Content

• Steps
• Advice
• Warning

Nowadays, people seem to be using text and email to communicate with each other. So the old love letter - especially one, a handwritten letter - has something special and rare about it. Love letters are mementos that can be held, read over and over again and cherished in your heart. They are invaluable gifts to someone you love. Writing a love letter is not difficult, but it does take time and thought to express how you truly feel.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Prepare to write letters

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   Get over your fear. You are in control of what you write or don't write. You don't have to imitate a certain love letter or copy poetry or cheesy lines if you don't want to. The best thing you can do is express yourself in the letter.

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   Create an atmosphere. Go somewhere private and close the door. Try to eliminate as many distractions as possible, including noise, smart electronics, and distracting objects. Create an atmosphere that inspires you with candlelight or music.
   • Maybe there's a song that reminds you of the person you love. Find that song and play it while you think;
   • You can also bring a photo of the person you love to see.

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   Reflect on your feelings. We all have moments when we feel deeply about the people we love. Evoke that emotion - a moment when all your attention is on the person and you are completely lost and lost in that love. Experience the physical and mental sensations of the moment as deeply as possible. Be sure to jot down a few sentences describing your feelings and whatever words come to mind to describe how you feel them.

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   Think about the person you love. You must love him or her for some reason. There's something about them that attracts you and something that has made you love them until now. They have a certain trait such as appearance, personality, dignity, temperament, humor or strength that you want them to know that you love. Tell him or her all that you love about them and how much you value them and what they do for you.
   • Think about the question what is the other half to you? Your best friend? You confidently? Make a list of all the things you love and admire about your partner.
   • Now, let's formulate full sentences based on that list. “I love the soft feeling of holding your hand”, or “I love the way you look at me and let me know everything is going to be all right”, or “Your smile and relaxed laugh make every day of your life. you become brighter ”.
   • Don't just focus on external features. This can make your letter shallow and flawed. However, you also won't want to completely avoid the physical appeal because it will become overly impractical. Love letters are meant to show affection in a courteous and respectful way - not necessarily sexy.

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   Use memories between the two to help you. Perhaps you had a lot of special moments with the person you love. You have a certain memory with your other half that only the two of you know. Memories of those experiences deepen your relationship.
   • Think about the story of when you two first met or felt a love flash. There is a moment when you know you want to be with the other person. Take note of that story and everything you remember about it - from the clothes you two wore at the time to where it all happened and how nervous or confident you were.

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   Thinking about the future. Your relationship has a past, but it also has a future you want to encourage in your love letter. If you are apart, point out all the things you want to do together when you meet again. If you have made a mutual promise, discuss some of your goals, wishes, and dreams about your future together. Please write down all of them.

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   Consider whether that could be your last day alive. Throughout history, many love letters have been sent back from soldiers on the battlefield. It can give you some perspective on what to say if there is no tomorrow. Write down all the precious words and don't be shy. advertisement

Part 2 of 3: Outline the letter

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   Write rough drafts. Don't worry too much about grammar and spelling at this step. The new message is the key, and once you are done you will be able to review the letter and correct any mistakes. Handwriting is a way of expressing how you feel, and for now you want to focus on absolute honesty and open up about what you are feeling and why.
   • Take your time and don't rush. If this is your first love letter, keep that in mind. Everything is progressing differently, so accept that there may be some difficulties or mistakes.
   • Use your tone of voice to express your emotions. Don't imitate how others write or say. You want this letter to be unique to you and your partner in a way that only you can. It must be sincere and reflect yourself on every page.
   • Remember your spouse when writing the letter as well as your relationship level. Confessing your feelings to someone for the first time can be a little different than writing a letter to your 20-year wife.
   • Remember to show your love a certain part of the letter. Just one sentence "I love you" is simply enough.

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   Opening letter. Tell the person you love know why you are writing this letter. You want to make it clear from the start that this is a love letter. Think about what made you decide to write this letter. You could say something like "Recently, I've been thinking a lot about my love for you and I want you to know how much I love you."
   • Don't offend the person you love or downplay yourself or your feelings in the letter. Be very confident about what you are feeling and what you say to avoid confusion.

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   Write the main body of the letter. This is the part where you write about your memories, stories, and all the things that you appreciate for your partner. Tell the person what you love about them, why you love them, how they make you feel, and remind them of a special story about your love story. Tell him or her how your life has improved and how it would have been without them.
   • The purpose of a love letter is to express deep feelings that you find it difficult to convey in person. Take this opportunity to say more than you normally would and take it to a deeper level. Use the ideas you've recorded earlier to help you.
   • If you're not writing poetry, consider including a poem by a favorite poet or a quote that shows more clearly what you are trying to express. Be sure to include the author's name at all times to avoid plagiarism and trick the other party into believing it is yours.
   • If you want a little cheesy, do it. But be honest, and if your partner loves you, he or she will love the letter too.

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   Positive. Everything that you are writing will probably be saved. Do your best to avoid bringing up negative issues in the letter. Also do not be critical or ambiguous. This is your chance to tell your loved one how happy they made you feel and how wonderful your life was with them, not to review your mistakes or repeat. bad memories.
   • A good way to keep the letter in a positive direction is to talk about what you are feeling right now. Yes, you want to reiterate special stories about how you fell in love with that person, but you also want to make sure your partner knows that you still love them or even more. original.
   • Try saying something like, "Ten years have passed now, and I still feel pained when you smile at me", or "I love you more than ever before."

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   Repeat your promise. Talk about a future you hope to experience together. Remind them of how important this love is and how long you want it to last. Tell them your level of determination and nothing will get in the way of your love, loyalty and conscientiousness, let them know. Describe what forever means to you and what it would be like if you were with your other half.

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   Closing letter. You also need to end the letter positively. You can end with a brief description of how you feel about your love. You could write something like, "Hope I'll dream of you tonight", or "I can't wait until the day when we'll be together forever." advertisement

Part 3 of 3: Complete letter

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   Choose a nice pen and paper. Give the other half something beautiful they can touch, feel and, if they're lucky, lie under their pillow every night. It's better to write on plain paper color (like white), soft (like cream color) or sexy (like skin color). Choosing high quality paper will feel better to the touch and show how much care you care for the letter.
   • If you don't have a writing tool, you can use plain paper or a notebook page. The message you want to convey is much more important than the paper you write.
   • You can turn ordinary paper into classic paper colors, or even create your own writing paper if you want to do something interesting.
   • Use black or brown ink to make the letter look close and elegant. Avoid using "teacher's ink" such as blue and red as it will look like you are grading a homework assignment.

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   Use an informal greeting. Call the person "I love", "I love you", "beautiful girl", "the person I love the most", or a friendly name, if appropriate. If the two of you are already lovers you can say “mine” (eg, “To my dearest ____”), but don't if you're using a letter to express your feelings. it can be viewed as undesirable and possessed. Instead use more distant statements like “Dear ____,”.

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   Enter the date. Enter the date the letter was written (date, month, year). This is a memento to your relationship that will be preserved for many years to come. Dates are important and will help return love back to the time when he or she received the love letter from you. It will be read over and over again and, so accept that some of your words at this point in the letter will be referenced to you at a later time.

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   Rewrite the letter. Use the draft letter to write the final letter. Make sure there are no stains or ink marks on the paper and that the writing is easy to read. The art of handwriting is very important so take a lot of time to write and try to write each word as neatly as possible. You will want your partner to be able to read and have fun reading the letter.

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   Closing letter. This is goodbye. Some suitable ending letters such as "My lover", "Always be the person by your side", "Hug and kiss you", "Kiss me", "Love you", and "Love you forever". If appropriate, add a friendly name, a joke between the two of you, or even a response to a question that hasn't been answered for a long time to make it more personal.
   • If you want more romance, try this simple yet passionate conclusion. "Love you forever" or "Belong to you forever" can be helpful.

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   A little more personal touch. You can include something special with the letter as another love souvenir. It can be petals, a favorite tea bag, or even spray a little perfume or aromatherapy on the paper.You can also print a hand on the back of the letter or put a lipstick on the paper.

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   Put the letter in the envelope. Fold the text on the side and place it in an envelope that says the recipient. You can choose an envelope of the same type as writing paper for a more dramatic effect. If you want, you can make your own or even fold the letter into an envelope.
   • Or, you can curl the letter and tie it with a ribbon or string.
   • A romantic stamp, like a bouquet stamp, can make your envelope more lovely. If you want, you can put the stamp upside down, which usually means "I love you".

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   Surprise your other half. Mail through a Special Delivery Service if you really want to get the attention of your loved one. Surprise can make a message stand out and make the experience more emotional and memorable for your partner. You can also choose to hide the letter under your pillow, in your drawer or send it in a plate for dinner or breakfast.
   • You may want to wait a while before sending the message. Once you have finished writing it, just leave it and check it again before sending it out. Find a spelling mistake and make sure there's nothing in it that you will regret later. Then send it in, and prepare to receive a warm response from the other half.

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   Write many other love letters. Don't make it a once-in-a-lifetime event. Make it a habit to write letters to someone you care about for birthdays, anniversaries, time apart, time together or for no special reason. The more you write, the easier it becomes to write love letters and your love letters will also become more meaningful. advertisement

Advice

• Be aware of what you say.
• The most important thing when writing a love letter is that it should truly come from your heart. Don't just copy a few cheesy romantic quotes online, and don't let friends / family write them down for you. Let your heart speak.
• Love letters are great for a relationship "refreshing", be it for a special anniversary or so.
• If you spray perfume on the letter, make sure you don't get it wet!
• To make a difference, write the letter in stylized font. Not only does this help you think more carefully about what you say, it also makes the letter look a lot more impressive.
• When you write a letter, don't ring around. Get to the point - if the letter you know is about your undying love for your partner, focus on that. Don't write anything like "I like your dog necklace, it suits your eyes well" or something unrelated like that.

Warning

• Remember that not everyone finds that romantic love letters like you. If the recipient doesn't seem appreciative, try not to feel offended. It is a symbol of your love and hopefully real pleasure in writing and giving, not a response you receive.