Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings

Teenagers are always hard to deal with, and especially young men. After reading this article, you will learn how to find the right key for your son.

Steps

1. 1 Talk to him. Young men often ignore other people because they believe they know more than others. Even if your son ignores you, in no case follow his example, on the contrary, show care and attention, let the young man see that you are not indifferent to him. When talking with your son, remember that you need to be able to speak as well as listen.
2. 2 Give him freedom. It is important for adolescents to establish themselves in the eyes of their friends, so let him do it. The main thing is not to miss the moment when the young man decides to take a dangerous or illegal step (maybe this is).
3. 3 Try to give him advice. Guys often think that they know everything, but you yourself must understand that this is simply unrealistic.If he trusts you with his secrets, do not be lazy and do everything in your power for him.
4. 4 Supervise your teen. This does not mean at all that you should keep him under lock and key, but you should make sure that he does not use profanity, that he does not return home very late, etc. While you are saying something to him, stroke his hand (this is the so-called hypnotic method of controlling behavior), although this may not go away with every teenager. Some guys react very negatively to any touch, so this can only aggravate the situation.
5. 5 Be close to him. If you see that the teenager is interested in something, support him in every possible way. This will help the young man to assert himself and feel happy.
6. 6 Spend time with him. If you are a woman, then at first you will feel uncomfortable, but this is only for the first time. When the awkwardness is gone, ask your teen what they would like to talk to you about. Boys take any setbacks very hard. Spend as much time with him as possible so that together you can find a way out of this difficult situation.

Tips

• Young men love to shiver, so try to find a worthy example for him in the person of dad, uncle or any other man.
• Don't lose your composure. As long as you remain calm and don't raise your voice, you will be in control of the situation.
• Support his interests. Many parents find it difficult to make the decisions of their children, but you try to do it. Each child is unique, and if you love and support him, he will grow up to be a worthy person!
• Take it with you on a visit. This will help him find new friends and, possibly, a girlfriend.

Warnings

• Don't make your boyfriend a mom's son.
• Do not overdo it with help, this can turn the child away from you.
• Don't force him to do what he doesn't want to do. Parties and parties are the best way to get to know life, but if the child is a stay-at-home, then don't try to rearrange him.