Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 4: Should You Go on a Date Without Permission?
• Part 2 of 4: Become Natural
• Part 3 of 4: Eliminate the obvious signs
• Part 4 of 4: Deciding the issue between friends and passion
• Tips
• Warnings

All parents have an idea of ​​when to stand allow children go on dates, but sometimes this idea does not coincide with yours. Usually not you are encouraged to disobey your parents and do something behind their back, but if you have to do it, do it right. And this article will help you with that!

Steps

Part 1 of 4: Should You Go on a Date Without Permission?

1. 1 Consider how dating without parental permission will affect your relationship with them. You're going to constantly lie to your parents about something significant. Yes, it is very important. It's enough that they think you're not ready for dating yet, so carefully consider the consequences of long-term lying and the possibility of getting caught. Before sneaking out on a date, consider the following:
   • You cannot share the joy with your parents.
   • You will lie all the time. Not once, not two or three, but all the time. It will wear you out in the end.
   • Sooner or later you will be wrong somewhere: a slip of the tongue, a chance meeting, a comment from your couple's parents ...
   • Your parents have good reasons to stop you from dating. It may be worth discussing these reasons carefully before making a decision.
2. 2 Don't forget that you are still very young. You have decades ahead of you to find that very person. It is not a matter of life and death, even if it seems different to you now.
3. 3 Think carefully about actually asking permission to go on dates. Tell your parents that there is someone who wants to date you and that you want the same. Explain that you understand their reluctance to give permission, but give them enough reason to trust you. Also, allow them to have complete leeway in setting the conditions that would control the dating process. For example, you can only meet in a company or come home early from each date. This can be much better than lying and evading constantly.
   • Read How to tell your parents you have a boyfriend for more information.

Part 2 of 4: Become Natural

1. 1 Meet with other people. This way your parents will not suspect that you are seeing someone from the group.
2. 2 Use your best friend (girlfriend) as cover. If your crush asks you out on a date, tell your parents that you are going out with a boyfriend / girlfriend of the same gender as you. Your best friend will be able to cover you when needed. Another option is to say that you are going to a party with friends.
3. 3 Don't communicate via social media. Think twice, or even three times, before using VKontakte or Facebook to talk to your boyfriend / girlfriend.
4. 4 If your parents check your phone frequently, don't send love messages!

Part 3 of 4: Eliminate the obvious signs

1. 1 Do not do anything that can easily indicate that you are dating someone (for example, traces of being hicked).
2. 2 Be calm and even a little cold. Chances are, you feel excited and happy when you start dating someone. Most people will notice this change or "glow" emanating from you and begin to speculate. This will be especially obvious if you are usually gloomy and gloomy. If your parents ask you what's going on, answer, "I just think you can't frown all the time. I try to change and be more grateful to everything."
3. 3 Keep hiding as soon as you can. You must understand that this performance can go on forever, and you have to carry it in yourself, and on the surface you continue to pretend that everything is going as usual. Try to hide the relationship until you break up or your parents decide you can start dating. Once you get permission, tell them about your partner the next day.
4. 4 Deny. If your parents bring up the daunting question, "Do you have a boyfriend / girlfriend?", Say no, and that you don't even think about it. This is an outright lie, and if they have evidence to the contrary, you must understand that you are trapped and that from now on everything will not be so good.

Part 4 of 4: Deciding the issue between friends and passion

1. 1 If possible, do not tell your friends about it. If you can't hide it from them, only open up to a couple of mutual friends and make them swear they won't betray you to anyone. If they have told someone, express your disappointment and ask not to tell anyone else. If the person your friend has trusted begins to pass on the news, ask him to stop. If he doesn't stop, tell him that it was a joke and that you and your friend are kidding each other.
2. 2 If your boyfriend or girlfriend wants to meet your parents, be prepared to explain everything. Explain why you cannot do this at the moment.

Tips

• If your boyfriend / girlfriend is allowed to go on dates, but you are not, ask his / her parents not to tell yours, because sooner or later, they may meet, and a similar phrase will leak out in the conversation: “I can't believe our children are like this meet for a long time. " The web of lies grows, making it harder to keep a secret.

Warnings

• Consider seriously deciding not to date this person without parental approval. Sooner or later, they may find out everything. Others may not help, but continue to chat. And even if you think you’ll be careful, don’t forget that you live in a digital world, which means that you can be discovered anywhere, wherever you are.