Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Making it clear that you are not interested
• Method 2 of 3: Avoid kissing
• Method 3 of 3: Talking about kissing
• Tips
• Warnings

Have you ever found yourself in this awkward situation where a guy wants to kiss you but you're not ready? You may have felt overwhelmed by fearing that the guy might want to kiss you and you might not be ready. Here are some simple steps to hint to him that you are not ready.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Making it clear that you are not interested

1. 1 Try not to give the wrong signals if you don't want to be kissed. If so, don't flirt provocatively or talk about kissing.

Method 2 of 3: Avoid kissing

1. 1 If you're on a date and your boyfriend or girlfriend is trying to kiss you, don't push or scare them. Just turn your head away. If you push away, he / she may feel rejected. It can be effective to simply look the other way or to shift attention away from your partner for a few seconds.
2. 2 Smile after rejection so that your partner doesn't feel rejected. If you don’t do this, he / she may think that you don’t like it.
3. 3 Kiss on the cheek. Do this with your head tilted slightly. He / she will take the hint.
4. 4 Try to distract your partner's attention. For example, take his hand or rest your head on his shoulder. Show him that you can enjoy physical contact without kissing.
5. 5 Eat lollipop regularly when you are with him / her. It will be in your mouth, so they cannot kiss you.
6. 6 Tell your boyfriend or girlfriend that you have bad breath or that you are recovering from a virus. Add that he or she would rather wait for another moment to kiss.
   • The problem with this method is that she only puts off the kiss for later. If you don't want to kiss this person at all or not soon, you need to talk (read on).

Method 3 of 3: Talking about kissing

1. 1 Tell your boyfriend or girlfriend that you are not ready to kiss yet. If he or she really likes you, then he or she will respect your wishes and wait until you are ready.
   • This is especially necessary when your partner is very persistent. In this case, it's best to tell him that you don't want to kiss yet.
2. 2 Tell your partner ahead of time that you don't like kissing. In this case, he will not try to kiss you, and if he does, then he is not worth it.
3. 3 If your partner still doesn't get it and is complaining, try changing the subject. End this unwanted conversation.

Tips

• If you don't want to kiss, tell them that you are not feeling well or are not in the mood. This will keep your partner from feeling rejected.
• If you're already kissing and want to end it and your partner isn't, just step back. If he continues, turn your head away.
• If you realize that he / she is leaning over to kiss you, you can change that into a hug. Turn your head and hug, smile and walk away.
• Sometimes, he or she may put their hands on your face. It might be romantic, but if you don't want it, don't let your face turn. A simple "No thanks" or a little head bang is better than pushing and scaring him / her.
• If you pushed away, but he / she still tries to kiss you, take a step back and try to explain, but if your partner is still trying to kiss you, he / she is not worthy of it.
• Look into his / her eyes for 3 seconds after pushing off. He or she will take the hint and stop.

Warnings

• Someone usually turns out to be a little controlling and tough in a relationship. Not all the time, but be careful with that.
• Don't push him or her back until they force you in an obscene way.
• Don't chew gum in the hope that your partner won't kiss you because it's in your mouth. The person will just ask you to spit it out or kiss it anyway.