Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 3: Choosing the Right Moment
• Part 2 of 3: Prepare for Your Visit
• Part 3 of 3: Control the Situation
• Tips
• Warnings

Sometimes an acquaintance does not immediately develop into a close friendship. Even if you are comfortable interacting with a person at work or school, the idea of ​​inviting him to your home can be intimidating. If you can't stop feeling nervous, try planning ahead. Wait for the most appropriate moment to talk with your friends and get ready for the most unexpected development of the situation in order to decide to invite friends to your home and not be afraid to hear a refusal.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Choosing the Right Moment

1. 1 Make sure you have a good rapport with the person you are going to invite. You should have common jokes with such a person, common preferences. How comfortable is it for you to be with him in the same company?
   • If you decide to invite a friend to your home, do not worry about it in advance. Otherwise, you will start to get nervous at the thought of probable results that have not yet even become possible. Remember that even in the event of a refusal, everything is not as bad as it might seem at first.
2. 2 Get parental permission. This will help you avoid embarrassing last minute cancellations. In addition, your brothers and sisters will not interfere with your presence.
3. 3 Choose the right moment to invite your friend to your place. Your plans will become more specific by choosing a time when you are passionate about discussing a topic that interests you (for example, a new episode of a TV series or a new recipe for a pie).
   • Once you've agreed on an activity that interests both of you, schedule an appointment. For example: "A new episode of our favorite TV series is coming out on Wednesday. Would you like to watch it together at my house?" or "I have all the ingredients for this recipe. Shall we cook it tomorrow after class?"

Part 2 of 3: Prepare for Your Visit

1. 1 Make sure everything is up. Call a friend and make sure he was able to negotiate with his parents and did not change his mind about coming. Remind them of your plans to build interest in the meeting.
   • Don't write a message. Text messages are quickly forgotten. If you are scared to call a person and ask questions, then do not postpone the call and go straight to the point. Say “Hello, [friend's name]! I just want to make sure you can stop by tomorrow so I can get ready. ”
2. 2 Prepare your home for the arrival of guests. Tidy up your room. If you want, then think of interesting topics of conversation or prepare games. If you are going to watch a movie or make a cake, make sure you have everything you need. Be sure to make a snack so your friend doesn't go home early just because they're hungry.
3. 3 Think of something to do while you wait for your friend. If you just sit and wait, then you can get very nervous. Say hello to your friend when she comes and also show her your home.
   • Don't think about what else to talk about. All the best conversations happen spontaneously and without preparation. Ask your friend about your common interests or what you would like to know about her.

Part 3 of 3: Control the Situation

1. 1 Don't let embarrassing moments spoil the meeting. If you feel that your friend does not want to discuss an issue, then change the topic of conversation or suggest a new interesting activity.
   • You don't have to be fun and entertain your friend. More often than not, people enjoy conversations where they have the opportunity to discuss their own interests. You can simply ask a friend to talk about her interests and listen carefully to ask questions.
2. 2 Be flexible and spontaneous. If the planned games and activities quickly get bored, then offer to do something that interests you.As a last resort, you can always go for a walk or eat. Don't let change ruin the meeting.
   • The best encounters do not require a specific occupation. The lesson serves as a pretext for meeting and talking. If you’re not doing anything specific and you’re still having fun, then don’t push yourself. And if the topic of the conversation has dried up, then a good activity will allow you to break the silence.
3. 3 Friendship often takes time. Don't expect to be best friends after the first meeting in your home. Just enjoy the fact that you were able to successfully invite someone and set up a meeting. Don't stop developing this skill.

Tips

• Always remember that rejection is part of life, not your reflection. Sometimes a refusal has nothing to do with you personally.
• Moments of silence during a conversation do not mean that everything is bad. Do not rush to get nervous because of the pauses that occur.

Warnings

• Don't plan anything if your parents have objections. They will find out everything, after which you may have problems. Do not expose yourself and your friend.
• Don't be angry if your friend declines your offer. There are many reasons for this decision. If in the future she wants to come to visit you and takes the initiative, do not let the resentment for past refusals prevail.