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• Steps
• Advice
• Warning
• What you need

Getting the phone number of someone you like is hard, but knowing what to text them is even more difficult. This article will give you some pointers on texting your crush so you can feel more confident.

Steps

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   Respectfully greet. Everyone likes to use the phrase "How have you been?", But to be honest, let's put it down. When you use this question, how will you receive a response? "It's okay, what about you?", Or "I'm still the same". So get creative and try something different with the question "How have you been?" or "What are you doing?" An interesting question is easier to get attention. The person may reply "I'm going out", and that's fine, because at least you know what they're really doing, not be flustered by "I'm still the same".

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   Do not be impatient. If you text and she doesn't respond, be patient. Don't text again or ask if she got your text. Stay calm, or else you will give off a path of misery.

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   Understand that most people will not reply in too much detail, especially if they don't know that you like them, or that they don't have feelings for you. Accept it for the time being, because maybe they like you but are shy, or they are a little clumsy when texting on the phone.

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   End of texting at the right time. You should accept messages containing only a smiley face or "Hahaha". If the chat is dead-end with those messages, stop. If you continue texting on a different subject, like, "Last week's homework was difficult," you seem pathetic again, so stop as soon as you have time. If the two of you got closer, you could say hello first, like "I'm going to listen to music. Can we talk later?" If you are not very close, just stop texting. Honestly, it gets annoying when one person wants the conversation to end quickly, and one keeps texting nonstop.

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   Be the one to say goodbye first. That might make the other person want to talk to you more. You need to realize when it is time to end and say hello to the other person first. They will then fall in love with you because of this, as lazy and awkward conversations often end in tediousness.

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   Do not disturb the other person. Unless it's a great day, the two of you are flirting and feel texting each other as enjoyable. Otherwise, you should never start texting them more than twice a day.
   • Plus, never try to text again after they've stopped. It is considered annoying and obnoxious in most cultures.

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   You should also ask from time to time if you are bothering them, for example when you think they are busy at work or on homework when you receive your text. Just ask when they imply that they are busy and need to focus.
   • For example, if they say they're doing their English homework, you can text "Do I bother you? I don't want to distract you." They may politely reply to you. But if they say they'll text you back later, don't expect it. If after an hour or two they don't text any more, don't panic. Let them text you when they want.

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   Don't use too much slang online. Using shorthand on the Internet is not often considered attractive. Intermingling a word or two is okay once in a while, but never text a long, language-filled message online.
   • Always be in harmony with their style. For example, if they know what "no bit" is but prefer to text in full words, give it a try. Maybe they say this because they don't like the language on the internet, and they'll also find it easier to talk to you if you use the same language. The same goes for people who prefer to use languages ​​online.

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   Accept that everything you do is for "them". This sentence says it all. Everything you do is for that person. Remember that everyone likes to talk about themselves, and this will benefit you as you will get to know them better. You might ask questions like "What do you like to do?" or "Do you play any sports?" However, you should wait until you know more about them before asking these questions.
   • Maybe on the third message, you will start to question their personality and preferences. After a few questions, let them know that you are bored and want to know more about them, which is why you ask so much.
   • When talking, it's important not to scare them. Develop the conversation gradually after each question, such as "What sport do you play?" - "I play sword". - "That's good! I like to play that game but haven't had a chance yet." - "This is fun, you should try it." - "How is it?" And so on ... Even if you don't like it, just pretend you do.

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    For girls: Sometimes, when you think that you are a man, you need to talk first. That's not true, you are the one who likes him. Of course, you shouldn't text him every day; you can text every other day or every few days, so he will have a chance to "warm up". Maybe he'll love texting you too, who knows.
    • Also, don't act like you're haunted. Don't flirt with him from the very first text, pretend he's just the girlfriend you want to get to know, and flirt a little after a while. If all goes well, you can flirt with him a little more.

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    For boys: No one likes a brawler, so get to know her well before deciding on your feelings. She can be pretty and personality, so try talking to her face to face while also texting her to see who she is. Flirt with her when you find out how you feel about it.

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    Always interesting. "Hi there." "Hello." "How are you?" "I'm normal. And you?" "Also." "Yes." "We won a hockey match yesterday." "Congratulation." "Thank you." ... Don't do that! Talk creatively. Act as if you genuinely enjoy chatting with them and you are happy to do so.
    • By texting "Hello! What are you doing?", You will save characters - in case the number of characters in the message is limited. Always have a back-up topic to talk about, such as: "Merry Christmas! Did you receive any interesting gifts?" Or "I can't believe it's 2017".
    • Or "Do you know what a PPAP is? I just finished watching it and wondered if I did;)". Be an interesting person. Above all, be a trustworthy person so they won't be afraid to ask you for help when needed. Trust is the key in all relationships.

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    Always funny, mischievous and a bit chubby. Text like "Hey! Stop thinking of me!: P" or "I just made you look on the phone without any reason. Looks like I can control you already =] "

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    Don't text like: "Hello!" "How are you?" "How's it going?" "How weekend?" "Are you okay lately?" "Wish you a good day!". Be more creative, because everyone gets those messages all the time. It's tedious, so you need to find more interesting texting ways to stand out. advertisement

Advice

• Don't text them a hundred times if they haven't responded to your message in time. Just text once and wait for an answer. Don't disturb them.
• If you disagree with any of the advice in this article, do not use it. You should trust your intuition, everything can be better thanks to that.
• Always happy. Make sure you exude optimism in your texting.
• Don't cling and ask too much.
• Turns out to be an interesting person if they ask you something. For example: "Have you done anything good lately?" Tell about the great things you did. Don't forget to get creative with your own words.
• Don't text too often lest they get scared.
• If they like funny stuff, send them funny pictures and a little joke.
• Mention what they have told you.
• Keep it short and simple.
• Don't always talk about a topic. That person will think you are boring.
• Do not be impatient. If they haven't replied, just leave them alone. Maybe they're busy. Don't disturb them with another message.
• Text it in a way that makes the person comfortable with you. If you confuse them, they will lose interest immediately.
• Don't talk more than twice a day, they'll be afraid of you. This is the experience of the first!
• Do not text more than three consecutive messages.
• Use multiple punctuation marks. This will show your interest and give you plenty of time. For example: "I'm going to watch soccer, will you come with me ?? It will be fun, especially with me !!
• Don't assume they don't like you when they don't respond immediately. Maybe they're just busy. Don't overthink.
• Don't worry. If they don't respond immediately, be patient.
• Don't use too much vulgar language. They may assume you hate them.
• If you don't get a response, don't think too much and get nervous. Don't text them repeatedly in a strained tone. They will think you are weak and annoying. Usually, everyone likes to talk to a cheerful and optimistic person. Then everything will be fine. If they don't want to talk to you, they'll tell you straightforwardly.
• Always be funny if you're a guy. The girls are very fond of humor.

Warning

• Are not Talk about someone you used to like or have a crush on. That can distract and disappoint if they are liking you.
• Are not Tell them they're hot. If that happens and you want to say the same to a girl, use other words like "pretty," cute "or something like that. For a guy, praise him" cute "or "attractive." In general, you can say anything, as long as you don't make them think you have an impure intent.
• Be careful with your message. If you send out unhealthy content, they won't respect you. Play happily and playfully "after" getting to know each other better, not being ungrateful and sick.

What you need

• Mobile phone with texting function (Best is unlimited text message type).