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Cuddling is one of the great ways to show affection through physical contact, create intimacy, show affection, and increase excitement. The cuddle of cuddles releases a hormone that helps improve mood while reducing stress and anxiety. If you rarely cuddle or don't know how to do it, don't worry! Just knowing a little about it will make cuddling easy and enjoyable.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Start cuddling

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   Start slowly. Maybe your partner wants to be cuddled up, or maybe you're the one who took the initiative. Either way, a slow start is the best option. Don't suddenly cuddle - indeed, don't rush no matter how much you want it to be. Show that you want to cuddle by placing your hand on the person's shoulder, back, or waist. Hold for a few minutes or scrub gently.
   • You must make your intentions clear. Putting your hand on your shoulder doesn't always indicate that you want to cuddle someone. Instead, stroke the person's arm to help them understand what you are leading.
   • Remember that cuddling is a separate and not always sexual activity. Start slowly until you are both comfortable, not for the purpose of cuddling.

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   Be careful with environmental factors. After the initial success, you are ready to move towards truly cuddling each other. But don't forget about the environmental factors before you move on to cuddling. Is it hot? If so, you must limit your physical contact to avoid getting both wet like mice peeling from sweating. Are you on a sofa, bed or somewhere in the car? The space around will determine what cuddles you can perform.

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   Must be comfortable. You are about to be held for a long time, so be comfortable first. If you plan to watch a movie while cuddling or cuddling before bed, change into comfortable clothes or grab a cozy blanket. Even though you can lie in the other person's body, having a pillow is also a good idea.

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   Please fondle a little. In the "pure" style only; rub the person's back, arms, or legs in a sensual and enjoyable way. You can refer to a gentle massage if you want. Our goal is to make your partner feel comfortable and interested in cuddling with you. When you begin to transition to real "cuddling", you can still continue to gently fondle to prolong the feeling of lightheadedness that you are both enjoying.

Method 2 of 3: Cuddle with skill

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   Starting from the basic, the spoonful style. The simple reason why spooning becomes the traditional cuddling pose is: it's so cool! This pose consists of a "big" and "small" spoon, the two of you will lie on your side and snuggle together. The person in the back acts as the large spoon and they will put their arms around the waist of the small spoon.
   • Pay attention to how to put the head. Because your heads will be very close together, it's best to have them staggered a bit. The person lying in the back can rest his head on the shoulder of the person in front or put his arm underneath the other person to rest his head.
   • Note the temperature. The spoon is a very hot cuddling position because both will have lots of body contact. The person lying in the back should move his leg a little or limit his arm around the person in front to avoid sweating.

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   Try a half-spoon position. This is a bit like the spoon-up pattern, but different in that one person will lie on their back and the other person will lie on their side opposite them. The person lying on his side will rest his head on the chest of the person lying on his back. Also, wrap your feet together to make the show more intimate.

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   Lie on top of each other. This type of cuddling is suitable for narrow spaces and the taller person will lie on his back, then the other person will lie face down on the tall body. To prevent breathing problems, the upper person should move down a little, turn the head to the side and rest it on the chest of the person on the back.

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   Face to face. One of the most romantic cuddles is lying with your face facing each other. You can either lie on your partner's belly and turn your head toward his or her face, or you can both lie on your side opposite each other - all sweet. Enhance a romantic atmosphere by holding hands in the space between the two bodies.

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   Try stargazing. This is the posture where during the camping session, both of them can lie down while watching the meteor shower while loving each other and still see the sky. Lie on your back next to your lover and wrap your legs together. If you're not afraid of being numb, you can place your arm under the person's neck and give a little hug. Both can also hold hands on top of you or keep their hands in the space between the two bodies. Contrary to its name, this stargazing can be applied in all cases, not just stargazing.

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   Lie your head on the person's lap. This act of cuddling is suitable when you want to talk and look each other in the eyes for a long time. One person will sit while the other lies with their head resting on their lap, their posture forms a right angle. In this position, the person sitting will be very convenient in playing with the lover's hair or sweetly stroking the other person's face.

Method 3 of 3: Practice cuddling

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   Play with the person's hair. When someone plays with your hair, it feels very sweet and wonderful. No matter male or female, you just need to put your hand in the other half's hair while both are cuddling. You can do this as a variation of the scalp massage with your fingers in a comb, or the other way around. Playing with a lover's hair is sure to amuse and comfort him.

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   Kissing gently. Kiss your other partner emotionally, not in a passionate way, like you're about to have sex. Place small kisses on the person's forehead, arm or hand to show that you love and appreciate them. This action will definitely make them touched and happily curl up in your lap.

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   Practice some massage techniques. Everybody loves skilled massage techniques, right? Show your partner how you feel by gently massaging the areas closest to you. It could be the back, shoulders or arms. If you don't want to massage, you can rub them back and forth with your hands.

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   Place the finger along the body. Gently stroke the person's body with the tips of your fingers. Use your hands to run across the person's body, along the arms or legs. This works best if you do it while lying upside down or half-spoon, and it also acts sweet in other cuddles.

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   Tickle the person lightly. Gently tickling them will cause them to giggle and close in a moment. Be careful not to let this game go too far; tick them just enough to show that you are flirting with them and want them to be closer to you.

Advice

• Some people like to be hugged from behind.
• Relax. During cuddling, your body should be relaxed and not too tense.
• A simple hug or tight hug is also considered cuddling! You should do it every day when possible.
• Not everyone knows how to cuddle. Start slowly so that you don't scare the person.
• There are many ways to cuddle. Ask the person how they like cuddling. Don't be afraid to ask because you can both work together to find the best. You should also state what you expect for cuddling. How far does your partner want to go, what you like them to do, what is suitable and where it is suitable for cuddling. If you are going out in groups, your friends will definitely feel uncomfortable seeing you naturally sit on your lover's lap, cuddling and cuddling.
• Some people accept the exposure and others do not. If the person doesn't respond to your cuddling, they may not want to cuddle you or they feel uncomfortable with physical contact.
• Make sure your hair isn't messy or greasy. This may stop him from wanting to play with your hair.
• If you want to tickle the person, make it subtle, otherwise it will all turn into a tickling "war".