Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Knowing if a girl likes you
• Method 2 of 3: Choosing the Right Moment
• Method 3 of 3: Dealing with Your Feelings
• Tips

Sometimes it is difficult to know if you like a girl, and it is even more difficult to recognize reciprocal sympathy. Analyze your feelings and consider if you are really ready to move on to the next step. Understand yourself and look for signs of interest on the part of the girl. If your sympathy turns out to be mutual, then gather your courage and ask the girl out on a date!

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Knowing if a girl likes you

1. 1 Make eye contact to gauge the girl's gaze. Sympathy can be understood even without words, if you pay attention to the person's gaze. Look the girl in the eye and see if she responds to your gaze. A direct and passionate look may indicate that a girl is interested in you. Not all girls are so brave and can look away because of modesty, which also sometimes speaks of sympathy.
   • If a girl pays her attention to you, then this is a good sign. If she is often distracted by the phone, watch or others, then it may turn out that she is not interested in you.
2. 2 Pay attention to attempts to overcome the “touch barrier” while flirting. If she is trying to get close enough to you for innocent touch, then you are almost certainly interested in the girl more than just a friend. She may be stroking your arm or barely touching your elbow, knee, or chest.
   • The rest of the girl's body can also express the level of interest. If she leans towards you during a conversation or repeats your body language, then she is most likely interested in you.
   • See how the girl’s body language differs between you and other people. If she's expressive, look for other signs, like teasing you playfully and paying extra attention.
3. 3 Estimate the frequency of messages and calls. If she often leaves her comments under your posts on social networks, quickly replies to messages or writes to you first, then she almost certainly thinks of you often. Also look out for detailed replies and regular new posts.
   • If you, too, immediately respond to messages and conduct detailed conversations via SMS or on social networks, then the girl will probably want to spend time with you in the real world.
   • If she remembers the details of conversations, it's a sign of interest.
   • If a girl answers you in one word or is silent for several days, then this may indicate a lack of interest.
4. 4 Pay attention to the mention of possible future meetings. If you have common interests with her, then notice the mention of potential joint plans. So, if a girl admits the possibility of a meeting like: "We can go to this movie next month" - this is a good sign. She wants to be around and spend time with you. You can also test the waters and talk about a possible meeting to gauge the level of interest.
   • If she laments her busy weekend, then you can say, “It's a shame. So we could go to the match together. " Now this is impossible, but the girl's answer can say a lot about the level of her interest and desire to meet another time.
   • Does the girl mean you two or a group of friends when she uses words like "we" and "us"? For example: "You and I definitely need to go!" - or: "We all need to go!"
5. 5 Consider shyness and shyness as possible signs of interest. When talking face-to-face, the girl may blush, laugh nervously, or constantly smile. Such signs may indicate sympathy. In case of awkwardness or timid silence, do not rush to worry! There is almost certainly something between you two.

Method 2 of 3: Choosing the Right Moment

1. 1 Only invite a girl if she doesn't have a boyfriend. Usually, if a girl talks about her partner, then she will refuse to meet. If she emphasizes her loneliness and says nothing about having a boyfriend, then this is your chance. Also, the girl may ask about your relationship. If she was relieved to learn that you do not have a girlfriend, then she will almost certainly agree to meet.
   • If a girl talks about the absence of a partner on her own initiative, flirts or is sad about this, she is probably hinting to you about the desire to meet.
   • If you are also a girl and she immediately mentions her non-traditional sexual orientation, she tries to hint that she likes you, especially if there are signs of romantic interest.
2. 2 Invite the girl at least a week after meeting. It is advisable to wait before the invitation if you met on the street or on a dating site. Also, keep communicating to get to know each other better. In doing so, your feelings may intensify or fade.
   • If you met only yesterday, and today you are already crazy about the girl, then give yourself time to cool down a little and evaluate your intentions.
   • If you rush to the invitation, then the girl may get you wrong.
3. 3 Invite a girl out when you are having a great time. There is no one right moment, but a good mood and mutual understanding in a conversation will play into your hands. You should invite the girl at the climax of the conversation, when a connection arises between you.
   • Don't wait too long, or the rapport may weaken.
   • If you are going to another campus of the university together or having fun at a party with a friend, then take a moment and start an interesting conversation.
   • If you are texting in a dating application, then invite the girl at the moment of a successful conversation, when both you and your interlocutor quickly and willingly respond to messages. So, you can invite a girl after she has told you something interesting from her life.
4. 4 Make sure the girl is listening carefully. If she is distracted, then your question can catch her by surprise or upset. You do not need to invite a girl if she complains about life and tries to focus on something important or looks around in confusion. You should wait until she relaxes, is in a good mood and listens to you carefully. Thus, attention can be determined by open body language, eye contact, and a smile on the girl's face.
   • Before inviting, try flirting a little - look in the eyes or touch the girl to show you sympathy. This will make it easier for you to set the mood and get her attention.
   • Don't ask your girl out on a date when she's with friends. In such a situation, she may be embarrassed by the curiosity of friends or think about something else.
5. 5 Hurry up and ask the girl out on a date if she's acting impatiently. You managed to find a common language, but are you delaying the invitation? Waiting too long can be frustrating for a girl. If she suddenly begins to behave coldly, answer questions in monosyllables, roll her eyes, show lack of interest or closed body language, then the girl becomes impatient. You can ask what happened, but she is unlikely to admit her feelings to you. Put an end to her suffering and ask her out on a date!
   • Signs of stress don't necessarily indicate a lack of interest. If a girl is partial to you, then her brain is capable of producing cortisol, the stress hormone that causes strange behavior.
   • This factor should be considered only if you got along well before, and there are no other exciting events in the girl's life that can cause tension.
   • If the girl expresses dissatisfaction, but continues to interact with you carefully, this may indicate impatience, but if she ignores you and does not respond, then it is something else.

Method 3 of 3: Dealing with Your Feelings

1. 1 Pay attention to your mood in the presence of the girl. Surely not every girl cheers you up and makes your heart beat faster. Only a special person is capable of this. Pay attention to your physical sensations around the girl. Did you feel an adrenaline rush, sparks in your eyes, or a flutter in your stomach when she looked at you? If you are ready to move mountains for her, then you should not hesitate with an invitation.
   • In addition to the joyful mood in the presence of the girl, pay attention to gloomy thoughts if she is not around. If you do not notice the absence of the girl, then your interest may not be strong enough.
2. 2 Pay attention to the amount of effort you have to be there. If you have to rush to change your plans to see her after school or cancel a meeting with friends to be with her, then you really want to be there. If you are determined to overcome any obstacle in your path, you are surely ready to ask a girl out on a date.
   • If she hesitates in your presence when others are rushing home, or always sits down at your table, then she also tries to be there more often.
   • If you have had many opportunities to meet, but you have not made the effort, then think about what is holding you back. If you have no common interests, you dislike her social circle and friends, then such a relationship is unlikely to bring you joy.
3. 3 Pay attention if you are constantly thinking about the girl. If you think a lot about a girl and often fantasize about dating, then you like her. If you are constantly thinking about how to make her happy, and not just admire her beauty, then it's time to ask the girl out on a date. If every little thing reminds you of her, and your heart jumps out of your chest at the mention of her name, then rather try to make your dreams come true.
   • Perhaps you get jealous when a girl is hanging out with other guys and can't stand even the thought that she might be dating someone else.
   • If you are pleased with the idea of ​​introducing a girl to your family and friends and you think a lot about a joint future, it's time to take a step.
4. 4 Pay attention if you notice small details of her appearance. You will surely fall in love if you constantly look at the girl. If you want to understand what is the best way to proceed - to observe her from afar or to try to start a relationship, then evaluate your view of the girl's appearance. Do you just perceive her as cute or do you notice small details and facial expressions? Don't be embarrassed if she notices your gaze. Make eye contact and gauge the reaction.
   • If you like the curls of her hair or notice how her eyes change color depending on the light, your feelings are probably deep enough.
5. 5 Pay attention to whether you are striving to get to know the girl better. During conversations, do you only talk about yourself or do you constantly ask questions about the girl? If you memorize small details, looked for information about her favorite writer, or walked into her favorite cafe, then you like the girl.
   • Close acquaintance is one of the important components of the decision. If you want to get to know her as best you can, then you probably want to ask her out on a date.
   • If you are not too interested in it, then it is better not to do anything - leave everything as it is and just watch it from afar.
6. 6 Get to know the girl better and accept her flaws. In the case of superficial sympathy, we tend to idealize people. Try to get to know the personality of the girl better and understand whether you like her as a person or as an image. Make a mental list of behaviors, habits, and quirks that may be annoying or repulsive. Then decide how important they are to you.
   • Before taking the plunge, it's always best to know what you're signing up for. For example, if you love dogs and your girlfriend hates them, think about how this will affect your relationship.
   • If the girl’s quirks start to seem cute to you, or you don’t notice the flaws of the object of your sympathy at all, then you are ready for a relationship.

Tips

• If you are determined, consider your invitation options. Depending on the circumstances, you can write a message inviting you to meet, invite a girl out on a date, or invite a date.
• If she is your close friend, classmate, old love, or new acquaintance, then why not take a chance! The likelihood of rejection can be daunting, but don't let fear get in the way.