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Living with a bisexual husband is not easy, especially when you get into a relationship and expect many things in the marriage. Although finding out that your husband is bisexual may affect the background of your marriage, this does not mean that the relationship is about to end. On the contrary, many couples find that bisexuality paves the way for a relationship of satisfaction, trust, and sincerity.

Steps

Method 1 of 4: Support

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   Accept who your husband is. He still has qualities that you will fall in love with, and hermaphrodite is another quality you've just discovered. This personality also affirms who he is. As a partner, he needs your love and support, and the relationship will be fine if you can accept his new personality.

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   Research on hermaphroditic properties. Knowing the traits of bisexuals helps you get to know your husband better. Bisexuality has no fixed pattern, because each individual carries completely different emotions and feelings. Bisexual people are sexually attracted to both sexes. People of this nature also tend to love more individuals first, often paying little attention to gender specific. There are many rumors about bisexuality affecting a relationship if you do not understand that these are really just myths.If you understand your husband's feelings, your relationship will be stronger:
   • Rumor: A person can be gay or heterosexual, not both at the same time.
     • Humans are complex individuals and have many different sexual orientations, including heterosexual (attracted to the opposite sex), homosexual (attracted to the same sex), and bisexual (attracted to by the same sex). two or more genders), asexual (not attracted to anyone of any gender), omniscient (attractive regardless of gender), or false bisexual (attracted to transgender people) .
   • Rumor: A bisexual cannot be faithful.
     • A person can choose to live monogamous. An individual's sexual orientation does not determine an individual's ability or desire to be in a faithful monogamous relationship. Both sides decide for themselves what it means to be monogamous.
   • Myth: Bisexual people have more sexually transmitted diseases.
     • The incidence of a sexually transmitted infection is not correlated with a person's sexual orientation. Instead, this ratio is related to the individual's protection from sexually transmitted diseases.

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   Relationship restart. Realize that your relationship has entered a new stage. If you want the marriage to be successful and continued, then you need to be ready to change. He's still the husband you've lived with for a long time, but now you know more about his desires and feelings. Understand that you need to start over, with some new limits and expectations about what marriage means for you both.

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   Talk to your husband about his wishes. Your husband may have been struggling with bisexuality for a long time. If he doesn't tell you now, he may be trying to hide his true feelings. The husband knows that they both trust and respect each other. He was brave to be honest with you. Now you can take it a step further by talking to your husband about what he wants. What kind of marriage does he want? Does he want another spouse? Or do you still want to have only one wife? advertisement

Method 2 of 4: Communicating with husband

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   Be aware that it's not easy to talk about gender issues. You can both feel embarrassed mentioning this sensitive content. For the husband, this may be the first time he has confessed his bisexuality. Husbands feel long and anxious about discovering deep secrets, about hiding your emotions, or about what other people think of him. For your part, you may experience anxiety about yourself, including feelings of emptiness, concern about the relationship, or attitudes of family members.
   • To initiate a conversation, you should both be patient and get to know each other. You need to know that you love your other partner and want your partner to be happy.

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   Be open to the other person. For your relationship to be better, you need to communicate honestly with the other person. Set a time each day or week when you are both able to talk without distractions. Address your concerns in an open and supportive manner.
   • You can ask your husband if he is related to other people, and if so, when. Your bisexual husband does not mean he is deceiving by default. But if he is about to have a relationship with someone else, then both should be honest about it. Lie and deception do not make a better marriage.

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   Mention your place in a monogamous relationship. When a person is bisexual, a wife is often concerned about the husband's fidelity. If your husband wants to marry multiple partners, and you agree, then support him in making it happen.
   • Many bisexual couples are in a longstanding monogamous relationship. Determine what you want out of the relationship.

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   Set limits. Be clear about what you want in this relationship. You can come up with some rules about another spouse, or sexual activity that you are both willing to engage in. Do you agree to have your husband have sex with another person or to many people at the same time? To what extent do you want to be involved?

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   Determine what you both want to share with family and friends. As you and your husband begin to get to grips with life in this new period, you may choose to share some information with family and friends. If you have children, think about how you address them on the topic of bisexuality.
   • Remember that when you “disclose” with your children, you should have a candid conversation about the issue so they can ask questions and understand your feelings. Be patient and give them time to accept the truth.
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Method 3 of 4: Continue with everyday life

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   Realize that you don't have to change everything about your sexual activity. Life goes on with work stress, persistent headaches, shopping for food, and more. Daily life goes on as it did before the husband revealed to you that he is bisexual.

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   Make sure other aspects of your life are still fun and enjoyable. Married life when there is merely physical intimacy. You can both find hobbies and activities together. Traveling together. Nurture a fulfilling life in many different ways.

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   Find out about your sexual desires. Having an open conversation about your partner's sexual activities and desires is an opportunity to express your desires. You are still attractive in the eyes of your husband and he wants you to freely find out what excites you.
   • Many people experience sexual awareness when they realize their husbands are bisexual. The relationship becomes strong and makes them feel more satisfied.
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Method 4 of 4: Seeking help

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   Go to the LGBT center for support. The LGBT Center (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) is a place where you can receive health and counseling information, as well as a list of LGBT-friendly businesses and communities.
   • Find your local LGBT center by visiting the CenterLink website: The LGBT Center Community.

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   Meet with a mental health professional. A specialist in relationship problems and sexual activity can help you understand your relationship and your husband's feelings. You may feel anxiety or some emotions arise in the relationship, and this can help you see more deeply about how you feel.
   • If you feel your relationship is going wrong, you should seek advice for couples. Currently there are many doctors who specialize in the field of the LGBT community.

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   Talk to a trusted relative or friend. You may feel that your sex life in marriage is a private matter, but it can help you change your view of the matter. Choose someone who is non-judgmental and willing to respect you and be trustworthy. advertisement