How to ask your best friend on a date

Author: Alice Brown
Date Of Creation: 25 May 2021
Update Date: 1 July 2024
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How to Ask Your Friend Out on a Date
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It is not always easy for girls who are in love with their best friend to ask him out on a date. There is always a fear of losing friendship, and besides, girls are too cowardly to do this. If you are one of those girls who still can't ask out the guy of their dreams, this article is for you. It's time to get up the courage and take action!

Steps

  1. 1 Behave as usual. This is a very important point. He may become suspicious if you behave strangely. He will probably be wary.
  2. 2 Ask him what he usually does on the weekend. He is your best friend, which means that there is nothing to worry about in this matter. Invite him to prepare for lessons together.
  3. 3 Be a little flirty! This is where the next level after friendship begins. Strike seductive poses, wave your hair a little, and maintain eye contact. You can even bite your lip. Look into his eyes a little longer than usual. Smile beautifully and radiantly.
  4. 4 Compliment him. He is your best friend and you already know some facts about him. Let him know that you appreciate what he does. Do not overdo it, otherwise it will look stupid.
  5. 5 Invite him to a movie or do something that both of you enjoy. If you're uncomfortable asking out, just skip the formalities! Say: "Shall we go to the cinema?" Congratulations! You did it!
  6. 6 Don't stop there! But don't be in a hurry either. Things like this happen slowly. For a while, try to just keep the relationship at the achieved level. Be happy that he is your best friend and make sure that he pays attention to you. If you are truly best friends, he will do anything for you, but don't be too arrogant.

Tips

  • Don't be discouraged if he doesn't spend as much time with you as you want. Maybe he is simply not yet ready for such changes in his life. Recognize that you are still friends, and therefore an open and frank relationship between you. After all, nothing has changed for the worse between you.
  • Flirt wisely. Especially if you are shy. If you are a brave person and there is a completely trusting relationship between you, you can even put your hands on his hips - this is quite sexy. Remember that no matter what, he is still your friend.
  • Sometimes it’s better to tell him about your feelings by accident. If he already suspects it, and responds a little to your flirting, this can speed up the process.

Warnings

  • Take your time if you don't want to scare him.
  • Even if you are nervous, do not try to persuade the other person to find out for you. It is better to see his reaction yourself, because the other person will not be able to accurately convey his emotions.
  • Try not to chat about your feelings. Otherwise (in case of failure) you will be ashamed that many know about your failure.
  • Don't tell all your friends about your love for him. You don't need everyone to be aware of your feelings. Otherwise, it may turn out ugly when everyone knows about your feelings, except for him.
  • Don't ask any of your friends to ask him out for you!