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A person's attractiveness comes from personality rather than appearance. Having an attractive personality is an important factor in helping you make friends and build long-term relationships. To have an attractive personality, you need to cultivate natural communication skills, develop a sense of humor, and build confidence. These traits will help you sympathize and attract others, making them want to get closer to you.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Natural communication

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   Listenable. Listening is often forgotten in today's society. Instead of replying to text messages, checking emails, or thinking about what to eat tonight, focus on what the other person is saying. Show your attention and focus by commenting on the stories they tell or asking questions.

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   Sincere speaking. No one wants to be deceived. Be honest with everyone. If you can't do something about it, tell them the truth rather than wait until the last minute to tell them you can't do it. When people want to hear from you, answer honestly.
   • To be honest and to be rude are two different concepts. For example, if a friend asks you what you think about the shirt he is wearing and you don't like it, you might reply, "I really like you in navy blue", instead said: "I don't like it at all, it looks so bad".

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   Know "how to say" and "what to say". It doesn't matter what you say by how you say it. If you compliment someone but they think you are using a sarcastic tone, that compliment doesn't make any sense. Therefore, you need to be very careful in how you speak. If people often misunderstand you, you should change your way of speaking. Please ask everyone to comment for you.

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   Helping people communicate with each other. You can organize meetings for people to exchange, as simple as meeting at the park or more upscale like a luxurious dinner at a restaurant. Either way, it shows that you care about and want to expand your friendships. advertisement

Part 2 of 3: Have a sense of humor

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   Laugh at yourself. If you do something stupid, laugh yourself instead of feeling embarrassed. This shows that you are comfortable being yourself. People with a sense of humor tend to be more attractive and make others enjoy being around.
   • Remember, you need to be humorous at the right time and in the right place. A funny story can help people get to know each other quickly or relieve stress very well, but it can also ruin a serious conversation if it doesn't match.

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   Show enthusiasm for everything. Even if there are things that make you a little uncomfortable, accept it with a smile, open mind, and humor. Not every day is a perfect day, but enthusiasm will help you get things done. If you behave like that, everyone will enjoy being around you more.

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   Smile first. If you want to have a more attractive personality, just laughing is enough. But if you value making others laugh and put smiles higher on the list of priorities, you will be a happier person.
   • A great way to remind yourself to laugh more (and spread the laughter to others) is to subscribe to daily jokes on your phone or email at times of the day when you start to feel tired. .
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Part 3 of 3: Show your confidence

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   Confidence in both words and actions. Always talk about what you believe, be willing to take risks, and ready to admit mistakes without worrying about what others will think. That is confidence in yourself. Being comfortable is yourself and making people comfortable around is a way to make you more attractive.
   • When it comes to confidence, it's important to ask questions. The more you know, the more comfortable you will feel about talking. Don't be afraid to ask questions.

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   Confidence in the body. Wearing the right clothes and keeping good posture also shows confidence.You don't have to have a "perfect body" to be confident. Just dress neatly, respect yourself and have a right posture that makes you much more attractive.
   • If you need more motivation, stick a sticky note around the mirror to remind yourself of the things you love about your body. Focus on those spots instead of the flaws on the body.

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   Distinguish the difference between self-confidence and pride. People who have confidence will be loved by everyone, while pride will be the opposite. People will shun if you only know yourself. To avoid this, be sure to remind yourself to praise others. Every day praise 5 people, be it strangers, colleagues or friends, whoever they are, they will also help you to avoid self-esteem. advertisement

Advice

• Don't change yourself. Even if people disagree with what you say or do, they will appreciate if you are always yourself.
• Regular exercise and diet are a good way to maintain energy and confidence in the body.
• You don't have to be an extrovert to have these traits. A shy person can also develop these traits just like an extrovert.
• Stay calm when you speak, and don't let others provoke or make you do things you will regret later.