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Find a boyfriend to open up and share your life with by being yourself and pushing the boundaries. A boyfriend is someone you want to be with, someone you trust and make your life better. Finding someone who has all of these points may not seem easy, but if you are willing to show the world and your potential human boyfriends, your partner will especially come naturally to you.

Steps

Method 1 of 4: Identify potential boyfriends

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   Identify the things you need in a relationship. Before starting the dating process, think about what kind of relationship you want. Most relationships succeed when you both rise from friendship, because you get a chance to see if the two are compatible and the other has the traits you desire.

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   Determine if you really need a boyfriend. While many people don't like being single, you should still think about what's going on in your life and decide whether to fall in love or not. If you are looking to focus on your studies, work, or family affairs, the answer is probably no at this point. There's nothing wrong with being single either.

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   Find a suitable person for a same-sex relationship. If you are part of the LGBTQ community, maybe your circle of friends is likely, albeit very small, to have someone you know before and want to date them. If that's not the case, you can still meet potential boyfriends at school, while at work, or traveling. What is the chance?
   • If you meet someone and know him as gay and openly, then you can be cautious about showing interest in getting to know him.
   • If you meet a person and are unsure of their sexual orientation, hold back, please express your feelings towards him or the two will be in a dilemma.
   • Around the world there are LGBTQ clubs and organizations that offer a wide variety of programs to the community. As well as awareness and resource centers that focus on supporting and honoring the LGBTQ community.

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   Ask someone you know to introduce someone to you. Many enduring, even marriage, relationships begin with recommendations between friends and co-workers. Don't be afraid to ask who in this relationship group, usually they are the people you spend the most time with and the best matchmakers.

   

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   Experts agreed: If you want to find a bonding relationship, meet the person through friends, social gatherings, and where you hang out with serious minded people.

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   Use social media to meet new people. You can use social media to connect and meet new people. In addition to not flirting with comments, non-private texting, social networks like Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, can be used to extend acquaintances. The more people you meet, the more likely you are to have a boyfriend.

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   Use an online dating platform. There are online dating sites for gay love options, like OurTime, Match, and Zoosk. As with any other place in real life, you should be careful when meeting someone you don't know. This rule applies whether you meet someone at the department store or discotheque. Adhere to it everywhere.

   

   Joshua Pompey

   Emotional consultant Joshua Pompey is an emotional consultant with more than 10 years of experience consulting clients in the online dating world. Joshua has been running his love consulting company since 2009 with a 99% success rate. His work has been posted on CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he is considered the world's best online emotional consultant.

   

   Joshua Pompey
   Emotional consultant

   Try to find apps for people who want a serious relationship. If you're looking for a boyfriend, make time for dating sites geared toward bonding. Some dating apps are famous only for one-night sex, spending time on those apps don't yield practical results.

Method 2 of 4: Invite him out normally

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   Determine if you are ready for an appointment. Once you've targeted a potential boyfriend, to see if the two are compatible, it's best to spend time on social gatherings, like hanging out with friends in neutral places, like going games. such as.

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   Determine where to meet just two people. The ideal place for a meeting of just two people is a cafe where the two can sip coffee or tea and talk a lot. The two of you can also go to the movies, but you won't have much talk time because the theater requires silence.
   • Meeting someone out of a coffee shop is not a money pressure, things will be over quickly if you realize the two are not on good terms or interested in each other.
   • Even if the meeting is not on a date, you should be dashing in the process of getting to know someone. You want to be yourself, but be the best version of yourself.

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   Find a way to invite him out. With smartphones, many people choose to use texting, but through texting you don't know the other person's voice. Whether you can invite someone out by text or email, it's best to talk over the phone or in person, you can hear his voice and vice versa.

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   Think about what to say when you invite the person. Inviting someone out, even if it's just a casual meeting, can be quite stressful. The best way to do this is to follow this form: "I want to have a chance to get to know you better, are you free for coffee this Saturday?"
   • When you invite someone out, start off by asking about his date or talking about your hobbies.
   • If you invite someone to hang out and have never talked to people before, you should also be friendly with gossip, such as: "Do you know any good restaurants in this area?" If the person answers, you can take the opportunity, “Would you like to go to that restaurant with me for a taste?
   • Avoid using flirting sentences because people may think you are dishonest and reduce the likelihood of your invitation being accepted.

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   Be prepared to respond if the invitation is rejected. Nobody wants to be rejected and sometimes it is hard to accept. Make sure that you don't feel offended if he refuses. You can also prepare yourself to see how you should say it again so as not to cause an awkward silence.
   • If your offer is not accepted, you can reply “I understand. If you change your mind or the schedule has stretched, just give me a call.

Method 3 of 4: Relationship development

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   Get to know each other on a deeper level. Once you've completed the steps above, you've been through a few dates, everything went well, it's time to be honest with your feelings. Although it will take a while to fall in love, your feelings are strong enough to make a more serious date, which of course leads to boyfriends. This can be a bit overwhelming, but it's worth it because a great relationship will make your life a happier, more fulfilled life.

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   Share your true feelings. Once you go through the learning phase, start being honest about your feelings. If you feel deeply into this relationship, share it.

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   Listen to his feelings. Since a relationship has to be reciprocal, it's also important to listen to him instead of just clinging to your own feelings. Actively listening, that is, you listen to truly understand the opponent's words, not listen to respond to your wishes.
   • If you share an emotion he doesn't like you, don't be sad or worry about it. When someone doesn't reciprocate your feelings, it doesn't mean they're bad or you're not good enough, it's just that the two of you don't get along.

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   Watch for bad signals. Not all relationships are healthy. It's important to recognize alarms when a new relationship is budding. Issues like uncontrolled anger or abuse are signals that a relationship is toxic.
   • Introduce him to close friends and family if you feel comfortable with it. Sometimes a loved one will see the problem for you.

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   Exchange any concerns. If you like him but still have a problem, it's best to talk to him about it so that you both can work on it before moving on.

Method 4 of 4: Hope he becomes your boyfriend

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   Decide if it's time for the next step. Often times, a successful relationship requires confidence in your belief that you deserve to be loved. Loving yourself means preparing for a relationship.If you share your feelings and are accepted by them, after a while (long or short depending on the couple) you will find yourself wanting to move into a formal relationship.
   • Don't make your own conclusions about the relationship. Ask if he wants the two of you to be an official lover.

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   Evaluate whether he is good to you or not. Sometimes it's a good idea to take a step back to get a better look at the person, about your interactions, and thus make an assessment of the relationship. In some cases, it's best not to go any further but just be friends.

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   Discuss expectations. If you decide to go deep into the relationship, be clear about what you expect from the other person for the relationship to work.

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   Plan to have fun together. You can have a long, bonding, loving relationship if that's what you really want. For every relationship, we all need time, mutual respect, and effort to move forward. If you both agree to be boyfriends, have fun and enjoy the company.
   • It is very important to clarify the nature of the relationship. Simply saying that you are both boyfriends is not enough. You should make it clear whether this relationship is single or not, whether you both see the future of this relationship.
   • If you're not ready, now is the time to know if he knows someone else, especially if you want the relationship to be just for you.

Advice

• Avoid doing things that embarrass you or your potential boyfriend in public. Both should be more discreet.
• Avoid clinging to people who don't want to have sex.
• Pay attention to body language and clues that show your partner is interested in you, like eye contact, compliments, or romantic gestures.
• If he says no, he doesn't want to be your boyfriend, but may still want to be friends.
• Don't be too hasty, be confident, learn to enjoy being single. This makes you an attractive boyfriend.

Warning

• Be careful and discreet when using social media for dating because people on it can be insensitive and hurtful.
• Be careful not to confuse kindness and kindness.
• Some people are uncomfortable with gay, transgender, or other special relationships, so be prepared for unexpected reactions.
• Remember that having feelings toward someone of the same sex does not mean you are gay. Many homosexuals know they are gay at a very early stage in life, and during adolescence the hormone can cause unusual emotions. You can be bi-curious (heterosexual but curious about other types of relationships) if unsure, or bisexual if interested in a relationship. sex with both sexes.