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• Steps
• Tips
• Warnings
• What do you need

Do you really like the guy, but he is somewhat withdrawn in himself? Here are some simple steps you can take to subtly tell him how you feel.

Steps

1. 1 Get his attention. Be friendly, welcoming, and a little flirty. Despite the fact that shy people usually don't notice flirting, you can try. Whenever you meet him, say “Hello” and smile, regardless of whether he is looking at you or not.
2. 2 What works in all situations is eye contact. You do not need to constantly look at him, but throw a few glances in his direction, and after he notices that you are looking at him, hold your gaze for a few seconds and smile. Perhaps the guy will not regard this as flirting, in any case, he is not a fool, so he will nevertheless draw some conclusions (especially if this happens not for the first time).Now is the time to strike up a conversation with him.
3. 3 Talk to him. A shy young person is most comfortable with a friendly atmosphere, but he is more likely to be upset if you offer him friendship.
4. 4 Stay a girl, sweet and gentle. Let the guy next to you feel like your protector, a real man!
5. 5 Tell him about your feelings somewhere in 1-2 months, unless, of course, he himself has not confessed his love to you earlier. If he tries to take the first step, but gives up, ask him out yourself and pretend it was your idea. If he tries to confess his love to you, this is the first sign that he is getting depressed. Just walk up to him and say "I like you." If a guy has feelings for you, then in a week he will run after you.
6. 6 Start working on your first kiss. Shy guys tend to be big romantics who want their first kiss to be special. If you are in a hurry, then you will destroy his dream. First, pat him on the back, then go into a friendly hug. After the first date, the hugs can be lengthened. And for the first kiss, to make it special, take the guy to some special, uncrowded place.

Tips

• A shy guy is worth the time, effort, and patience. Think of it as ... a gift. He's a treasure to be unpacked. He demands a completely different, special attitude towards himself. If you get through his awkwardness and long, deaf-and-dumb pauses at the beginning of a relationship, then you will be rewarded with a cheerful, respectful and caring guy!
• Don't be overly intrusive - it can scare him. On the contrary, be cheerful and cheerful, and he will reach out to you even more.
• Show concern, but don't overdo it. Shy people also have self-esteem.
• Ask him to teach you something. For example, if he plays the guitar, then let him teach you at least a few chords.
• Ask how he is doing, what's new. The next time you talk, go back to what you talked about last time.

Warnings

• Before talking to him about your feelings, try to find out how he treats you, because it may turn out that he does not like you at all.
• Do not flirt with other guys, otherwise he will think that you are not interested in him, and this may hurt him.
• Don't tell him that you love him. Only by getting to know each other better, you can understand whether you have feelings for each other or not.
• Don't rush to ask him out on a date. You have to wait, but not very long. Waiting too long will be excruciating for you. It takes time to define feelings.
• Don't put pressure on him. Lead, but don't become his mom. This will annoy and anger him.
• Do not think that he will start dating you just because he is shy and cannot find a girlfriend on his own. It is even despicable to think that he simply will not find a better girl than you. The young man does not need your pity!
• Be prepared for the fact that many shy guys who have never had a relationship suffer from the so-called waiting syndrome. Those. the more they wait, the more they tune in to the perfect girlfriend and the perfect relationship. Logically, he should take what is given to him, but if he thinks that you are not worthy of the time spent looking for, he will refuse you. And it may also happen that he starts dating you, but not because he likes you, but because he was flattered that you liked him.

What do you need

• Cute shy guy