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It can be quite awkward to discuss sexuality and reproduction for the first time with a child. However, letting your kids learn about these topics from you rather than exposing them to inaccurate news while playing with friends is best for them. Prepare for this discussion in advance, rely on outside sources if necessary, and take time to ask questions. Carefully planning and discussing sexual topics with your children will make them become more confident, more sexual, sexual, reproductive and instinctive.

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Method 1 of 3: Prepare Discussions

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   Decide what topics you want to discuss. Over time, you should have lots of discussions with your children about sexuality, sexuality and fertility. Be prepared about the topics that you feel most comfortable discussing with your child in advance.
   • What are you most comfortable talking about? Some parents feel comfortable discussing the professional side of reproductive activity, but many shy away from the topic because they fear that they are not knowledgeable enough to fully explain it. Many parents can talk about relationships, consensus, and sexual readiness, but others are uncomfortable being too natural with their children. Find out what topics you can share on your own without the need for external documents.
   • You should try to talk frankly about the topics that you feel most comfortable with and rely on references to pieces of knowledge that you are not confident about.
   • Be mindful of your child's age. You should always answer your child's questions about their bodies, but depending on your parenting style, you may not be discussing sexual and reproductive issues for the time being until your baby is 10-12 years old . Some topics will also be suitable until your child's teens. It's okay to talk to your 10-year-old daughter about menstruation and the concept is okay, but your child may not understand safe sex and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) until a few years older

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   Get outside information. As mentioned, you may need to rely on certain external sources of information about the areas covered in the sexual conversation.
   • Coil What Makes A Baby Cory Silverberg's (What Makes a Child) by Cory Silverberg is a great book for young children when parents are trying to explain to their child about pregnancy and childbirth. If you are unsure about how to use child-friendly words in a discussion, this book will be the perfect resource.
   • With information in English, the BishUK online site will provide parents and teenagers with a wide range of topics, not only about the physiological aspects of sexual intercourse but also the effects of sex. to emotion. You can submit such sites online to your teen when they reach their teens.
   • The MTV music television channel builds the online site mysexlife.org, part of the series Teen Mom (roughly translated as Teen Mother), to support teenagers to better understand sex, sexual instincts and how to make safe decisions for the body.
   • Speakeasy, a Family Planning Association, has online guides that help parents talk to young children about sexuality and reproduction when they are of different ages.

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   Understand that your child certainly knows more than you think. Many parents underestimate the amount of sexual and reproductive information young children receive, even at a young age. Try to maintain a calm manner when discussing with your child and not be angry, shocked, or surprised when the child reveals that they already know about some aspects of the topic.
   • If your child has sex education at school, try to find out what is being taught. You can take a look at the material your child brought home, but it would be better if you chat directly with the teacher and ask about the lesson outline or plan.
   • Even young children have a certain understanding of sexuality and sexual instincts. They monitor the content on the radio and other media and talk to each other about it. Older children tell younger children about a number of topics, and your child can ask for more information or verify from you about what they hear while playing with other children. Please calmly face those questions.
   • If your child says they know what you're trying to explain, stay calm. You want your child to end the conversation with positive feelings and want to come back and ask more questions for you. You don't want to react in a way that provokes fear or humiliation in your child.

Method 2 of 3: Discuss

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   Occasionally arrange important discussions. Be prepared to answer questions about your child's sexuality for the rest of his or her life, but at one point or another, you will need a serious conversation. The right time may be when your child is a certain age, before or after starting sex education at school, or any time when changes occur that cause your child to have questions about sexuality, sexual and reproductive instincts.
   • Let your child know in advance that you want to talk about sex and reproduction, but put it in a positive way. Say something like, "Since you are grown up, I think you have been responsible enough to learn about some of the adult-world things you might be curious about."
   • It's best when your kids hear the first things about sex from you, so aim to have a sexual conversation with them when they're young. As mentioned above, you can carefully choose topics you want or don't want to discuss, but try to talk about sex when your child is 10 years old.

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   Discuss menstruation with your daughter. Your daughter is likely to have her period as early as 10 years old, so make sure she feels comfortable asking you about her period.
   • Your baby should be aware of the physiological features that lead to menstruation. Medical simulations of the female reproductive organs will be of benefit to your discussion. As mentioned, if you are not confident in your medical knowledge, use outside sources when discussing menstruation.
   • Your daughter should also know that she can and should reach out to you when her first period. You can help your baby find the right tampon or tampon, as well as help him cope with the emotional effects of menstruation.
   • Your daughter may know what her period is, or at least know the phrase. You can start with the question, "Do you know any friends in class who have periods?" and see how I respond. Allow your child to ask questions during the discussion.

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   Discuss wet dreams, cum and penis erections with your son. Although a 10 year old child may not be aware of the mechanism of safe sex, a son may begin to experience euphoria and penile erections from the age of 9. Discuss these topics with your child early so that your child understands that these are normal during adulthood.
   • Many children have a glimpse of penile erections when they see other children experience it or hear rude jokes about the phenomenon while playing. Start by asking if your child understands what a penis erection is and gives them information about the physiological processes that lead to ejaculation, erection, and ejaculation.
   • Guys need to understand that erection is a hormone response and is normal for puberty and adulthood. You should start exchanging early as boys may experience their first ejaculation due to wet dreams, they will feel confused and even scared by what is happening.

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   Don't hesitate to talk about hot issues. Many parents feel that controversial issues should not be brought up in sexual and reproductive exchanges with their children. However, it is better for your child to absorb information about these topics from you instead of misinformation from a savvy teen.
   • Much of the more controversial topics about sexual instincts should be spent for later conversation, when your child is entering high school. Around that time, many of your child's friends and classmates may have tried sex.
   • The average teen age when a teen has first sexual intercourse is 15, so make sure your baby, who is this age, can talk to you about sexuality and sexuality. Talk to your child about topics like safe sex, contraception, STDs and oral sex as soon as your baby starts high school.
   • Make sure to talk about the emotional aspects of sex and sexual instincts as well. Your child should understand that sex can affect their emotions, especially when they are young, and that they should not make any decisions about their bodies when emotionally ready.

Method 3 of 3: Maintain Exchange

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   Let your children know they can reach you and ask questions. Continuous communication is important, because you cannot encapsulate all of the basic questions related to this topic in just a few conversations.Make sure your baby knows they can ask you questions at any time about sexuality, sexuality and reproduction.
   • Staying calm during important discussions will benefit you. Treating each question in a calm and nonjudgmental manner will more likely help your child feel more comfortable asking questions later.
   • Make it clear that sexual dialogue is not a one-time opportunity. End the conversation by saying, "If you have any questions later, don't hesitate to come and ask me / mom."
   • Give your child age-appropriate materials to read on their own. Your child may read a pamphlet, flyer or page online when confused and turn to you to ask.

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   Find opportunities for your child to learn. Don't limit discussion about sexuality and reproduction to times when your child asks you a specific question or when you decide that it's time to talk about the topic. Look for opportunities to teach your child about sex in everyday life.
   • Highlight positive and negative examples of sex and relationships that you see on movies, television shows, or the news. You can also learn more about reproduction through nature documentaries.
   • Marriage, divorce, pregnancy and childbirth are a few of the factors that cause a lot of questions for young children. Always answer their questions honestly and frankly. Remind your child that there are many different types of families and that is a normal part of life.
   • If you see stains on your bed sheets, most likely caused by wet dreams, masturbation, or menstruation, take it as an opportunity to discuss some specific topics with your child. However, make sure you start the conversation without judgment. You don't want your kids to feel like they're being scolded.

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   Set an example for your children in healthy attitudes toward sex and personal relationships. One of the best things you can do to make your child feel more comfortable and knowledgeable about sex, sexual and reproductive instincts is to set an example for your child in healthy attitudes towards such topics.
   • If you and your spouse or partner take care of the child together, make sure you and your partner treat each other with respect, kindness, and love in front of the children. Minimize the argument, when the argument happens, try to let your child see how the two of you reconcile. Making sure they understand small arguments is a normal and healthy part of any relationship.
   • Many young children learn about sex for the first time because they accidentally find pornographic products from their parents. While these can be the healthy aspects of many people's relationships, they are not suitable for young children. Try to keep these adult products out of the reach of children to avoid embarrassment in children.
   • If you are raising the children on your own, talk to them about relationships and dating. Introduce your baby to your partner only when you feel ready, and make sure your partner knows proper manners in front of them.