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It's not always easy to tell if a guy has a crush on you. Some guys like to tease the girl they have a crush on, while others are more romantic and open about their feelings. Even though every guy will be different, there are still plenty of signals that a guy likes you above the level of his friend. Once you know the truth, you can begin a relationship with the other person or simply be pleased to hear it. If you want to know how to determine if a guy has a crush on you, read Step 1 to get started.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Look at what he does

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   See if he's trying to impress you. If a guy has a crush on you, then he will find ways to try to impress you. He'll want you to think he's brave, cheerful, cool, and even human. Next time you are with someone you think has feelings for you, see if he tries to say or do something that's supposed to impress you. If he tries to get attention while playing sports, brag about his great weekend plans, try to do something crazy, like get dressed up and jump in the pool or do something crazy. Some other behavior that seems to be able to impress you, then he is probably crushing on you.
   • Watch closely when he does something "impressive". If he is constantly looking in your direction to make sure you're paying attention or to see what you think of the action, then chances are he likes you.
   • While it's hard to know what he does when you're not around, try to guess somewhat if he starts to show more when you're there. For example, if he starts telling a goofy joke or showing off his ability to juggle cam as soon as you step in, then maybe this action was done for you.

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   See if he's jealous of guys you hang out with. Here's another sign that the guy is in love with you. If he gets jealous of the guys you hang out with, then it's just because he likes you and feels intimidated by them. Guys often have different ways of showing that they're jealous of other guys. Maybe he will make fun of those guys in front of you, be rude or hostile to them, or he may simply roll his eyes and turn away when the other guys are around you. If he's jealous of guys around you, it's because he wants to have more fun with you.
   • Of course, he wouldn't admit that he was jealous. But if you see him constantly talking about how bad your friend Thanh is or asking you why you could be friends with a weirdo like Sơn, then here's how he talks that he wants you to spend more time with him instead of with the other guys.
   • If he lowers your friends of the opposite sex right in front of them, then he's definitely jealous of them. While this behavior can be a problem if he's really rude, if he's just being unfriendly for a while, it probably means he has a crush on you. .

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   See if he's always looking for a reason to be with you. If a guy has a crush on you, he'll want to spend time with you as much as possible. He might suggest that the two of you study together after school, or invite you to watch a movie with a group of friends. Maybe he's going to a party simply because he knows you'll be there too. Maybe he will ask you what you are up to and keep saying that he is thinking about doing the same thing. If it seems like he is with you more and doing a lot of things like you, then it might be because he has a crush on you.
   • Think about it: if about a month ago you almost never met him, and all of a sudden he shows up with you all the time now, then maybe that's because he likes friend.
   • Maybe he is too shy to go out alone, but if he and a group of friends are always near you, it still means that he is in love with you.

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   See if he's flirting with you. It's not always easy to determine if a guy is joking with you. It depends a lot on the person's age - if in middle school, maybe the way he flirts with you is to make fun of or joke around with you. Every age and stage in life will have different definitions of flirting, but what's important is, if he just chooses you, spends more time with you than others, teasing about The things you say, the things you do, the clothes you wear, and generally just do the same to you, whether you feel like in a teasing way, it means he's flirting. friend.
   • If he makes fun of you and teases you for always wearing purple or constantly making funny comments about your earrings, then he is flirting with you.
   • If he pushes or nudges you, this might be his jabbing and he is trying to get closer to you.
   • If he teases you enough to even give you a nickname, then he is definitely flirting with you.

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   See if he treats you differently from other girls. An important sign that a guy has a crush on you is how he treats other girls. If he treats other girls the same way he treats you, then he probably doesn't like you. But if he flirts with you a lot but doesn't pay much attention to or care about other girls, then he's probably "listening" to you. In another, he cares for other girls and is mostly ignorant of you - confusing, but this may also mean that he likes you and is simply feeling cold. shy with you
   • Next time you are with him with other girls, pay attention to what he does to them. Did he tease them, ask them a lot of questions or even jokingly put his arm around them? If he does the same to you, then maybe he is simply a flirtatious person. However, if he treats you completely differently, then maybe you really are the person he loves.
   • He might even act more elegant and polite around you than other girls. Does he open doors or pull chairs for you more than he does for other girls? If so, then he probably has a crush on you.

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   See if he will help you. Another signal that he is watching for you is that he will find a way to help you. Maybe he will help you to throw away garbage in class. Maybe he'll bring you a book. Maybe he'll check the showtime for you. Take into account the smallest things. Think about it. Do you feel like he is looking for ways to be helpful to you? If he does it to you alone and not to other girls, then maybe that means he helps you because he likes you.
   • Of course, he might just be a friendly guy who likes to help people. But it's much less common than the possibility that he has a crush on you.
   • The fact that he helps you out also means that he cares about what you need. This is a sign that he is watching you!

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   Observe how he uses the phone. These days, one of the easiest ways to know if a guy likes you is to watch what he does with the phone. Maybe he is too shy to honestly talk to you in person and feels more comfortable getting to know you over the phone. Here are some signs that he might like you:
   • Did he ask for your phone number? Don't be disappointed if he doesn't - he may find giving you his phone number a smarter way to show that he cares. If he gives you your phone number, text him right away with your name so he has your number. After giving him your phone number, smile and say something like "Call me now and then, we can go out together!"
   • Pay attention to how often he calls or texts you. If he texts you a lot, that is definitely a signal that he cares. If he never texts you, it could be because he's too shy. Don't be afraid to be proactive in this case - chances are he is waiting for your text! However, if you text him multiple times and he doesn't respond, that could be a signal that he doesn't like you.
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Part 2 of 3: Examine what he said

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   See if he asks if you like someone. If he asks you if you like or have a crush on someone, this is a clear signal that he likes you. Perhaps he asks because he is jealous or worried that you are liking someone else, or because he secretly hopes you will say that you like him. This is probably not the smartest way for him to talk about this, but most guys usually don't know which way is better. If he always makes fun of you or annoys you about whether you like someone or not, then it may be because he likes you.
   • However, there is one exception to this. Perhaps he asked if you were liking someone because one of his friends liked you, and in fact, he asked for the other friend's help. Think about whether he has a friend who keeps an eye on you or likes you.

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   Think if he told you he couldn't find the right girl. If he always tells you that he hasn't met a girl that's right for you, or that none of them are as smart, beautiful, or interesting as you, then this might be his way of telling you that you are her. the girl he likes. If he dated other girls and told you he didn't really like them, or he always said that other girls never met his standards, then then this might be his way of telling you that you're really the other half for him.
   • However, you need to make sure that he has no intention of befriending you. If he asks you for advice on dating, then he probably just sees you as a friend. But if he's just "complaining" to you about what kind of girl he can't find, then he's probably trying to tell you that he likes you.

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   See if he's always looking for clever ways to compliment you. Another sign that a guy likes you is that he's always looking for ways to praise you. Maybe he won't say something so obvious like, "You look so pretty today," but he will tell you that the dress you are wearing is very beautiful, that he likes the new earrings. your shoes, or he thinks your new shoes are great. Just the fact that he notices your looks, what you do, or what you are wearing shows that he cares for you and that it is very likely that he is secretly in love with you.
   • Maybe he'll compliment you on how good at sports you are, how smart you are in class, or how much he likes your jokes. Although some guys are often shy about complimenting personality traits or talents, focusing only on the more conspicuous things, this can also be a way for him to show affection for him. friend.

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   Notice if he tries to figure out your plan. Another sign that he has a crush on you is that he always asks you what you're going to do on the weekends. Maybe he's jealous so ask you to make sure you're not dating. He may also ask that as a way to ask you out with him, or because he hopes you will ask him out. If he wants to know what you're going to do outside of school, then it's most likely because he wants to participate in those activities.
   • Maybe he will just say something as simple as, "Are you going to do something interesting this weekend?" If you say no, then maybe he will take the opportunity to ask you out. If that's the case, then chances are he has a secret crush on you.
   • Observe his face as he asks what you're up to for the weekend. If you say you're going out with your girlfriends, see if he shows relief because you're not hanging out with any guy.

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   See if he opens his heart to you. If a guy likes you, he will tell you what he's thinking or feeling. He can tell you about pets, family siblings, friends, or even his wishes for the future. If you find that he is telling you quite personal things, and if he even says something like "I'm not telling this to many people" or "not a lot of people really know about me", then then that is your signal that he thinks you are special. If he likes you, he will probably be more open to you than most others.
   • Even if he doesn't really open his heart to you, it doesn't mean he doesn't like you. That might just be because he's a bit shy.

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   Notice if he smiles more around you. If the guy likes you, he may be more worried about being with you than with other girls. This may lead to him laughing more than usual when he's with you. Maybe he will laugh hard at something that is not funny that you say, he will even laugh at something you say even though it is not meant to make fun at all. Next time you are together, notice how he laughs more than usual. If so, then it's probably because he is in love with you.
   • Watch when he is with other people. Is he the type to laugh a lot or does he laugh more when he's with you? If his laughter is for you, then it's probably because he likes you.
   • You can also see if he finds all sorts of ways to make you laugh. If he seems to joke more around you than others, or simply seems to be trying harder, then it's probably because he has a secret crush on you.
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Part 3 of 3: Read his body language

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   See if he's always looking for an excuse to touch you. It is very natural that, if a guy likes you, he will find ways to touch you more. If you are sitting next to you and your knees or feet are touching, or if his feet are constantly touching yours "at random," then it may be because he likes you. If the two of you are in a group, and he often jokes or pushes you jokingly to tease you or simply to touch you, then this is probably a sign that he is in love. friend.
   • Notice what he does next time you are together. Does he touch you skillfully or lightly touch you a few times? If so, maybe he likes you. Of course, if he's really shy, he probably won't try to touch you or even be a little shy around you.

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   Notice if you catch him peeking at you. This could be another signal that the guy likes you. If you look toward him during math class and catch him looking at you, or if you see him watching you the whole time you walk through the cafeteria, then it may be that he likes you. If he blushes and turns away, or is simply embarrassed when you "catch" him looking at you, then the more likely he is to have a crush on you.
   • The downside is that, if you keep trying to catch him looking at you, he may start to think that you are the one who has a crush on him. But that's true, isn't it?

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   See if he turns towards you when you speak. Next time you talk to the guy, notice if he turns his chest, shoulders, and feet toward you, and if he points his body in your direction. If he likes you, he will want to be closer to you and be attracted to what you are saying. He may even lean toward you to get closer to you while he talks. If he turns away, crosses his arms across his chest, or turns his shoulders in the opposite direction, then he probably doesn't like you at all. While body language isn't everything, it can really help you guess if a guy is in a crush on you.
   • Of course, it's also helpful to watch him when he's with others. See if his body language is more open to you than to others. If he always crosses his arms across his chest when talking to people, then it's not a big deal if he does the same when he's with you.

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   See if he's fidgety with you. This is a signal of anxiety. If he's fiddling with the drawstring hoodie he's wearing, prying his fingernails, brushing invisible dust from his shirt, or kicking in the air when he's with you, it's probably because he likes you and is feeling nervous. Next time you talk, notice if he moves his arm or other body parts more often than usual. If so, then this may mean that he has a crush on you because he is worried about how he should behave around you.
   • Maybe he'll fiddle with his phone or simply look at his phone to find something to do. This does not mean that he is bored and wants to talk to others, but that he simply gets nervous when talking to you.

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   See if he is more groomed around you. If you see him fixing his hair, looking in the mirror or a reflective surface, cleaning dirt from his shoes, or fixing his shirt or pants while with you, then it's probably because he is in love with you. and feel anxious about her appearance. Next time you talk, notice if he is awkward about his looks. If so, maybe it's because he likes you and wants to look your best.
   • Think about it: you tend to spend more time looking in the mirror before meeting someone you like, right? The boys are the same. If he likes you, he will worry about his appearance even when he is talking to you.

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   See if his face lights up when you enter the room. This is one of the most important signals that a guy likes you. If you walk into the room, whether it's a classroom or a birthday party, and his face lit up, his eyes widened and he smiles brightly, then this means he's in love. friend. Maybe he won't come over to you right away, and behave more timid than he really feels, but ultimately this first reaction shows that he really likes you.
   • Maybe his face will light up and he will look away or try to be calm instead of approaching you right away. But if you see the first look in his eyes, you will know his true feelings.

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   See if he pays attention when you speak. If a guy really likes you, he will give you his full attention.He will turn to you, look you in the eye and won't look around for friends or text while talking to you (unless he uses his phone as a support because too worry). If his friend passes by and he doesn't even see them, or if he doesn't keep looking around the room, then it's because he is in love with you and is completely attracted to you.
   • Next time you talk, see if he gives you all of his attention. If he looks at you attentively, responds to what you say, and is genuinely attentive, then he's probably secretly fond of you. However, it is also possible that he will be too nervous to lose focus because he is busy thinking about what to say next!
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Advice

• Learn to understand body language. It can tell you A LOT.
• If he's walking with a friend and seeing you, the friend may start nudging him gently, punching him in the shoulder or giggling.
• Notice if he talks to you like other girls he doesn't like. Try and see the difference, and maybe when you are "closer" and you get to know him better, you can ask him if he likes you or not.
• If you're trying to make him jealous by asking another guy or one of his friends to pretend to be your boyfriend, it won't make things any easier, because it's so. will have the opposite effect. You will have even more problems.
• Remember that sometimes they will simply try to be polite when you care about or praise you. Some guys aren't observant enough to realize that they can make you vibrate by doing such things. To see if that is only a part of his personality, observe how he interacts with others and compare it to the way he treats you. While that's not a sure way to know if he likes you, it will still give you some guesswork!
• Remember not to be too rash or paranoid. Don't forget that you don't really know if this guy likes you or not. Honestly the best thing you can do is wait or talk to him about it.
• Don't ask him if he likes you or not, even if you think so, because he can say "yes" or "no".
• Did he give you advice even if you didn't ask for it? This is one of the most important signals.
• Ask your friends who he likes. (Unless your friend is not close to him at all, because in that case this is obvious. Even so, the plan is still very effective.)
• Try complimenting him and see how he reacts.