Content

• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings
• What do you need

Many people sometimes quarrel with their best friends, but that doesn't make them enemies. The best thing to do is to try to get out of the conflict (of course, after solving it!) Without complicating the relationship or resentment.You can find out how to do this below.

Steps

1. 1 Figure out what the problem is. Sometimes this is obvious and sometimes it is very difficult to determine. Also make sure that this is actually a problem and that your friend isn't just having a bad day or rough times that have nothing to do with your friendship.
2. 2 Leave your friend alone. Instead of bombarding him with questions and demands, let him calm down and reflect on the situation. No matter how long it goes on, do not touch him until he stops glaring at you in the corridors, insulting you, spreading rumors, shouting, etc.
3. 3 Consider your options. The classic ones are “talk to a friend and ask what’s the matter,” “ask a friend to talk to your friend,” or even “leave him until everyone has forgotten about it.” Of course, all situations are very different, but talking directly to your friend is almost always the best option, even if it scares you.
4. 4 Choose an option and go for it. Better to stay low-key instead of standing on a pedestal and playing an innocent victim. Admitting all of your mistakes will make that person feel better, and it will give them the courage to do the same.
5. 5 Wait and see. Let your friend think about it.
6. 6 Accept the result. If your friend wants to end the friendship, there is nothing to be done. Do not become malicious and malicious; do your best to be the new best friend, leave the old behind, keep saying hello in the hallways, etc. There is a chance that after you show him / her how good you really are, he / she will want to be your friend again.
7. 7 While you can fix something, do not leave the conflict unresolved, if you drag out the time, your friend will not pay attention to you and will move on.
8. 8 Do not try to make him jealous, because it may not bother him, and you will be embarrassed, or he may pay attention to it and hate you even more.
9. 9 Don't do anything wrong by saying that you are "giving back" what he did, or that it is "karma." If you are a victim, let karma return in a different way, because if you do this, karma will return to you too.
10. 10 Don't do what you regret.

Tips

• Know that you are doing the right thing, even if your friend is wrong, but don't tell him about it. Just feel good that you did your best to help and everything impossible to solve the problem.
• Tell us how you feel and maybe you will make up, figure out what's what.
• Tell and talk about it.
• Do not delay solving the problem. While you are avoiding your friend, he may decide to move on with another friend he trusts more than you.
• Do your best to fix the problem, and be sure to tell him exactly how you feel. Otherwise, you will never get out of this fight alive.
• Tell your friend that you are truly sorry and ask for forgiveness.
• Act quickly. Otherwise, you will soon lose it and drift apart if you wait too long. Go ahead and solve the problem.
• Drama won't do anything. Leave insults, shouts, rumors and gossip to yourself where no one can use it against you.
• Revenge is not the way to fix the problem.
• Never come back to it. Leave all bad things in the past and open up to all good things in the future.
• Talk about this with your mom or older loved ones, they will not tell everyone at school what your conversation was about, and they will not use this information against you, plus, they have met this before and know how to act in such cases, so it is worth listening to their advice!
• Ask her / him for forgiveness, regardless of how you felt when he turned away from you.
• Only tell your friend the truth. Tell him all your feelings.
• If you think that the problem is insoluble, try to find a new friend, but first you should try to solve the problem, no matter how hard it is.

Warnings

• If you are not polite, it will take a VERY long time for your friend to forgive you.
• Just because you are angry right now, don't do anything that might hurt you, don't spread rumors or tell his secrets.
• Be prepared for any scenario, even the end of the friendship, and if that happens, be always friendly and make new friends you can trust.

What do you need

• Respect for your friends and their wishes.