Content

• To step
• Part 1 of 3: Laying the foundation
• Part 2 of 3: Being compatible
• Part 3 of 3: Making sure it lasts
• Tips
• Warnings

Virgo men can be a little shy at times and not always easy to get to know, but they make great platonic and romantic friends - their perfectionism makes them impressive dates! Have you found one that you find attractive? Easy to see why - they are smart, loyal and down to earth. Here's what you need to know if you want to start a relationship with one of these men, born between August 23 and September 22.

To step

Part 1 of 3: Laying the foundation

1. If you are interested in a Virgo man, try to make friends first. Virgos are not passionate creatures, ready to plunge into bed with you. They like to know exactly what they are getting into. They won't let themselves be carried away on a whirlwind of romance. So try to befriend first! Show him you really mean it, and his interest is piqued.
2. Make him respect you. The traditional Virgo man needs a woman with a classy appearance. She is smart, holds her own and is very mature for her age. She's got everything right. She doesn't like gossip or trivial things just to be able to listen to herself. Don't try to arouse his lust (Virgo man knows that's cheap); get him to see you as a person worthy of being respected by him.
   • Don't arrive at him with fancy lip gloss, well-timed roll-back of your hair and blinking eyelashes. Show him who you are. Show him a person who is great and knows it too. Be real. That's the only way you can actually gain his respect and loyalty.
3. Be direct. The Virgo man isn't the most direct, daring sign of the zodiac out there, to put it mildly. You may have to give him some not-so-subtle hints to make it clear that you like him. He sometimes needs to be sure of himself before taking action himself. Can you blame him? Nobody likes rejection!
   • The stomach reacts to looking in the same way as to touch. So instead of touching his arm like any girl does, give him that look that almost makes you scream, "Kiss me." Before you know it, it melts at your feet.
4. Get ready to take action. If this figure is anything, it is a perfectionist. He notices every little detail and expects it. He makes sure that everything in his wardrobe is sorted by color, size, date of purchase and number of clothes. He sees when pictures in a frame are not exactly centered, when a curry lacks the right amount of spice. This has advantages and disadvantages - so focus on the benefits!
   • He's the kind of person who will notice if you've gained half a kilo. He's the kind of person who can look at your hair and notice when there a lock is wrong. Give him the benefit of the doubt - he's just trying to get everything perfect. He's also the type of guy who will make you spend time together exactly how you want it. That makes up for all those nitpicky comments, doesn't it?
5. Expect class. You remember we talked about perfectionism? How can something be perfect if it isn't the best? Virgo also expects things to be beautiful. Not necessarily the most expensive (actually quite the opposite - but more on that), but solid and well thought out. He can take a simple T-shirt and jeans and make it look classy because of the thought behind it. That's how the relationship will be!
   • Because he thinks everything through, your outings will be well planned and extravagant, in their own way. He takes you to a restaurant he owns know for sure that it is good and knows exactly what he wants to order and what to say to the staff to get the best table. He arranges an evening where the details are so perfected that you wonder how he can make it look so effortless.

Part 2 of 3: Being compatible

1. Make your look simple. Wear simple hairstyles, clothes, makeup, and jewelry - stay away from ALL excess as Virgo men love a natural beauty. You know the practical side of him? That's where that comes from. They really don't like "showery" or "artificial." How refreshing!
   • Virgo wants his partner to be real. Who not? Although they love beautiful things, they have nothing to do with brands. Simple and chic resonate with them much more than finery and expensive. You should be what shines the brightest, not that shiny necklace you're wearing.
2. Be clean and neat. Practice good personal hygiene and take care of yourself as clean and tidy as possible. And just as your body should be clean, that also applies to your living situation! If a Virgo man walks into a house and finds piles and piles of junk there, he won't be back anytime soon. Have a clean mantra when it comes to your entire life.
   • If you don't, you risk finding him in your bedroom while he's cleaning up. Or suggest a new soap to get rid of the smell. Throwing away any dressings that are expired and still in your fridge. There are conversations you should avoid!
3. Don't be extravagant and wasteful. Back to that practical side. Virgo knows exactly what he needs and exactly what he no longer needs. Just as he doesn't embark on a superfluous display of affection - he doesn't really like excess anyway - he wants a partner with the same mindset. From him things don't have to be complex and unnecessary. That would just mean that he has to worry or worry about more things!
   • If a Virgo man is cooking for you in your kitchen and finds 6 pots of peppers, 5 of which are open, he may wonder if you were too lazy to go through your kitchen cabinets before you went shopping and knew that you were wasting money.So do yourself and your budget (and nature!) A favor and take him as an example.
4. Be stable. Because Virgo is an earth sign, he expects his partner to be stable too. Being capricious and prone to anger or mood swings is not his thing. He likes life to be simple, remember? Drama has no place in its world. Emotions are fine, provided they are in the right dose. Crazy behavior, gossip and drama are not!
   • This doesn't mean you shouldn't tell him how you feel if you're feeling sensitive. Try to be rational and think about it logically. Instead of calling him up crying because your best friend looks prettier today, take a step back. Go see him that night and talk about your struggles with your appearance. He then sees that you are calm and open to reason - instead of out of touch and incomprehensible.
5. Expect to be made happy. While you shouldn't expect big shows or intense theater in this relationship, you can expect him to please you. Virgo man likes everything to be perfect and will make sure you are happy. He doesn't know what to do if you aren't! If you ask him to do something, he will make it to the end and then take it one step further. That's a partner!
   • He's not going to make a big point that your relationship is getting serious anytime soon, but you can bet he will think about it. When he opens up easily to you, trusts you, allows you to be his rock, know that you are in. Maybe your name won't be lit in neon, but you are guaranteed a constant love forever.

Part 3 of 3: Making sure it lasts

1. Know that he is a sign from Earth. Virgo (along with Taurus and Capricorn) is an Earth sign. This generally means that they are very stable and resist change. Like the Earth! They are steadfast in their ways and know what they want and need. Most of the time, they won't open up anytime soon - but once they do, it's forever.
   • Virgo is a sign that can be muted, meaning that these features are not set in stone. But if you want to put them all in one category, you'll find that they are generally solid people - grounded, with a foundation on which to build everything (thoughts or planning), and are balanced at their best.
2. Know that he sometimes needs confirmation. Virgo men are often preoccupied with things in their minds. That is why they can become somewhat detached from reality, resulting in an unconscious tendency towards uncertainty. When this happens, he may need some confirmation. If he acts shy towards you, let him know that this is not necessary (not necessarily in your own words). Clearly be welcoming. He may be able to use that extra boost.
   • Accept it and appreciate it. Instead of wishing him to be more open and confide in you, realize that this quality makes him sober, humble, loyal, and far less conspicuously megalomaniac than the Leo sign that precedes it. This sense of uncertainty that comes up from time to time can be a huge relief!
3. Don't think of him as a know-it-all. Because he notice all kinds of small details, many people consider him a know-it-all. He takes one look at your pie chart and can tell you there is a 1% deviation. Not only does he notice it, but he does says something about it too. This can be a bit annoying if you don't realize he's just trying to get everything as good as possible. And why not?
   • The good thing about Virgo is that if you control your thing, he can handle it! He is open to debate and enjoys talking about things he has learned and experienced. So next time your Virgo guy corrects something about you, don't hesitate to say, "No! I did this on purpose!" and then explain why.
4. Understand his reluctance to act. Virgo doesn't just jump in anywhere - from relationships to conclusions. He needs a plan for everything - how else could he know it will be perfect and above all, acceptable? So if he doesn't declare love to you right away, don't immediately question his feelings. He needs time. Give him that.
   • Your relationship may start slowly, but that's fine! This is the way Virgo man operates. It is not an indicator of a lack of passion or anything negative. He will open up to you at some point, if you can muster the patience. After all, good things are worth waiting for.
5. Know that it is practical rather than poetic. When it comes to romantic gestures, then you shouldn't expect love songs from your Virgo man about your little left toe. That just doesn't make sense. Why should he waste his time on that? But he shall lend you his sweater when you are cold; he will hold the door open for you; he'll give you the perfect gift on your birthday, because those things are something mean. That's the good stuff, anyway. Who wants a poem about his toe now?
   • This can be frustrating when you are looking for affection and you are very sensitive. They won't answer that and don't seem to understand. If that is the case, then you will have to relax for a while. Watch it from a distance and realize they just don't operate that way. Soon enough, they will show their feelings in a different way.

Tips

• They hate people who act like something they are not. Who isn't, to be honest?
• Clean your house before you invite a Virgo man to visit. Virgos HATE filth and junk.
• Watch your manners - including your table manners!
• Watch your language! Virgo men strongly dislike the overuse of curse words and will not tolerate it!
• Ask a Virgo man to dance with you. Then he can break free from his worry and enjoy a carefree, fun time.
• Virgo is the most perfectionist sign of the zodiac. Stay away from Virgos if you are NOT a perfectionist yourself!
• If you give a Virgo a task, he will do his very best. But he doesn't need money or anything like that; above all else, he needs appreciation.

Warnings

• Just like women with that zodiac sign, men with the zodiac sign Virgo have NO understanding for who is selfish or rude!
• Like the Scorpio, Virgo men can be EXTREMELY private, jealous, and even crabby.
• Virgo men can be very critical and have their opinions ready. Keep this in mind if you have insecurity.