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• Steps
• Advice
• Warning

Charity is the most intimate experience two people can share, but not everyone knows how to behave after that hot time. The key to making a night out into a great relationship is thinking about your partner's feelings and respecting them. Let the salty aftertaste pass naturally and find ways to get closer to the person, like cuddling, talking or bathing together. By showing that you are serious, you will have the opportunity to strengthen the relationship and start a long, sweet relationship.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Continuing to connect with your partner right after making love

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   Let the aftertaste after sex gradually fade away. Take a few minutes just to lie with your ex and bask in feelings of satisfaction. The warm moment may be over, but the feeling of warmth and closeness may not. Usually people get up and leave, or focus on something else as soon as the sex is over.They do not sense the brief moments of contentment that have been briefed after the madness has passed.
   • Just as you use foreplay to increase your excitement and anticipation before you enter the game, take a moment to slowly and gently land on the ground after having fun.
   • If you plan to do the second half, you need to take a few minutes to rest and recharge.

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   Hug the person. Instead of rolling to the side of the bed to sleep, hold your partner tightly. Put your arms around them, and gently nuzzle their necks or run their arms through their hair. Maybe the two of you will have a good night's sleep together after a few minutes, and that's the happy end to a good night out.
   • If you're still awake, you can watch TV, listen to music or talk and laugh while lying side by side.
   • Physical intimacy after sex is very important. Without it, your ex may misunderstand you and assume you have sex just for pleasure.

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   Enjoy silence. There is no rule that says you must chat after sex. Forget about coming up with something cool, listen to his or her breathing, feel his or her heartbeat, and experience as much as you can.
   • If you feel the need to say something, you will try to find a way to speak in a way that is easy to hear, but it is easy to be awkward and distant.

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   Let the conversation run its course. When you continue to talk, be as natural as possible. Relax, be yourself, and only talk when there's something worth talking about. Praising the person for their seduction skills or asking about simple things like how they are feeling is a great place to start.
   • Try not to ask as if you were forcing the person to bow. You will make them awkward asking things like, "Do you like it when I do that?"
   • Do not criticize, evaluate or give advice yourself after having sex. This is a time to relax, not to listen to lectures.

5. 

   Bathe together. When it's time to get up and shower, walk into the bathroom together instead of splitting them one by one. A hot bath may be what you need to feel refreshed. You can also climb into the tub and relax together for a long time if there is enough space. This not only saves water, but also an opportunity to have fun and be together comfortably.
   • The first time you bathe with someone else can be a little weird. Keep the air happy by splashing water lightly on them or offering to rub their back for them.

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   Find your own space if you're feeling down. Sometimes people feel distant as soon as an intimate moment ends, especially if the person is someone they don't know well. This is completely normal. If you have mixed feelings or the idea of ​​staying behind to hug a stranger that makes you feel uncomfortable, ask for permission to do other things like calling a trusted friend or taking a walk. You can either leave or tell the person to leave if it doesn't feel better after a few minutes.
   • You are under no obligation to cuddle, flirt, or confide in after a celebration. Instead, do the things that make you feel most comfortable.
   • While it's important that the person feels relaxed and satisfied, how you feel about what just happened is also important.

Part 2 of 3: Avoid hurting your emotions

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   Try not to sleep. It's okay to feel a little sleepy right after sex, but falling asleep right behind a hot bed can be mistaken for impolite behavior. Try to stay awake and connected with the other person. Sitting up or talking to your significant other may be better if you're really exhausted.
   • When you feel about to really fall asleep, focus on taking a deep breath or going to the bathroom to refresh your body.
   • The goal is to sleep behind the person. Once they are asleep, you can take it as a safe sign to fall asleep.

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   Put your phone down. Make sure that the other person has your attention until the quiet moment has passed. Your ex will not want to see you glued to your phone after this intimate time. After that, you will have plenty of time to reply to messages or update status on Facebook.
   • You should also turn off the ring or turn off your phone before having sex to avoid being disturbed.

3. 

   Calmly dress. Look for your underwear if you feel embarrassed but leave your outerwear behind. If it feels cold, get under the blanket or pull the person a little closer instead of dressing them up. The two of you have shared bodies, so there's nothing to be embarrassed about at the moment.
   • There's nothing wrong with changing into warm pajamas or dressing gowns, but if you do it in a hurry, your ex may feel distant or ashamed.

4. 

   Consider staying overnight. If you are in no hurry the next morning, sleeping with your ex can be a good thing for you both. Being with them is a respectful and polite gesture, as it shows that you don't want to leave them too quickly. You two can walk away the next morning after spending a pleasant night together.
   • If you can't stay, state it deftly so that you don't look like you're in a hurry to leave. Tell your significant other that you have to go to work early in the morning, or that you have pets at home and have to feed them and go for a walk.
   • While you're at your ex's house, don't assume that he or she wants to keep you. Watch for signs that they are wanting to sleep alone, for example when the person says how busy they have been for a week, or becomes distant (physically or mentally) after grace. love.

Part 3 of 3: Be considerate of them the next morning

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   Inquire by calling or texting. Contact the person the next day and let them know that you enjoy what happened. Many people make the mistake of deliberately ignoring contacting the other person because they fear it will give them a reputation for clinging, but that only adds to their suspicions. A quick conversation will show them that you are always thinking about them.
   • A phone call is the most considerate way to inquire as it takes more effort than texting, but texting is also better than nothing if you're busy.
   • Do not wait too long to contact. Remember that you are communicating with a human with their own feelings, expectations and worries, this is not a game.

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   Keep a friendly and warm attitude when in a crowded place. Greet them when you meet them at school or work, or when you accidentally bump into them while on the street. Smile, make eye contact, and give them a few minutes. The golden rule here is to treat them the way you treat your friends, unless you have agreed to keep the other story a secret.
   • You shouldn't feel that you have to act unfamiliar to keep things normal or let others not find out. Your ex will think you are avoiding them.
   • Likewise, you shouldn't do anything to draw other people's attention about the two of you sleeping together. Privacy is an important condition for maintaining healthy and mature sex relationships.

3. 

   Try to spend time together outside of your bedroom. If you have a few hours, see if he or she wants to go out to dinner or watch a movie with you. At the very least, invite them to go for a walk or have coffee. They will be happy to know that you have enough feelings for them to meet up so quickly.
   • The bottom line here is that the two of you must meet in proper clothing to maintain and reinforce the original bond. If you are not willing to engage in non-sexual activities with them, you will appear superficial and the person will feel taken advantage of.

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   Always be straightforward about what you want. Communication is very important in all relationships, including between lovers. In future meetings, let them know how you feel about things and encourage them to share their thoughts. If one of you is looking for a long term relationship and the other just wants to meet once in a while, you will definitely have a big conflict.
   • Ask yourself what you are hoping for in this relationship and where do you think it will go.Your ex should also agree with you or at least understand your point of view.
   • Do not try to deceive others just to continue having sex with them.

Advice

• There is not a single handbook on how to behave after sex. Many websites, movies, and other self-proclaimed "experts" will tell you what to say or do to paint a certain image, but the best you can do is live right with yourself.
• Communicate your wishes with the person you plan to have sex with to avoid any awkward or humiliating situations afterwards.
• Make sure the two of you are honest about your reproductive health first so it doesn't become the point of conflict.

Warning

• Do not use sex to bargain. Asking for, asking for special treatment, or accusing the person of doing what you want will only degrade sex and can lead to a broken relationship.
• Don't smoke after a passionate moment, unless you two work together. This habit is considered by many people to lose interest.
• Keep your time together a secret. Bragging about such accomplishments may crash the person's beliefs or mislead others about the person.