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• Steps
• Warning

The art of seducing women involves being attentive to their needs and naturally coming together based on those needs. If you want to attract a girl, take the time to get to know her, create a relaxed atmosphere, and slowly progress towards physical intimacy.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Preparation Phase

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   Let everything be natural and slow. Essentially, the key to success for charm is time. Foreseeing everything is one of the factors that makes someone interested in someone. When starting a date with the girl you notice, take it slow. Wait a bit patiently before approaching her and learn to listen to what she has to say. Don't let your intentions unfold too soon, as this will be inspiring. At the beginning, let everything be natural and slow.

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   Dress neatly and politely. If you want a woman to notice you, you should dress yourself in the best outfit. Improve your fashion sense if you are hoping to meet the girl you like at bars, parties or other events.
   • Choose clothes that enhance your beauty. Don't hesitate to go to the clothing store if you're worried that your current wardrobe is too poor. You can ask the salesperson to advise more about choosing clothes for you.
   • Remember, you are charismatic enough. Try to dress your own beauty. That means don't shave if you're a beard or a suit if you're a serious man. It's hard to be comfortable if you behave differently from what you are. If you are observant, even the girl you are dating can easily recognize this abnormality. Confidence is the key to reaching her heart.
   • Before leaving the house, be sure to take a good shower and spray some perfume. Do not over-spray as it can be stuffy. A little vintage scent can be effective for flirting with.

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   Learn to listen. When approaching someone, try to listen to what they have to say. Women are more likely to be attracted to men who care about them. Instead of bragging or talking about yourself, listen to what she has to say.
   • Ask more than answer. It's great when you ask questions that can break the ice between the two of you, like, "What are you doing?" or "Where did you grow up?"
   • Show her that you are listening by smiling, nodding, or sometimes making comments like "Aah" or "Yes, then why." Don't forget to ask follow-up questions. Ask for more details about the story she's telling or her personal information.
   • Lust has something to do with personality. Getting to know a person better can increase your sexual feelings toward that person. If you can crush the woman of your dreams, then you will be more interested in sexual desires by really getting to know her.

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   Be confident. Most people are drawn to their partner's confidence. Being comfortable and open will gradually draw your distance from others. When approaching a girl you like, make an effort to show her your confidence.
   • Remember that the line between confidence and pride is very thin. It can be annoying if you want to master the conversation just to brag about yourself. However, when she wants to know more about your job, your hometown, or other information about yourself, tell her with pride.
   • Make her laugh. A lot of girls have been completely defeated by guys with a sense of humor. Try to tell the funny situations you have encountered in your life to see if she was impressed by her ability to make fun of a laugh.

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   Flirt with her with your body language. Taking initiative and confidently communicating body language are signs of your feelings. Try using the suggestions of green light to let a woman know that you like and want to reach her.
   • Erect. Keep your head and back straight. Do not fold arms or hold drinks in front of your chest. Let her see that you are confident in every way.
   • Break all barriers in all the most romantic ways you can think of. Take your hand and take her around a bar or wherever you meet her, for example. Or show her the way by wrapping your arms around her waist. Slowly and gently, let her feel comfortable with your touch.

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   Make an opening sentence appropriate for the context. A lot of people have an aversion to the opening sentences of a date. However, if you start off with something distinct and striking, it will really highlight your charm and bring your woman's attention.
   • Studies have shown that an opening sentence can highlight your qualities - meaning there's nothing bad about bragging about. Women especially hated openings that were cliché or erotic compliments. Instead, they're often drawn to opening sentences that let them know more about what makes you special than the other options. Example: If you were a nurse, why not try opening the meeting by saying, “Well, the party seems so lifeless? As a nurse, I think it's a bit exhausting, right. " Or if you're a fireman, you could try leading a story like: “Is it because of me or is it because it's too hot? As a seasoned firefighter, I think you could be a source of fire. ”
   • To choose an opening sentence, think about what might stand out from the side of your personality or life. Like what you are doing, hobbies, or strengths you have. But don't just stop at the opening sentence. Research shows that these opening sentences work best when followed by conversation.

Part 2 of 3: Creating Atmosphere

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   Know how to use scent effectively. When inviting a girl home, the key to successful seduction is having a pleasant scent. Before she arrives, don't forget to open the door a few hours in advance to get rid of the unpleasant smell in the house. Light a few candles. Pay attention to a mild and not too strong scent, typically like vanilla or woody. Take the time to get to know what she likes in advance. Try asking scent questions during conversation, like asking her what perfume or shower gel she likes to get a better understanding of her preferences.

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   Turn on music. A little bit of light music can inspire her. But the key here is to focus on what she likes, not what you like. Choose music she's interested in that is slow, gentle, and inspiring.
   • Ask her about her taste in music first. Try playing a band she is a fan of, but choose a song with a slow melody. Pop music just seems to make people want to dance rather than the physical desire.
   • Classical genres, such as those performed by Barry White, often lead your story in a rather cheesy context. Don't stick to traditional options so your date won't end with a tired roll of her eyes.

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   Decorate. The surroundings have a great impact on the art of seducing someone. Get inspired by embarking on decorations.
   • Candle lighting is a great way to get inspired. If it's your first time spending a night with a girl, she might be feeling a little insecure. Turning the lights down and using candles can help her feel more comfortable taking off her clothes. For many people, candles are considered as a romantic tool.
   • Make sure to tidy up your house before she arrives. A tidy and clean home can prove that you are responsible and well-groomed. This will be interesting to a lot of people.

Part 3 of 3: Getting closer

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   First intimacy. Move slowly when starting things. For example, come sit up close and put your hand on her knee or shoulder. Again: pace is a key element of the art of seduction. Too hasty can ruin it all.
   • The first kiss should be done lightly, it is more than a quick kiss but not necessarily too passionate. Let herself want more than that. It would be great if you learn about her favorite type of kissing. Try to find out how she responds to your kiss back as it will be of great help in getting to know her better.
   • In case you want to go after someone you have known for a long time, try starting things out in unexpected places. Some long-love couples show their love in a rut and this can be boring. Change your taste by talking or having sex in the kitchen, or even jumping into the bathroom with your partner.

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   Focus on her sensitive area. Sensitive areas of the body are stimulated by lust when touched, kissed, licked or fondled. The sensitive area of ​​each person is different.But some women have a tendency to be sensitive to certain areas of the body.
   • The area in the neck and ears is where many nerves are concentrated. Lots of people ignore these parts. So the area around the ears and neck gets irritated if someone gently kisses, sucks, licks and bites.
   • For many girls, the head and leg areas are the most sensitive. Gently massaging the scalp or feet can help make foreplay easier.
   • Focus on your lips while kissing. Try licking, biting, and sucking her lips.
   • Women also experience sexual pleasure when touched on the abdomen, lower back, and inner thighs.

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   Don't jump at her. Maintaining momentum is also listed as a success factor for the art of seduction. Acting too hastily can make the person uncomfortable and distracting. When you are with her, let things be gentle. Try to pay attention to her feelings and thoughts. You should get along and be in tune with the woman you like so that you both enjoy a pleasant experience together. Stop and ask her how she feels from time to time and pay attention to her response.

Warning

• When coming together, make sure that the other person is interested and agree to green light for you. Stop and ask from time to time if everything you do is okay.
• Have safe sex using a condom, especially if you spend the night with a stranger.