How to make a smart girl fall in love with you

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Steps
Tips
Warnings

This is a guide on how to make a smart girl fall in love with you. This article is more focused on teenage guys because I am a teenage girl who decided to tell you about the inner structure of the female mind. This is a rare opportunity because girls usually keep these things secret in an effort to be mysterious. Keep in mind, though, that girls will love whoever they like and sometimes, no matter what you do, you can't change anything. If that happens, you just have to respect her decision. However, this guide will improve your chances.

Steps

1 Okay, so the first thing to do is just obviously BE CLEAN! It's easy. Smart girls may not be very passionate about their looks, but being clean is important. A girl will often be impressed by a boy who even puts in the effort. So brush your teeth, floss, use mouthwash, shower, wash your hair! Only Pete Wentz can (barely!) Handle the messy look, it's doubtful you can. Wear clean clothes, I have to say that boys' shirts smell very good, but only when they are worn one day, and the same shirt worn over and over again without washing is not sexy in the least. Poor hygiene makes you look sloppy and girls will undoubtedly take notice. * * * Bonus: Using cologne will not only make you look like you are caring for yourself, but it will also imprint you on the girl's memory, after all, scent is the most powerful form of recognition. (In any case, don't use too much "Axe" deodorant. Some girls think it has a pretty bad smell. Buy "Axe" which smells good and don't put on too much. * * *
2 Be polite. A little friendly teasing is fine, and it will certainly help you come up with some personal jokes of yours. But remember that girls, especially teenagers, always feel at least a little insecure, and often very, very insecure, so be careful, because even the most confident girls can be a little insecure about something, so watch out. whatever you say, or you will definitely piss someone off.If you're joking, something "wrong" or disgusting will scare them (especially girls in high school).
3 Trust that you deserve it. One of the reasons you are reading this article is because somewhere deep inside, you think that you don't deserve it, that you don't deserve it, which in fact is complete nonsense and not true. Remember it matters if you think it matters; if you think you are not worthy of it, then the same thought will appear over and over again until you believe that it is true.
- To get this thought out of your head, try changing your reaction with a line. For example, when you see her in reality or in your head, repeat loudly in your head: 'I deserve her, I deserve her.'
4 Create yourself an abundance mentality. Do not forget that she is not the only smart girl in the world, that there are many cute and smart girls in the world. Having this 'abundance mentality' in mind will not only help you get girls, but it will also help you in other aspects of your life. So don't limit your options because you have a lot of them.
5 Do not abuse swear words or obscene language during the conversation. You can offend the girl or scare her away if your vocabulary is too obscene.
6 Touch. But not in a sexual sense, as it will just piss her off. But touching her hand in conversation or to get her attention is a great way to make her think of you as "more than a friend", which is what you want in the end, isn't it? * * * Bonus tip: Hug the girl, hugs make you gentle, caring, compassionate and sensitive. These are all good signs in a woman's mind. Whether you surprise a girl by hugging her from behind when she is talking to someone else, hugging her in greeting, or hugging her when she says something personal to you (either something sad or emotional) - this gesture will make melt the girl. * *
7 Chivalry is not dead. Little things matter. Keep the door open if someone is following you and always be polite. The girls notice the kind guys, and it makes a good impression.
8 Compliments are truly the path to a girl's heart. Seriously. If you like something about a girl, be it her personality, some physical properties, etc., say something about it. Honest, real compliments will make her feel special, but you should really think that way. We can pinpoint when you are making up or lying, and then you look like assholes or gamblers. Do not overdo it. If she becomes uncomfortable after 5 compliments you gave her in 3 minutes, you are probably overdoing it.
9 Don't be a player! You will look like a moron, and the girl you like will always question your true intentions.
10 Be a gentleman. Not to be confused with chivalry. When I say be a gentleman, I mean to everyone. Especially to her parents and friends. It will show you polite and kind, the girls will love it, trust me, I love it.
11 Be a little patronizing. Not too much, especially if you're not dating. If you are still in the "hunting phase", don't overdo it. Just stand up for her, if someone bully her or somehow hurts her feelings, stand a little ahead of her when you stand up and are on full alert. Be a hero, it's sexy.
12 Stand close to her. It's a subtle way of telling her and the people around her that you like her, and it really makes a difference.
13 Be yourself. Girls need a guy who has a good sense of self and is confident. Yes, your mom is right sometimes. * * * Bonus tip: Treat your mom, and essentially all women, with great respect. The same goes for siblings, children and pets.Yes, girls notice it and, yes, they love it. * * *
14 Be trustworthy. Keep her secrets, share your emotions, and don't go tell your friends about all her flaws, tell them only good things. And even if nothing goes well with her, keep the secrets she told you. It will make you trustworthy for other girls too. All girls gossip, try not to give them negative reasons to gossip.

Tips

Always hint that you like her and treat her a little better than you treat other girls. Showing her that she is special is the fastest way to get a girl's heart.
Keep her secrets! I cannot stress this enough.
Make some really close friends. This is good because: A) she will see that you can maintain a great relationship and B) she will see that you have boyfriend friends to do with them all kinds of boyish things, so that she does not have to trudge with you to watch a sports event. which she is not interested in (but keep in mind that some girls love sports).
Smile and / or wink at her; make her feel special.
Never tell a girl that her friends are stupid, ugly, taciturn, or boring.
Be sincere; when you say something, keep it in mind.
Be educated and express yourself clearly; girls love smart guys.
Forever give up jokes with a sexual context such as "So she said so" and others alike. They are the main reason for discouraging interest, unless they are uttered very rarely and they are completely out of place.
Witty banter, intellectual discussion ... Definitely a good idea. As mentioned earlier, you have to make her feel like a heroine in a Jane Austen novel.
Read the literature (I recommend Pride and Prejudice, which has the simplest yet most romantic story of all time ".... Dear Beautiful Elizabeth" - Mr. Fitzwilliam Darcy has too many good lines to quote) This will help you come up with some good phrases (low-grade bait phrases will definitely not work).
Always show your kindness.

Warnings

Don't push too hard. You don't want to look like a nutcase.
Do not get too hung up, lead a life separate from it, find personal interests and friends.
Low-grade bait phrases? No ... just not.
Don't start hugging until you've passed the friendship zone. Unless you are very good friends and she is upset or really happy, hugs may otherwise scare her away.
Don't stay in the friendship zone for too long, she will wonder if you really like her and you need to make it very clear that you want to be more than a friend in the near future.
Telling others her secrets will lead to immediate disbelief, and you will be at the very top of her @ # $% list. This is not good. If you tell her secrets, this is what might happen: She finds out, tells other girls, and no one wants to date you.
When I say touch, I mean it in the most innocent sense. Anything else will scare the girl away, almost any girl.
If you use cologne, don't overdo it. This may be something that will stick you in the girl's mind, but that doesn't necessarily mean it's good.