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• Steps
• Advice
• Warning

If the guy you're looking at doesn't know you exist even if you try not to take your eyes off him, then it's time to change to let him notice you more. To attract a guy, you need to show kindness, find common ground, befriend him, and always shine naturally. In addition, you should also be yourself and have a clear awareness of your actions to avoid misunderstandings. It sounds awful, but it's possible to get him interested in you.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Capture his attention

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   Friendly. If he doesn't know you exist, it will be difficult for you to get him to notice you. Therefore, create conditions for the two of you to get to know each other by getting to know each other by getting to know his friends, joining the club he is a member of, or asking his acquaintances to introduce you to each other. However, be careful if you don't want him to know your feelings, someone else might say something that will take your chances and make the situation awkward.
   • If he's in the same class, try talking before or after class (talking during class will cause negative and unexpected attention). You can talk about the teacher, what the project is doing or make a joke when he is listening. It sounds intimidating, but you'll be happy to take the initiative.
   • You can try talking by saying, “Yesterday's topic was so difficult. Are you finished? ”.

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   Find common ground. When you two have something in common, it's easier to talk. You can try some of his hobbies, but don't become a completely different person. That is really not worth it. If you don't have the same interests, don't worry, just ask about his interests or find out what you know he likes.
   • For example, if you've never watched his favorite TV show, you might mention it and ask him about it to start a conversation. You can say "Have you seen it?" Let him talk about my hobbies and get excited.

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   Find out more about him. You should befriend the guy before he knows it and begins to reciprocate your feelings. If you are not yet friends, you can always start with casual conversations (such as the weather, what happened that day, elections, essays ...) and if it doesn't work, you can always ask to borrow a pencil or paper and keep talking.
   • Once you get to know him better, you can joke or tease him, even a little flirting - but don't go overboard. He will feel embarrassed if you take the initiative to flirt too much when the two of you don't know each other yet.
   • Make friends with him on Facebook or follow Twitter or Instagram if you haven't already. This will also help you learn more about his interests and interests. You can “Like” his post every time you see it to show that you are interested in what he shares.

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   Happy. Guys are often attracted to and noticed by funny people, especially those with a cheerful personality. Try joking with him or making fun of it if you feel comfortable. It's also fascinating that you can make him laugh.
   • For example, you might joke gently by saying, “You know why I'm short? Because I escaped from the house of the Seven Dwarfs ”or something humorous to show that you have confidence in yourself and want to make a good laugh.
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Method 2 of 3: Make friends with him

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   Flirt with him. There's nothing more tragic than the fact that he just sees you as a friend. Therefore, you should make sure that you are not seen as "a normal friend" or "scratching" him. Of course, you have to get to know him first and maybe you will make a great friend (this is also a good thing when the person you pursue becomes one of best friends), but remember a little more the will to make a difference from his comrades.
   • For example, to feel different from a normal friend, you can gently touch his shoulder, back, or arm.

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   Avoid talking too much about yourself. He will be attracted when you allow him to share about your life. This shows that you really care about him and what he says. Don't try to say too much yourself; He wants to get to know you, but you should give him a chance to talk about you too.
   • When he asks questions about you, you should still answer them, but don't focus too much on yourself. You can redirect the conversation to him by asking additional questions like "Do you have a sibling?" or "What do you like about your family?".
   • Ask about his passions or hobbies by saying something like "Have you read any books lately?" or "Which video game do you like?"

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   Laughing cheerfully then joking. One of the best ways to show that you like him and have a lot of fun around him is to give him a good laugh every time he jokes! Not only will this give him more confidence, it also shows that you have the same sense of humor and that you are feeling funny about something together. For many people, a sense of humor is one of the most important things they look for in their partner.
   • If he says something funny, respond or add your own joke. For example, if the two of you are talking about celebrities, you could also add something more interesting to the conversation.
   • However, avoid saying bad things like making fun of someone else's appearance or making fun of someone you both know. Don't let him think that you're going to make jokes when he isn't around or you seem rude.

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   Go to places he likes. If you know how much he likes often, you can draw attention by being there often. For example, if he likes to go to a certain coffee shop, you can invite a few friends over, maybe you will meet him there. You can also go there to study or do your homework.
   • If you know he is going to a concert, you can see if you can find tickets to attend. This gives you a chance to meet and greet him by chance. In addition, this also allows the two of you to go out together.
   • Try joining a club or activity in which he is also present. This way, you will have the opportunity to chat and hang out with him.
   • However, be careful not to appear in front of him all the time lest he feels bothered or thinks you are prying. Always be yourself and if he likes activities like you, the better!
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Method 3 of 3: Take care of your appearance

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   Keeps hair healthy. Hair is the first thing that guys notice in women, and research shows they are attracted to healthy hair. If your hair is dyed or damaged, you should incubate it with coconut oil overnight and wash it off the next morning. This is a great way to take care of dry and damaged hair. If you have healthy hair, avoid overusing dyes or chemicals that can damage and break your hair.

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   Keep personal hygiene. You probably don't want your body to smell bad when standing next to the person, to give them a bad impression of you. You don't have to be fragrant, clean all the time, just shower every day, use a body deodorant or spray on perfume to impress him. The fragrant body or at least the well-groomed appearance is really attractive.

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   Always be yourself. Don't force yourself to dress like everyone else and don't worry about wearing famous brands. If you feel comfortable, you will be confident in yourself and others will also feel comfortable around you. Furthermore, if he really likes you, he will not care about the small flaws in appearance that you often worry about when you see in the mirror. advertisement

Advice

• Be careful when telling someone about him because they like him everywhere.
• If you are not yet close friends with him (because you are often shy), try making friends with his acquaintances.
• Always friendly! Remember to radiate positive energy, ask simple questions, and show interest in what he says.
• Don't flirt with guys around him. Jealousy is a bad feeling. This will lower his self esteem and care for you depending on his level of confidence.
• The fact that you want to move fast will scare him. First you need to make sure he is comfortable around you, then go further.
• When he jokes, you will laugh while gently touching his arm.
• If your joke is unimpressive and he still smiles, he may have noticed you.
• Laugh every time he jokes.
• If you show him that you are a kind, kind person and always help others, he will be attracted to them. Always be strong, be yourself, and stay positive.
• Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend.
• Make friends with his best friend so you can get to know him better.
• If you know that his siblings are friendly, you can try chatting and making friends with them. Try to get along with them.

Warning

• Don't be a different person in the presence of his friends, he will notice a sudden change in your mood or personality and think you're fake.
• Try to behave naturally. This is easy said, but difficult to do. Make sure you don't laugh too much or get too excited and do something silly, lest you regret it later.
• Don't stare. Just a glance. You will look at him for a few seconds. When he meets your eye contact, you can smile shyly, look down, blush and then smile. This action is very cute and attractive.
• Don't allow yourself to spend too much time with one person if your emotions don't come from both sides.
• Don't lose yourself. You have to think about yourself first.
• He also has friends, and it's perfectly normal for the two of you not to stick together. Let him have his own life. Don't let the tall guy run away because you are always standing by your side.
• Understand that falling in love with someone is temporary and if you can't reach this person, there are others waiting for you.
• Guys are often attracted to a little challenge, so try teasing him. However, only moderate challenges should be challenged, as men will often be discouraged if their efforts fail.
• Don't be jealous when he talks to another girl - join the conversation!