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Have you ever had the feeling of wondering if a girl likes you or not? Many guys believe in the following philosophy: If you like a girl, find all three undeniable proof that she likes you too. If for a few days you can't find that proof, she probably doesn't have feelings for you. You can ask her straightforwardly, but there are many other ways to determine her feelings for you.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Analyze her gestures

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   Pay attention to her body language around you. If you touch her, will she touch you again or avoid it? When she talks, does she lean towards you? Is she comfortable when you talk, or does she keep her distance and be wary? There is no way to know her feelings for sure, but these details can help you guess. Some girls are still free to play around with guys, even if they don't like him.

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   Watch for clues that she is avoiding you. If she dodges or makes an excuse not to hang out with you as usual, she may not like you. If she likes you, she will find a way to be with you more, not vice versa. Of course you shouldn't take this as absolute, maybe she's just shy. However, if you find that she keeps scheduling appointments during her research, that might not be a good sign.

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   See if she's flirting with another guy. She might not like you if she's flirting with another guy, but she might just be making you jealous, so don't jump to the worst conclusion. There's no way to know for sure that she's flirting with the guy or just being friendly.
   • It's best to compare the attention she gives you with attention to other guys. If she's a shy person, she may be more comfortable talking to someone she doesn't like than with someone she likes - and that might be you.

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   Pay attention to how her friends behave when you are there. Girls often tell their friends about their crushes. If the person laughs at her or at you, they may find it funny she chooses you. They may pair you with her.
   • Not everyone does, but if you notice, you might see a friend of hers nudge or wink. Pay attention to such clues.

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   Notice if she is looking at you. When you like someone, you want to see them all the time. If you catch her looking at you all the time, that might be a good sign. If she never does that, it could be that she's avoiding her feelings, or she's busy working. If the two of you make regular eye contact, that's a very good sign.

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   Look into her eyes. When you are talking, she will probably make lots of eye contact with you if she is in love. She will probably laugh a lot and be attentive to everything you are saying. advertisement

Method 2 of 3: Pay attention to her language

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   Listen to her tone as you talk to you. If you know that she was behaving with great enthusiasm when she met you, that's a good sign. However, don't be discouraged if she acts cold sometimes. Maybe she's just in a hurry or doesn't want to be with you at that moment. At times, she may be frowning or have a bad day. Pay attention to the topics of the conversations.
   • For example, if she is always dragging you into interesting conversations, she might think you are interesting as well.

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   Wait to see if she takes the initiative to talk to you. If you've always been the one to start the conversation first, she may think this is a effortless relationship. Talk to her a few times and give her some chance to start a conversation with you first. If she doesn't do anything, she may not be interested in talking to you anymore.
   • For example, if she asks about your recent ball game or piano recital, she cares about your interests. That is a good sign.

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   Pay attention to how she asks for you. If she likes you, she will ask you for help. She may ask you to help you with her homework in the hallway of the classroom so she can get closer to you.
   • She may ask you a lot about your interests. She may even say she is delighted that you are about to move into the same block. Pay attention to such clues.
   • If she's a good student and asks you about her history homework, she probably already knows how to do it but just wants to talk to you. Be careful though, she may really need help, so don't be too happy.

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   Notice how kind she is to you. It sounds simple, but sometimes, the simplest clues are the most important. If she is kind to you and asks a lot of questions, she probably likes you. Someone might say: sometimes a girl will act petty towards you to get your attention. That's not right. They may flirt with jokes, but they will never offend you. Teasing is also a good sign.
   • For example, if she teases you about being late for school, maybe she likes you. If she says you are an idiot because you got poor grades, she doesn't like you.
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Method 3 of 3: Ask straight

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   Ask her out. Although this is very difficult, it will help you answer many questions. Don't guess her feelings about her. Everyone will appreciate you if you dare invite her out. They will admire your courage and wish they could be.
   • Even if it's just a girl working at the bookstore, approach her and invite her to have lunch with you every day. Worst of all, they will refuse but still feel proud. If they say something bad, don't waste their time.
   • For example, you could ask her what she's going to do tomorrow noon. Offer to invite her to buy some bread to have lunch with you. Just simple as that.
   • Asking if she has a boyfriend is also a good idea. If she does, she will pay less attention to you. Since she's a flower owner, it's best to leave her alone. If she's single, maybe she likes you or anyone else.

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   Ask her directly if she likes you. Here's a straightforward way to know the answer. However, the benefit of this approach is that the two of you don't have to go through the dating phase. If you have never been on a date and it seems difficult to ask them out on a date, you should ask them directly about their feelings. Then you can go ahead.
   • You don't have to say "Do you like me?" Let's say you feel like you are in a good relationship, and you are thinking that it is above friendship level. Then ask what she thinks.

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   Ask her friends if she likes you. This is not the bravest way but it can work. Reach out to her best friend, whom you also play well with. If your friend knows you are a good person, they may help you find the truth. While the truth may be hard to hear, at the very least, you won't have to worry about her feelings. If they refuse to answer you, then that might be a good sign. However, they could also say they didn't know. advertisement

Advice

• Remember that she might like you but not show it.
• If she smiles warmly when seen by you, that could be a sign that she likes you.
• If you look her in the eye and she smiles, she likes you.
• Another good sign is that she touches you while you are talking.
• If she talks to you and says that you made her laugh, that's a good sign.
• If she doesn't like you, remember that there are lots of fish out there.
• If she is mean to you, there is a 50% chance that she likes you and a 50% chance not.
• Guessing another person's feelings without asking them directly can cause a lot of unfortunate misunderstandings.
• Don't force her to do things she doesn't want to do.
• Don't rush, you may have to wait a while before learning the truth about her feelings.
• Don't touch her body without her permission. This is extremely rude whether or not she likes you.
• Don't be rude or make jokes, she might be sensitive (though not showing it) and your actions will hurt her.
• Don't be too blunt about trying to make a girl jealous (like flirting with a few other girls too), because whether you believe it or not, if a girl likes you, she'll be sad if she sees you flirting. another province.
• If you say that you like her while chatting with others in a straightforward manner, both of you will be in a dilemma.