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• Tips
• Warnings

Are you hopelessly in love with someone, but you just can't figure out if they also feel something for you? Do you want appearance that you embarrass yourself when you try to connect? If you want to know if your crush likes you, follow the steps below. You will not regret it.

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1. Pay attention to the other person's body language when they are around. Does the other seem shy? Does that person smile when he or she looks at you? If the other person responds shyly and sometimes smiles for no apparent reason, they may like you too. If you look at you when you walk by, then that is also an indication.
   • Does he / she sometimes hang out in your area to talk about anything and everything?
   • Does the other person look you in the eye when you talk to each other? If she does, it means she's listening to you carefully. If you feel like she's looking you deep in the eye, that could be a sign too.
   • Does he / she sometimes help you with things or does he / she give you advice about something that is not really his / her business?
   • Does he sometimes act tough or tell jokes to make you laugh? Does he look right at you when he tells the clue? How do you feel around your crush?
2. What is he / she always talking about. Does he ever talk about something special he's doing, like reading a book or playing sports, just like that? Does he tell you secrets and random adventures about his day? Maybe he's trying to impress you.
   • Does she give you personal information without you asking for it? Giving someone personal information is a sign of trust or a sign that you would like the other person to share personal information with you as well.
   • Is she talking about family, an ex, or the past? These are topics that most people are quite closed about. If your crush opens up to that, it could be a clue.
3. Pay attention to physical contact. Whether consciously or not, someone who likes you (girls do this more often) will generally look for an excuse to touch you.
   • She might put a hand on your shoulder or accidentally bump into you in the hallway, or wipe something random from your face.
   • Are you tickled by him / her, or teased with his / her hands? Does she want you to wear her, or does she throw something random at you in an attempt to get your attention?
   • Even gestures that don't seem playful or nice can mean they are attracted to you. Many people understand that their body language is giving them away, and therefore try to make their body language mean or impersonal. Does someone ever hit you softly or does someone play silly jokes at you? It may mean that he or she wants attention from you, and is trying to get it without telling the other person what their true feelings are.
4. Find out how often someone looks at you. Do you ever find yourself looking at you, thinking you can't see it? If you catch him / her looking at you and you look back, does he / she quickly look away? If so, it could be a sign of nervousness.
   • On the other hand, they may always try not to look at you, no matter what. Not looking at someone can mean trying to hide your true feelings and not wanting the other person to know.
   • Ask a good friend to watch your crush during class or during recess. Have that friend keep an eye on your crush and for how long. If your crush is constantly looking at you, for minutes on end, then he / she is really crazy about you.
5. Find out how shy your crush is around you. Is that person more shy or more attentive when you are around or when he / she talks to you, and not around other people?
   • If the person is normally a very confident person, and your presence turns him or her into a disjointed, stammering disaster, that's a pretty sure sign that he / she likes you (especially if the hands are fidgeting nervously ).
   • Don't jump to conclusions, though, because shy people are usually always shy. So you can be wrong if you think your crush is crazy about you. So it is better to use this information in addition to the other steps before you come to the conclusion that your crush is crazy about you.
6. Pay close attention to how often someone can be found in your area. Does he / she seem to be around you on purpose or walking back and forth in front of you? That means that they are trying to get your attention, but very discreetly.
   • Does someone speak louder in conversations with others when you are around? This could be a sign that you are supposed to listen in or focus your attention on him or her.
   • Does your crush come up with a reason to be with you? Does the person ask you what the homework is again, or does he / she want to sit next to you in class, or does he / she choose you for the team during recess? That could mean something!
7. Find out how much the other person respects you. If your crush acts like a gentleman or a lady in your area, it is often a sign that they really like you.
   • Is he / she holding the door open for you or giving you that part of his lunch he would never give to anyone else?
   • Does he or she stand up for you when you have an argument with someone or when someone makes a nasty comment about something you do? Does he / she say to his / her friends, "Don't talk about him / her like that!"?
   • Does your crush suddenly get on very well with your friends, people he or she didn't hang out with before?
   • Is the other person constantly looking at you during class?
8. In school, eye contact when you are talking is very important. If he or she makes eye contact, then all they do is focus on you and only you, even if there is a whole group of children or friends around you.

Tips

• If he's flirting with you (he can do this in many different ways), he's probably interested.
• If you think, without bias, that he likes you, there is probably a good reason for it.
• Be patient and relaxed. Don't worry if things don't go your way. Don't panic if you want to ask him / her something.
• Don't try to find out all of these things in one day. Relax and take a few days for it.
• Don't be shy around your crush. If he wants to talk to you, talk back. If he / she is talking to you and smiling at you at the same time, this could be a sign.
• Take your time if you need to. Maybe things aren't going that fast. Get to know the other first. Interact with each other more. Flirt with him / her, but not too much.
• If you notice someone trying to tell you something, they may be doing it to get your attention.
• Join clubs or do things that your crush does, one or two, just so that he / she will see you more often and you get to know the other person better.
• If you really like the other person and want them to get the "hint", make it a point to interact with your crush more often. This will make them more open to you and you may feel that the distance between you is getting smaller, and you may find that they are starting to give YOU "hints".
• Invite your crush for things you and your friends are going to do, but make sure you come up with the plan.

Warnings

• Do not join an association or start an activity together with the other person if you are not interested in it. Do not play sports if you are not into sports. That will not have a good effect on you and it will come across as scary, like a stalker.
• Don't overdo it with following the other. This can come across as strange, causing your crush at some point to lose you rather than be rich, and it can cause you to completely misunderstand the other person at a later point in time.
• If this is the umpteenth article that you consulted, then it is really time you stopped worrying about this. If you think he feels something for you too, then so be it. If not, get on with your life. You're smart, so you should know. Trust yourself. No one else will be able to assess the situation better than you and your crush.
• If you find that he / she is not interested in you, DO NOT feel down. Life goes on and sometimes you have to accept things as they are.