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• Steps
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Diaper Lovers (DL) is a term for adults who have a hobby of wearing diapers even when they are not sick. They wear diapers for convenience, sexual arousal, or simply preferring to wear them over underwear. When you meet someone who likes to wear diapers, you may feel confused or unsure of how to respond when someone says they have this hobby. In order to develop a good relationship with a diaper lover, be sure to understand their interests.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Understanding the Purposes of Adult Diapers and Pleasure

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   Understand diaper lovers' tendencies. One study in adults with a diaper hobby found that those who liked to wear diapers or behaved like babies began to show desire at the onset of puberty, between 11 and 12 years old and have been in such behavior for many years.
   • The majority of people with this hobby are usually men, have a job, and are in their 30s.
   • Men are more likely to develop diaper-using behavior than women, for example wearing a diaper or going to the toilet in it.

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   Recognize that many diaper lovers (DL) are or have had problems controlling their toilet behavior. Some people begin to wear diapers when they experience difficulty controlling the incident. As a result, they are required to wear diapers, and over time will come to love it.

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   Learn personal history. Some studies have shown that adults who behave like babies and wear diapers may have experienced sexual abuse as a child and / or transgender. Some individuals have a different gender identity from someone who has a predetermined sex at birth, and prefers to be called "she" when it is biologically male. Others who use plain diapers often exhibit gender anomalies.
   • People should not be judged on the past or the way they present themselves in the present, even if they make a choice you never made.

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   Accept the fact that not everyone who likes to wear diapers wants to act like babies. Although some DLs like to adopt the baby's lifestyle, not all of them do. There are people who like to use diapers to relax, feel comfortable, or use for foreplay during sex. The act of wearing a diaper doesn't always mean that you want to perform the behavior and want to be treated like a baby.

Part 2 of 3: Using Diapers to Increase Sexual Pleasure

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   Understand that some people like to wear diapers to stimulate excitement. People often enjoy using a variety of tools and sexual acts, from leather and rubber straps, to unique behaviors such as wearing clothes of the opposite sex. Although diapers are usually soft, sometimes warm, and are fixed right on the genitals, you will be quite surprised to learn that they do not decrease sexual interest in some people.

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   Awareness of the religion of animals. Some people like to wear diapers as an erotic object with diaper irritations and abuse, or Adult Childhood Syndrome. These people get excited by acting like children and being treated like babies. Diaper wear has nothing to do with medical or physical problems, but a longing attached to lifestyle.
   • Adult children love to play with baby toys, talk like a baby, be cared for, and do some child's activities. Just like choosing an aphrodisiac, everyone will behave differently.

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   Accept the fact that many diaper hobbyists are in a relationship with others. Most adults with infant-like behavior and / or diaper wear are often partnered or married, and the other person is well aware of this behavior. Diapers can be used for sexual purposes, during foreplay, or for sexual activity.

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   Understand that diaper lovers are not interested in having sex with children. People with this habit often have thoughts or sexual activities with teenagers. People who have a habit of wearing diapers for excitement are usually the type who likes to play the role of children and grows up physically.
   • Like other role-playing roles, the person playing the alien is not actually such an individual. This does not mean that they enjoy liking or interacting with aliens.

Part 3 of 3: Accepting Someone Who Likes to Wear Diapers

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   Ask your diaper hobbyist to explain the situation clearly to you. Instead of seeing diaper wearing as taboo, approach it with a broader mindset. If you have questions about diaper wearing, you can ask that person. If someone reveals that they like to wear diapers, then they should be comfortable bringing it up and explaining it in detail to you. Keep in mind, however, that he may not be willing to reveal secrets unless the person truly trusts you.
   • As with all personal questions, you should be respectful when questioning this behavior.
   • Let the person know they are important and supportive.

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   Accept diaper wearing. If someone with an important role in your life has this hobby, you should learn to accept it, even if you do not understand it well. Realize that you also have another bad habit and want to be accepted by them.
   • If someone reveals that he has a diaper habit, you may find that he or she feels really stressed or embarrassed to tell you the secret. You should understand what it feels like to keep a secret, as well as the importance of having others accept it.
   • Learn to accept diaper wearing with a nonjudgmental perspective, realizing that it is not too serious for someone to express yourself in an unusual way, even if you don't fully understand its nature.

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   Accept the real person. Even if you can't understand the diaper wearer's behavior, you should still learn to accept real people their. Diaper wearing is weird sometimes, but you need to accept the fact that everyone is a different entity. Diaper wearing can be a big difference between two people, but focus on what each other has in common.
   • Learn how to let go of his diaper wearing and appreciate his own personality.
   • Show the person that you don't care much about their diaper preference and empathy and acceptance of who they are. He also experienced pain, joy, sadness, and anger like many others. You can still develop a casual relationship with this hobbyist.

Warning

• Recognize that like non-diaper carriers, there are many genres of DL. A diaper-loving individual does not fully represent this group of people.