sex. Unless she has a sense of humor about such things, she will not like these games. (Do not play such games unless you are 18 years old; never transfer any of these games to real life).
2. 2 Show her how to operate the game. Take her hands with the joystick in yours and show her how to do the basic steps so she can get started. When you feel that her hands began to move on the buttons themselves, you can move on, giving her the opportunity to play herself. Be patient, she will not master the controls instantly.
3. 3 Have fun when you play with her. If you make it fun, she'll love it even if she doesn't get too involved in the game. Joke, make her laugh, and focus entirely on spending time with her, not winning the game.
4. 4 Show understanding and support for her. When a girl is just getting started, tell her that she definitely can learn, especially if she is frustrated with her skills at first. Make her feel like she can do it. Try not to show any signs of irritation. As she plays, she will start to get better, and the game itself will start to be fun.

Method 3 of 3: Lay the Foundation for Next Time

1. 1 Teach her how to deal with muscle cramps. After the first game, her joints and muscles will be tired. Show her how you stretch and stretch your arms, because if she associates play with pain and clenched hands, she will never want to play again.
   • You can also massage her to help her feel better.
2. 2 Admittedly, she doesn't want to play for 8 hours straight. When she gets the urge to do something else, do not force her to play further and do not behave in a way that makes her feel guilty.
3. 3 Thank her for giving video games a shot. Tell her that you had fun and that you hope to play together in the future.

Tips

• If you play MMORPG or Mii, give the girl the opportunity to create a character on your account. Let her choose the look, dress style, and everything else.
• If you're just starting out, don't judge her interests or experience from video games. Some girls like video games. Some girls even like first person shooters.
• If a girl starts beating you all the time, * DO NOT * stop playing with her. Remember, you yourself wanted it. Now educate.
• If you and your girlfriend can play online games at the same time, don't ignore her or use her.
• In first-person shooters, teach a girl to navigate the map and "spots" (useful places) to give her an advantage.
• Some Nintendo consoles are intuitive and can be useful for players with no experience.This can be a great start for a newbie, as long as their previous experience wasn't based on playing with a different kind of control.
• If you are the type of person who shouts cruel curses after losing, try not to. This will show you as a not-too-decent person.
• Resist the urge to use your girlfriend for the benefit of your character or guild. Help her have a positive independent gaming experience in a game that both of you enjoy.
• When you try to get a girl to do something that you are passionate about, and she does not, she may feel entitled to demand the same from you. If she is successful in sports, you may be required to do the same.
• Over time, she may want to try more challenging games. Although not necessary. She may become Mario's guru, but she never wants to play shooting games. If you want her to try playing them, find a game where she will play with you, in cooperation.