Content

• To step
• Part 1 of 3: Gathering courage
• Part 2 of 3: Telling her about your feelings
• Part 3 of 3: Letting go
• Tips
• Warnings

When you love a girl, sometimes it's best to just tell her, even if you're not sure if the feeling is mutual. Take the courage to express your feelings by building a strong relationship and keeping communication open and respectful. Love can be hard to come out for, but it can be easily expressed. Telling a girl that you have a crush on her can be both terrifying and liberating. Know that you are not alone and that there is enough love for everyone.

To step

Part 1 of 3: Gathering courage

1. Bring more romance to your relationship. Spending time together allows both of you to get to know each other on a deeper level. Where possible, avoid distractions such as cell phones, unwanted visitors or loud music. Getting to know her and spending time together is essential to building a romantic relationship.
   • You don't know what things you can enjoy together unless you communicate with each other. Choose activities that the two of you can do together, such as studying, walking, or eating out. Make sure you make it clear that you enjoy your time together and that you appreciate getting to know each other better.
2. Don't let fear paralyze you. If you are afraid of being rejected, showing your feelings openly can be terrifying; however, you should also realize that regrets can be just as powerful. Realize that putting yourself on the spot and finding out the truth is the only way to overcome both the fear of rejection and to avoid regret.It's a relief to just open your mind.
3. Be honest about your feelings. Do you really love her, or is this more lust or love of a calf? Can you tolerate losing her friendship? Avoid a friendship with her that only comes from your hope that you can make her fall in love with you. This is unfair to her, as friendships should be based on trust and respect. If you really love her, you should be a good friend first and foremost.
   • It can be difficult to analyze your own feelings, but there are a few scientifically proven clues that can tell if you are in love. Are you dealing with any of the following feelings?
     • If you are convinced that it is unique, it may be due to increased brain focus and attention.
     • If you think she has an eye for her positive qualities perfectly and only, then it may be because your memory has increased to accommodate your newfound love feelings.
     • If you feel that you are hopelessly confused by your crush, according to research, it may be because falling in love has similar brain activity to addiction, with similar mood swings.
     • When you're dealing with prosperity, you can also fall in love because your brain produces more dopamine, a chemical responsible for reward and pleasure.
     • If you feel like you are obsessed with hair, it could be because your brain has reduced central serotonin levels, which is associated with obsessive behavior.
     • People who are in love also show signs of emotional dependence, in which they want to be together all the time and hope that they will be together forever.
     • When you are in love, you may feel like you want to do anything for her because you have a greater sense of empathy for the woman of your dreams.
     • Studies have shown that being in love is about an emotional bond, not sex.
     • Studies have also shown that people in love feel their love is out of control.
4. Don't try to read her mind. Express yourself as directly as possible. Don't assume you know how she feels. Always respectfully ask her for openness and thank her for it. Openness is essential in expressing your love for one another.
5. Stay positive. Love is a very strong emotion and usually develops over time. Review how your relationship has developed over time and focus on any positive emotions that you have shared together. If you think your love for her has developed pretty quickly, stay positive because you know there is no better time to express your feelings. You can always find a reason not to do something, so be brave and follow your heart.

Part 2 of 3: Telling her about your feelings

1. Choose the right time and place. Don't get distracted by external factors. Approach her when you can talk to her in relative privacy, and when neither of you is in a hurry. Find a quiet place or meet up to make sure you are both mentally and emotionally present. Expressing your feelings of love should be a joyous occasion, so make sure you have created a situation where she can fully process her thoughts and emotions.
   • Don't bring up your feelings of love with her if you are distracted by friends or when she has to work overtime or meet the deadline for an important client.
2. Be aware of your body language and your attitude around her. Chat with her when you have the opportunity and start with a smile. Focus on your posture and maintain eye contact. Be friendly and joke around if you can, but don't be rude. You can go a long way with a smile and a greeting, so don't overdo it.
   • Get her involved in a conversation by starting with a simple "How are you?"
   • You seem scary or clumsy if you stand by her without saying anything. If you can't say anything because you're nervous, just say hello and keep walking, or talk to someone else.
3. Find out more about her and her friends. Her friends are her supporters and will protect her, so try to make a good impression and be genuinely interested in them. By endearing yourself to her friends, you let them and her know that you want to invest in her well-being.
4. Understand that men tend to be the first to say "I love you." Studies have shown that men are more likely than women to say "I love you" because they don't want to lose the relationship, while women want to make sure the relationship is worth their time and effort, and so tend to wait. . So before you say "I love you" make sure you show her worth and make sure there is no doubt in her mind about why she loves you.
5. Let your actions be more meaningful than your words. There are many sources that give examples of romantic gestures, but love is a personal matter. Only you know how to express your love and what will make her happy. Whether it's flowers you buy her after she's had a long day, sing her favorite song to surprise her, or just walk hand in hand daily as you walk home with her after school - let her know that you love her is not just a one-time gesture, but rather a state of mind that affects everything you do.
6. Communicate respectfully and openly. The best way to tell her you have a crush on her is to be direct about it. There's no point in trying to manipulate her or waiting for her to feel something about you too. Give her time to process her thoughts and emotions. She may indicate that she only wants to remain friends, so research your own emotions and what role she might play in your life in the future.
7. Know that the word love can have different emotional overtones for different people. Some people find it very difficult to hear or use that word. However, however you phrase your own emotions, make sure that she fully understands your intentions.
   • For example, if you know she's going to feel uncomfortable and skittish when you watch romantic comedies and they say "I love you" to each other at the end, don't make the same gesture. Instead, sincerely but in a casual tone, let her know how much you care and that you want to develop your relationship further.
8. Be aware of any obstacles. Religion, cultural differences, or strict family members can all be part of the way she responds to you. Remember to always respect who she is because if you really love her you will get to know these things about her hair and find out how to overcome any obstacles.
   • If she's in doubt but says yes, take that into account and stick to the rules she has set just to reassure her. If she asks you to get to know her parents first because of the customs within her culture, consider this an honor and follow her lead. If she is hesitant about physical contact in the relationship at first, don't pressure her.

Part 3 of 3: Letting go

1. Keep your cool. Whether she reciprocates or rejects your feelings, continue to express yourself tactfully, especially in public. Don't be a jerk by lashing out at her when you're hurt.
2. Respect her response. If she doesn't love you, remind yourself that she's still the same person you've bonded deeply with, so keep respecting her. You cannot force anyone to like or love you.
   • Don't ignore her or build walls. Women are sensitive to interpersonal signals; so an empty expression or raised walls can escalate an already negative situation.
3. Celebrate your maturity and fortitude. If you've gotten to know each other and developed a strong relationship based on respect and open communication, chances are she's feeling the same way you feel. Take pride in being able to be open about your emotions and celebrate with her. Even if she doesn't want more than friendship, you can still be satisfied with your personal growth. Share your experience with others and know that you are not alone.
   • Make use of friends, family, and other pillars of your support system to deal with rejection.
4. Continue to build your relationship. When you really love someone, you respect that person, you want to take care of them, and you are there for the other in good times and bad. Love may be a rollercoaster ride, but the scariest part is taking the plunge and telling her you love her.
   • Shut it off. If she doesn't feel the same way about you, don't persist. Learn to accept that it shouldn't be that way and stay optimistic that someone else is just around the corner. This can be difficult, but take as much time as you need. That's why there are so many sad love songs and movies to cheer you up.
5. Know when to say goodbye to the friendship. There is no point in trying to manipulate her or waiting. If you tell her that you have a crush on her and she indicates that she doesn't feel the same way about you, but she wants to remain friends, respectfully reject it.
   • Your emotions can weigh too heavily on your shoulders to sustain the friendship. A friendship is based on mutual support and respect. Ask yourself if you can really give that to her, when you have just expressed clearly that you want to be more to her than just a friend. Can you still be friends with her if she is dating someone else?

Tips

• Trust yourself. Look her in the eye, stand up straight and smile. Most of all, speak without hesitation, especially if you are normally shy. You must show that you believe in your own words and support this with the strength of your dedication.
• If you've been friends for a long time, but you want more now, she may not view you that way. In this case, you have to accept her feelings. Changing yourself is not the answer. If she doesn't love you for who you are, instead of a version adapted to her needs, then at some point you may fall out of your role and any sense she conceived of for your "altered self" may be lost.
• Don't tell everyone you have a crush on her before you tell her. It's not as good if she finds it out some other way.
• Actions say more than a thousand words. Show her you love her instead of telling her.

Warnings

• If you don't, don't tell her you love her. Manipulating someone for sex is repugnant and in many cases against the law.
• No means no. If she rejects you, don't forget that there are more women. In the beginning of a relationship, persistence can be good, but not beyond the point where you have expressed your love. Love is non-negotiable.