Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 3: Interact with a colleague
• Method 2 of 3: Express Interest with Body Language
• Method 3 of 3: Build Your Attractiveness
• Tips
• Warnings

Flirting with colleagues can relieve stress in the workplace and dilute the gray days. Some women flirt because they want to have an affair with one of their coworkers. Others do it just for fun. Flirting in the workplace requires extra precautions as it is important to remain professional. That being said, it is possible to allow for some playful interactions with a colleague by engaging in friendly conversation, adapting body language, and dressing in a seductive but professional manner.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Interact with a colleague

1. 1 Chat with a colleague. Men tend to view friendly and talkative women as flirtatious. Find excuses to communicate with the person when they are not busy. For example:
   • Talk about hobbies, interests, and plans outside of work: “What are your plans for the weekend? Personally, I'm dying to see this new film. "
   • Praise his recent accomplishments or awards: “I heard you just received an award! Are you going to celebrate this case? "
   • Ask him about current projects: “Hi, how is your project progressing? Are you holding on? "
2. 2 Laugh at his jokes. When a coworker jokes or says something a little funny, laugh. Laughter is an easy way to flirt.However, it should not appear feigned, nor should it give the impression that you are laughing. over human.
3. 3 Compliment him. Give credit to the work he does in the office and praise the man for his strengths. You need to show that you value his skills, abilities, and personality, not his looks. For example:
   • “You did a great job on the last presentation. You have to give me some advice. "
   • “Thank you for helping with the last project. You make life at work a lot easier for me. "
   • “You have such good ideas. How do you come up with them? "
   • Be extremely careful when complimenting in the workplace. If you think the person is feeling uncomfortable or uncomfortable, stop immediately.
4. 4 Get help. Asking for help can boost a person's self-esteem and self-confidence, which will encourage them to flirt with you in return. It will also show that you value their strengths in a professional-friendly manner. It may even make your coworker want to spend more time with you. You can try the following options:
   • “Hi, you know a lot about technology, right? Can you help me with my computer? "
   • “Would you mind hearing me rehearse my presentation? I would like to hear your opinion. "
   • "Can you help me lock everything up tomorrow night?"
5. 5 Spend time around a coworker's desk. Find excuses to stop at his workplace. Perhaps you have a question about your project. Or his table is next to the coffee machine. Make eye contact as you walk by and wonder how his day is going.
   • Walk past his desk and try to catch his eye. If he looks at you, smile and ask: "How was your day?" - or: "Well, are you holding on?"
   • You can also ask, “How is the work progressing? Do you want to take a coffee break? " This will give him the opportunity to start a conversation if he is interested in it.
   • Don't interrupt a coworker if he or she looks busy. In such a situation, you are more likely to irritate him, rather than a desire to flirt.
6. 6 Invite him for coffee or lunch. Perhaps you are feeling pretty relaxed or want to take the next step in your relationship. Rather than inviting him to a bar or restaurant - which would be too formal - ask if he would like to grab a bite to eat during his lunch break. Coffee is also a great way to connect.
   • Just say, “Hi, we need to catch up at lunch. Do you want to eat somewhere? "
7. 7 Respect its boundaries. The main priority at work is to fulfill your responsibilities. Be aware that flirting at work can get you in trouble if complaints are made. If a coworker feels uncomfortable or asks you to stop, stop flirting with him. Give him some space by only talking to him about work matters for a few weeks.
   • Before taking any steps, please review the guidelines for sexual harassment in the workplace and the guidelines for co-worker relationships. You can also talk to your Human Resources Officer if you have any further questions.
   • At work, make friendly jokes that are not sexually explicit.
   • Never flirt with your boss. He takes a position of power, and any flirtation can cause professional difficulties for both of you. Better to flirt with colleagues of your equal rank or salary level.
   • Don't flirt with a co-worker who is married or in a relationship. Even if a married colleague likes your playfulness, you will put both of you in a quandary.

Method 2 of 3: Express Interest with Body Language

1. 1 Make eye contact. Eye contact is one of the main flirting tactics. A quick glance will show your attraction and interest in the person.You can try looking at it from across the room during a meeting or across the table during lunch. Meet your colleague's gaze for a moment before lowering your eyes and looking away.
2. 2 Smile. Smiling is an open and friendly action that invites people to interact. In fact, smiling can be one of the best ways to meet new people and forge new relationships. When a colleague walks past your desk, take a quick look at him and smile. If you catch his eye during a meeting, smile a little. Don't stretch the moment. A quick smile is enough.
3. 3 Expose your neck. If you know he's staring at you, try pulling your hair back casually to expose your neck. This will show the curve of the neck while drawing attention to the hair. This unobtrusive but flirty movement will make it feel like you're inadvertently trying to get his attention.
4. 4 Lean over his desk. By bending or turning to another person, we give a signal that we are interested in him. You can practice this while working on a project with a colleague. Lean over the table to indicate something. Stretch your hand so that it is near the person, but not touching him. If you are working on the same computer, position yourself so that your legs and shoulders are directed towards a colleague.
5. 5 Avoid touching. While lightly touching someone is often a form of flirting, it can lead to trouble in the workplace. Try to use body language that doesn't involve physical contact. If your touch is unwanted, you risk getting into trouble with accusations of harassment.

Method 3 of 3: Build Your Attractiveness

1. 1 Apply makeup. Many men find women who wear makeup more attractive and flirt more with such women. Therefore, if you want to flirt with a colleague, it is worth working on your appearance. Eye makeup in particular can increase the chances of success.
2. 2 Wear high heels. Heels enhance feminine appeal for men. The higher the heels, the more likely men will look like you. High-heeled shoes will bulge your chest and pelvis beautifully, your back will arched, and your legs will become firmer and tighter in appearance - all this will make you more attractive.
3. 3 Apply a light perfume. Perfume can enhance sex appeal, but only if used in moderation. Spray them once on your wrists. Rub your wrists together, then lightly pat them on the neck. This way, you can apply enough scent to attract the person without annoying other colleagues' sense of smell.
4. 4 Maintain professional standards. While you should look attractive to a colleague, remember that you also have to look professional. Observe the dress code in the workplace. Avoid tight-fitting or short clothing that exposes your body too much. It is better to choose outfits that fit your figure well, but are not too revealing.
   • Whenever possible, try to use flashy colors instead of provocative clothing.
   • Wear jewelry to draw attention to your neck and arms.
   • Be sure to comb and style your hair in a way that highlights your best features and minimizes distraction from your work.

Tips

• If a coworker flirts with you in return, it might be worth taking the next step.

Warnings

• Some companies have policies that prohibit co-workers from becoming romantically involved. Remember this if this is your case.
• If a coworker rejects you or feels uncomfortable, stop immediately. Otherwise, he may complain about you for sexual harassment.
• Flirting can lead to dismissal if complaints are made.Be extremely careful when choosing an object to flirt, and make sure it is a mutual consent.