Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Starting a Hug
• Method 2 of 3: Embrace a Professional
• Method 3 of 3: Experiment with hugs
• Tips

Hugging is one of the best expressions of physical affection for people, reflecting all their closeness, showing love and increasing feelings of happiness. Cuddling releases a hormone that reduces stress and anxiety, and therefore increases a sense of peace of mind. If you are avoiding hugs or are unsure about the best hug, then worry no more! With some knowledge, hugging is easy and pleasant.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Starting a Hug

1. 1 Start slowly. Your partner is likely aware that he wants a hug, but maybe you are the first to take the initiative by leaning lightly on your partner. In any case, it's best to start slowly. Don't jump into an embrace in the literal sense of the word. Don't do this, even if you are too impatient. Show your intentions by placing your hand on your partner's shoulder, back, or waist. Maintain this position for a few minutes or do light stroking.
   • The intentions to hug the person should be clear. You can put your hand on your shoulder, but this does not necessarily mean that you are seeking a hug. Caress your partner's hand to make sure they understand what you are driving at.
   • Remember that cuddling is often a stand-alone activity that doesn't necessarily lead to foreplay. Start slowly and proceed as long as you feel comfortable, with no intention of reaching your goal, skipping the hug phase.
2. 2 Be aware of the surrounding factors. So you've got the basics done, and you're ready to move on to a real hug. But before moving on to them, think about the features of the environment. A very hot day? Then it may be worth limiting the amount of physical contact so as not to turn into a sweaty monster. On the bed or on the couch? Or maybe in a completely different place? The amount of free space limits the possible hugging positions.
3. 3 Get into a comfortable position. You are going to be in the arms of another person for quite some time, so the first thing you need to do is feel comfortable. If you intend to cuddle for a long time while watching a movie or before bed, change into comfortable clothes or grab a warm blanket. Although you can relax on your partner, and a small pillow in this case certainly does not hurt.
4. 4 Stroke your partner. Carefully and gently stroke his back, legs, or arms. This may be like or different from a gentle massage. The goal is for the person to feel comfortable and interested in further hugs. Moving on to a real "hug", you can continue to light strokes to prolong the mutual pleasant sensations.

Method 2 of 3: Embrace a Professional

1. 1 Master the classic spoon pose. The most traditional cuddling position is spoons, popular just because they are cool! The idea is that the partners lie on their sides, being small and large spoons inserted into each other. A large spoon lies behind, and often puts a hand on the body of a small one.
   • Watch your heads. They are so close that it is better not to make sudden movements. A large spoon can rest your head on the shoulder of a small one, or support it with your hand.
   • Keep in mind the possibility of excessive warmth. Spoons are one of the most heat-generating hug positions because they involve maximum physical contact. The large spoon may have to wait for placing the hand on the body of the small one, or move the legs slightly to avoid turning the action into a pool of sweat.
2. 2 Try half spoons. Almost, as with classic spoons, in half-spoons one person lies on his back, and the other on his side facing his partner. The person on their side is likely to find it comfortable to rest their head on their partner's shoulder. Interlace your legs for an even more sensitive hug.
3. 3 On a partner. For a better hug in a confined space, the larger partner should lie on their back. The second partner lies face down directly on the first. To avoid the person's suffocation from below, the partner slides down slightly from above to comfortably rest his head on the lower partner's chest.
4. 4 Face to face. One of the most romantic hug positions is lying face to face opposite each other. You can lie on your stomach with your head turned towards your partner, or, best of all, lie on your side. Increase the level of romance in the room by holding hands in the space between your bodies.
5. 5 Astrologer. Imagine that you and your partner are watching a starfall in nature, you want to hug, but both must see the sky. Lie on your backs side by side and braid your legs. If you are not afraid that your hand will become numb, place it under your partner's neck, hugging him slightly. Alternatively, you can hold hands over your bodies or in the space between them. Contrary to the name, this position is not only good during stargazing.
6. 6 Place your head on your partner's lap. This trick is great when you want to talk and make eye contact easily. One person sits down and the other lies on his back with his head resting on his partner's knee. A seated person gets a great opportunity to play with their hair or gently caress their partner's face.

Method 3 of 3: Experiment with hugs

1. 1 Play with your partner's hair. There are only a few sensations that are as sweet and enjoyable as when someone plays with your hair. And gender doesn't matter here. Just run your hand through your partner's hair as you hug. You can massage or not massage the scalp using your fingers like a comb. By playing with your partner's hair, you will definitely help him feel happiness and comfort.
2. 2 Give tender kisses. Kiss your partner in a sentimental manner, but not in preparation for a dizzying kiss. Kiss him on the forehead, hands, or forearms to show how much you love and care for him. This will drive him crazy and he will be the happiest in your arms.
3. 3 Practice light massage. Everyone loves a good massage, right? Show your love by massaging the body parts closest to you. Most likely, this will be the back, shoulders or arms. If you don't want to massage, just pat your partner gently.
4. 4 Run your hands over your partner's body. Caress his body lightly with your fingers. Run your hands over his torso, legs, or arms. This is easiest to do from a spoon or half-spoon pose, but can be applied to any hug.
5. 5 Tickle your partner lightly. A light tickling will make your partner wriggle, giggle, and immediately snuggle up to you. Be careful not to let the tickling go too far. It is enough just to demonstrate to your partner that you are flirting and want him to snuggle up to you as much as possible.

Tips

• Some girls love to be hugged from behind.
• Relax. During the hugs, the body should be free, not tense.
• Any tight hug or hug is equivalent to a hug! Whenever possible, include them in your daily routine.
• There is more than one way to cuddle. Ask your partner and find out what he likes. Don't be afraid to ask, as you discuss this, you will find the most enjoyable way for both of you. Also, discuss your expectations for a hug. How far do you want to go, what do you like about what your partner is doing, what is permissible, and where to cuddle. If you are walking with your partner and other guys and suddenly sit down and start hugging, your friends will feel uncomfortable.
• Some people are more receptive to feelings than others. If the person doesn't respond to your hug, they either don't want to hug you or they don't feel very comfortable in the physical manifestation of love.