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When you have a crush on someone, it's completely okay to wonder if they have feelings for you. Fortunately, you can recognize their feelings by noticing how they behave around you.If the person you are eyeing really likes you, they may seem nervous to talk to you, inquire if you already have a lover, or make excuses to ask you out. Even so, don't try to infer the person's actions; Remember that you can always be straightforward and ask if they like you!

Steps

Method 1 of 4: Internet exchange

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   Notice how much interaction you have with your significant other on social media. If you have feelings for you, your ex may follow you on any social media platform to learn more about you. Pay attention to whether they message you on Instagram, tag you on Facebook posts, or frequently interact with you on other social networks.

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   Notice when they text or call you. If your ex is only texting you late at night or when you're bored, they probably don't care about you as much as you think. People who really like you text or call every time they think of you, like when they have free time during the day and want to know what you're doing, or they want to share with you something interesting. .
   • If your ex texted you in the morning, this is a good signal - that means you are the first person they think of when they wake up.

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   Notice the number of times they text or call you. Someone who really cares about you will want to talk to you. If you and your significant other have frequent long conversations, or even just a few short texts throughout the day, your crush probably has a deep crush.
   • Even so, the string can also be a sign that your ex sees you as a good friend.

   

   
   

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   If you want to know if the person likes you or not, be patient. Don't put pressure on them by expressing your feelings as it will backfire. Instead, stay calm, show them, feel your presence, and know that you are carefree. If you are in a hurry and they realize you have a "conspiracy" something, they will avoid you.

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   How often does the person reply to your messages? It could be a text message or a text on social media. If you text the person and they don't respond often, they probably don't have a crush on you. Check to see if the person often responds to your messages, even if they don't respond right away.
   • Note that the person may not respond to your message as soon as it is received. If they answer after a few hours, that's still a sign they like you; however, if they don't respond for days, they probably don't mean anything to you.
   • Don't depend on this feature to determine if the person likes you, though, as replying to a message is just a polite gesture.
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Method 2 of 4: Read body language

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   Notice if the person seems nervous, anxious, or excited when he sees you. Depending on the person's personality, they may show signs of being nervous or energetic around you. A sign of nervousness means that they want to make a good impression on you and are afraid of saying or doing something wrong, and excited when they are excited about meeting you.
   • For example, if the person is more confused talking to you or more restless than usual, they may have a crush.
   • Sweating or blushing can also be a sign that they are a little nervous around you.

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   Focus on how the two of you make eye contact. This will vary depending on the person's personality. If they are shy, they will be shy about making eye contact and often look away. Conversely, your ex will be bold to look you in the eye if they like you.
   • Watch your partner's pupils when they look at you - if they dilate, that's a sign they like you.
   • Making eye contact between two people will depend on each person's personality; So, be aware that this is not a sure way to determine if your ex has feelings for you.
   • If he likes you, he or she will try to peek at you whenever possible.

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   Do they gently touch you to show affection? This is a familiar way of showing affection. If your ex pushes you playfully or pats you, they are trying to let you know how they feel.
   • For example, when you hang out with your crush and if they playfully touch you or squeeze you on the shoulder, they may have feelings for you.
   • Note that this can also be a gesture that the person typically does when he's around others.

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   Look at the person's feet to see if they're facing you. When people are attracted to others, they often mimic each other's body language and stand facing each other. Next time you talk to the person, glance at their shoes to see which side their feet are facing. While this may imply that they like you, it could be just how they stand; Therefore, you should not pay too much attention to this feature.
   • If the person moves the chair towards you, that is also a good sign.

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   Notice how the person leans toward you while talking. When we pay attention to someone, our body naturally turns closer towards them. When you talk to the person, whether standing or sitting, pay attention to whether or not they are leaning toward you to determine their feelings for you.
   • This can be as simple as sitting across from you and resting your elbows on the table while talking to you.
   • Body language can be difficult to tell at times, and you shouldn't make guesses about a person's feelings just because they lean toward you.
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Method 3 of 4: Chat about meaningful things

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   They may like you when they want to know if you are single or not. If your ex likes you, they'll want to know if you're keeping an eye on or getting to know someone else. Pay attention to whether the person asks if you dated anyone, as well as questions about the person of your dreams.
   • Your ex may find out indirectly and ask your friends if you have a girlfriend.

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   They ask many questions about your life and hobbies. That means they want to know more about you because they really want to get to know you. Notice if the person is listening as you talk about your life and remembers the details you told.
   • For example, they'll ask about your favorite food, do you have a pet, or what your favorite TV show is.
   • It could also mean that he or she wants to be your good friend.
   • If you have told your ex that you love to skate and they plan to take you to the ice rink, that is a sign that they are interested in listening to what you have to say.

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   Your ex may like you if they reveal their future plans to you. The person will not be afraid to talk about the tourist destination they want to visit, the career they want to pursue, or what they want in the next 5 years. If the person tells you about their plans for the future, or asks about yours, that could be a sign that they like you very much.
   • For example, if the person says, "You plan to major in Engineering when you go to university, what major are you going to study?", They want to have deeper conversations with you.

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   Listen to what they have to say and notice if they tell you private things without telling anyone else. If the person likes you, this is a sign that he or she is comfortable around you and wants to get to know you better. Talk to the person and see if they reveal any secrets about themselves that no one knows about, because they trust you.
   • They can share with you important topics like family stories or previous relationships, or little information they have never told anyone else.
   • Even if your ex doesn't have feelings for you, this is still a sign that he or she trusts you.
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Method 4 of 4: Observe how the person behaves in life

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   They find a reason to ask you out. If he really likes you, he or she will want to spend time with you. For example, go out with friends and family and spend time alone with you. Notice if your ex is often inviting you to hang out and find ways to interact with you while with other people.
   • For example, if your ex invites you to dance or pick you up at a party, that means they like you.
   • If your ex has excuses to meet you, such as studying for exams or going too long to work or school, it may be that he or she really likes you and wants to spend a lot of time with you.

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   Pay attention to what your friend's friends do when you meet you. If your ex reveals feelings for you to their friends, those friends will behave very differently when you see you. When you hang out with your crush and their friends, watch to see if their friends are teasing them or flattering them when you see you're listening.
   • Your friends will talk well about the person in front of you to get you to reciprocate his feelings.
   • Some of his friends will hint at him or her that he likes you, such as suggesting that you date him out on a private date.

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   Your ex is attentive to your needs. This is another sign that they are attentive and interested in you. If you tell the person that you are cold, hungry, or need something, pay attention to how they react. If they try to give you what you need, it shows that they care about making you feel better.
   • For example, if your ex gives you a jacket when you're cold or buys porridge for you when you're sick, that's a good sign that he or she cares about you.
   • While this is a good sign that your ex cares about you, it is not a guarantee that he or she will like you too.

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   Watch how they become more organized for you. This includes private spaces such as home or car and their appearance. If you visit the person and they have cleaned the room or took some time to look after themselves, they are probably trying to impress you.
   • The person can take care of himself by styling his hair, making sure his body is clean and fragrant, or choosing nice clothes.
   • If the person really likes you, they'll want to show their best side to prove themselves decent.

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   They smile or laugh at your jokes. People who like each other are often drawn to each other's personalities and humor. When you make a joke or say something funny, pay attention to how the person reacts. If they smile when you laugh or laugh at all the funny things you say, that's because they like your humor.
   • If the person smiles or laughs when you say something funny, it could mean they have feelings for you, or they just think you are a funny person.

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   They are mischievous and flirtatious when talking to you. For example, they call you with funny nicknames, make fun of you, or joke around with you. Each person will have a slightly different way of flirting, but if the person happily and emotionally plays with their mischief, they are trying to get your attention and show their feelings.
   • Flirting can also be a light punch on the arm or making a sarcastic but not malicious comment.
   • If the person brags, this could be another sign that he or she wants to get your attention.
   • Many people have a natural ability to flirt when chatting with others, so that person can do the same when around anyone.
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Advice

• Boldly ask if your ex likes you or ask a friend to ask for you.
• Believe in yourself! If you have a good feeling for someone, don't hesitate!
• If the person wants to introduce you to their friend, that's a sign they like you.
• If you catch your ex looking at you all the time, they may have a crush on you.