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• Method 1 of 3: Give hints
• Method 2 of 3: Ask people to leave
• Method 3 of 3: Handle the situation well

It can be an uncomfortable situation when you have people to work out of your house, such as after a party. Don't worry though, there are polite ways to let your guests know it's just about time to leave. Not only can you give hints, but you can directly, but politely, tell them to go. Make sure to consider the situation and feelings of the person or people in question when deciding what to do.

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Method 1 of 3: Give hints

1. Suggest continuing the party elsewhere. If you just want to get the guests out of your house, but don't mind spending more time together, you can suggest moving elsewhere. For example, say, "Let's have a drink at Joey's bar," or "Who wants to go bowling?" Your friends will probably make some suggestions until you all agree on the next destination.
   • If you don't want to move to the next location, say something like, `` I heard the new pub around the corner has great mixes on Thursdays, '' or `` Cheers is a great place for a nightcap. '' Hopefully your guests understand the hint and agree to move the party elsewhere.
2. Pretend your guests are the ones ready to go. When you're ready to end it, say something like, "Wow, I kept you here half the night! Why don't I just clean up while you all go home for some rest "or" Gosh, you've been held here for hours! Everyone will be tired and ready to go home. "They are unlikely to argue with you or insist on staying longer, so you'll have your house to yourself again in no time.
3. State the time in a surprising way. Make a show of looking at your watch and shock when you find out what time it is. You could say, "Oh my goodness! It's after midnight "or" Wow, I had no idea six hours had already passed! ". This should make it clear to your friends that it is time to end the evening.
4. Tell your friends that you have a busy schedule. Reminding people that you have other responsibilities or obligations can prompt them to go home. Say something like, "I need to do a lot of laundry before I can go to sleep," or "My day will be full tomorrow, so I need to get some rest." Hopefully they get the hint and decide to go home.
5. Ask a good friend to help you. If one of your close friends is around, you can ask for their help getting rid of your guests. Talk to the other person privately and ask them to leave around a specific time. When the time comes, your friend can get up, stretch and announce that he / she is going home. Usually the other guests understand the hint and soon follow suit.
   • Your friend might say, "That was a fun night!" It's getting late though, so it's time to go. "
6. Yawn repeatedly. Yawning means you are tired and ready to end the evening. This hint works especially well when it's late at night, but won't be too convincing in the middle of the day. You can also act sleepy or distracted, which could mean that it's time for your guests to leave
7. Start with tasks that generally end the day. Clear the table or go to the kitchen to do the dishes. You can also turn off the music, blow out candles or turn off the lights in rooms that are not being used. All of these things will let your guests know that the night is over.
8. Pretend you're not feeling well, such as from a headache or stomach ache. If you don't see a point in telling such white lies, it can be very effective. However, keep it on hand as a last resort, as it is always better to be clear. Most people hate being sick, so they will likely leave quickly to avoid contracting a virus.
   • You could say, "I think I'm getting sick" or "I don't actually feel very well. Do you mind if we continue this another time? "

Method 2 of 3: Ask people to leave

1. Joke about the situation. If you think your guests are going to take a joke, you can use one to tell them it's time to leave. Then smile lightly to show them you're kidding. Usually people understand what you mean and go home instead of waiting for you to ask them again.
   • For example, say, "You don't have to go home, but you can't stay here." Or say, "Well, I'm going to bed. Turn off the lights and lock the door when you leave! "
2. Ask if they want anything else. When you offer your guests a last drink, leftovers from the meal, or a treat before returning home, you are letting them know that the evening is over. It also gives them the feeling that they are getting something to do, which takes the sting out of the indirect request to leave.
   • Tell your guests, "Can I get you anything else?" Or "Would you like a bottle of water for the return trip?"
3. Tell the guests the party is over. If you're hosting a party or other event and feel like your guests should go home again, you can politely let them know it's time to go. Say "Sorry, everyone, but the party is over!" It was a lot of fun and hope to see you all again soon. "This is direct, but polite, and should get your guests moving.
4. Tell roommates you need your own space. If you live with a housemate or partner and the house is in your name, you can ask the other to move. Make time to have a conversation when the two of you are together. Be calm and consider the other person's feelings.
   • You could say, "Although we had a good time here together, it doesn't work anymore. I'm sorry, but I have to ask you to move. "
   • If the person rents the home with you and refuses to move, you may need to involve the police.
5. Explain to you guests that they can no longer stay. It can be a difficult situation when a friend or family member has taken advantage of your hospitality long enough. Give them specific reasons why it is time for them to go.
   • You could say, "We can't afford to keep you living here any longer," if the other person is attacking your finances and has not offered to contribute gas, water and electricity or groceries.
   • If someone has taken over a room in your house, say, "Sasha really needs her own room back now," or "Dave has to use his office every day, and he can't do that while you're here."
6. Offer to help guests find a new living situation. When asking guests to leave, also offer to help them find a place to go! For example, you could search online for listings for rental properties within their budget, or go with them to see which homes they're interested in.

Method 3 of 3: Handle the situation well

1. Be reasonable and respectful. This is a delicate situation, so you will want to do your best to avoid being defensive on the part of your guests. Don't comment below the belt or be rude by saying things like, "Gosh, don't you have anywhere else to go?" Instead, say something like, "We really enjoyed having you here, Peter. I hope we can keep in touch "or" Thanks for coming, Lisa! Let's get together for lunch soon. "Or" Thanks for coming, Lisa! "
   • Avoid asking to keep in touch or meet again if you really don't have the desire to do so. In that case, just say, "I'm sorry, but it's time for you to go."
2. Keep in mind that your guests can get angry. Sometimes guests can get angry about being asked to leave, even if you ask them nicely. This is a risk you have to take if you want them to leave your home. Remind them that you care and that it is not personal.
   • For example, say, "It's nothing personal, George. Tomorrow I have a busy morning at the office. But let's get together for a drink this weekend, what do you think? "
   • You could also say, "Veronica, I see you don't like this, but please don't take this as a personal attack. We agreed that you could stay for a week, and it's been ten days now. I can help you find an apartment that is available now if you wish. "
3. Specify clear times when your guests have to leave. Make it clear from the start how long you can stay with your guests. Write a specific time on the invitation, such as "6:00 PM to 10:00 PM". If you're inviting them over the phone or in person, mention when the event ends by saying something like, "We need to wrap things up at nine tonight because Gina has a meeting early tomorrow."
   • When the guests arrive, you can also say, "The party will be over at 11:00 tonight" or "We have a busy schedule tomorrow, so it won't be late at night."
   • If you are dealing with guests, make your expectations clear by saying something like, "You can only stay with us for two weeks" or "You have to find a different solution before April 1."
4. Don't let yourself be persuaded. If you would like your guests to leave, they can try to convince you to stay. If you are about to ask them directly, it is clear that you would like to have your house to yourself again. Guests can ask if they can stay a few more days or partygoers can try to convince you that the evening is still young. Be firm in your decision and repeat your request or reasoning if necessary.