How to keep an Aries man interested

Author: Marcus Baldwin
Date Of Creation: 14 June 2021
Update Date: 12 May 2024
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Keep an Aries Man Interested
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Well, you've got the Aries man of your dreams, but now you probably want to know how to stay interesting to him. Given that this zodiac sign is adventurous and has poor concentration, the task can be quite challenging, but worth it if you succeed.

Steps

Part 1 of 4: Stay Fresh

  1. 1 Avoid routine. Just remember, the Aries man will lose interest in you the very moment the relationship becomes a routine or a burden. If you feel that you are sinking into a routine with him, arrange everything so that he does not get bored.
    • Realistically, you can't make every day look different from the last. Although, if you see each other every day, you should try to always do something new at least once or twice a week to cover all the accumulated routine.
  2. 2 Be on the same page with him. If you haven't realized it yet, your Aries man loves dating filled with adventure and variety. If you don't want him to lose interest, you'll have to match. If your Aries boyfriend asks you what you would like to do, opt for a night out instead of spending time at home.
    • If you really need to spend an evening at home, make it as interesting as possible. Prepare dinner using new and exotic ingredients, or buy a Latin Dance Teaching CD.
  3. 3 Move fast. If your relationship is still in its early stages, you should keep the relationship at the proper pace. The Aries man is not a fan of the measured course of life. Be prepared to follow his frantic rhythm or not be with him at all.
    • Of course, you also need to be honest with yourself about how willing you are to move the relationship. He may already be ready to go to bed with you, but if you do not feel this readiness in yourself, do not let his fervor persuade you to do what you do not want. If, however, you are ready to move on, do so confidently and without hesitation.
  4. 4 Surprise him. Even though the Aries man usually takes the initiative into his own hands, he likes a relationship with a girl who can keep him in good shape. When he least expects it, surprise him with something new and unexpected. When he gets high by being with you, he will want to be there for as long as possible.
    • On one weekend, you might offer something like bungee or rock climbing, especially if your loved one has shown interest in such activities in the past. You shouldn't pull him there, blindfolded first, but even a simple suggestion of this can be a good surprise.
  5. 5 Give him an unforgettable experience. When you want to give your Aries man a gift, take him on an adventure instead of buying some trinket. Believe me, he will appreciate an exciting adventure much more than some boring thing.
    • Front seats for a match of his favorite team or a camping trip on the weekend is often a better gift than a trite new disc.

Part 2 of 4: Leave him space

  1. 1 Let him waste time on himself. An Aries man needs to feel free and independent, so he may not always invite you to participate in his adventures. Try not to pull it back. An annoying woman, in most cases, will scare off an Aries man.
    • Try not to get discouraged if he chooses to spend the evening with friends rather than with you. The Aries man will not beat around the bush and hint that everything is over; if he loses interest, he will honestly report it. And so you don't have to worry that his sudden urge to chill out with friends is a hidden hint that you are in trouble.
  2. 2 Be light on your feet. Many Aries men can be bossy and may not like being told what to do. In other words, you will have to give him the initiative most of the time.
    • If you want to turn the relationship around in your own way, you should propose changes so that your loved one can later say that it is his merit.
  3. 3 Suppress the desire to somehow limit it. Unfortunately, many Aries men are susceptible to temptation. They can flirt with other girls, regardless of whether you are their official soul mate. Therefore, you may want to lock him at home when you go somewhere, but this will all rather open the way for him out of the relationship than bring you closer.
    • If he starts staring at someone, do not make scenes for him, but rather focus on how to get him to look at you again. Try to make eyes at the other guy and get your Aries to notice. His competitive spirit will spur him on and he will pursue you again.
  4. 4 Make him conquer you. If an Aries man chokes on your attention, he may soon lose interest in you. On the other hand, if you constantly stimulate him to win your interest instead of worrying about how to keep it, he is likely to adequately meet the challenge.
    • However, it is important to let him win if he accepts the challenge. Act disinterested at first, but when he starts trying to get your attention to himself, show him that his efforts are not in vain.

Part 3 of 4: Stay Fit

  1. 1 Always be active. Most Aries men will happily start a relationship if their partner is active both in and out of bed. Exercise is a great way to get close to him, especially if it's even a little risky.
    • Arrange a race, play basketball, or some similar game.
    • Remember that Aries men hate routine, so your physical activity should not be subject to a strict schedule. In other words, running every day after work isn't the best way to keep his attention. Change both your activities and your time just a little bit every time.
  2. 2 Play with him. As for the intimate activity, here the Aries men will not have to persuade for a long time. Whether you have reached bedtime in your relationship or not, you should be prepared for your man to flare up in the blink of an eye and try to persuade you to intimacy. You will have to follow his pace if you don't want him to get bored with you.
    • For your own sake, it would be nice for you to stay in shape. Otherwise, you will get tired much earlier than him.
  3. 3 Tease him. Unfortunately, Aries men can be a little selfish when it comes to intimacy and often insist on their own. If you want to have any kind of voting rights, you have to pretend that you are not completely satisfied. This will stimulate him very strongly and, as a result, he will begin to pay much more attention to you, thereby competing with himself.
    • Hint that his movements don't impress you. When he understands this, he will gladly begin to find out what you like and will not give up trying until he gets his way.
  4. 4 Don't be afraid to try new things. As with any other aspect of his life, Aries men need variety. If he wants to try something new in the bedroom, let him do it. If he doesn't get any vivid emotions with you, he will soon get bored.
    • Although, if something does not suit you, you should directly tell him about it.If an idea appears in his head, he will immediately begin to embody it, without even waiting for permission. Only outright disagreement can put an end to this.

Part 4 of 4: Be supportive

  1. 1 Support him in any endeavors. Since Aries men crave variety and fun, they are always busy with more new things to do than other guys. He may or may not invite you on the trip, but in any case, you should show him that you are always "rooting" for him.
    • This means that you need to be actively interested in other aspects of his life, both new business projects and new hobbies.
    • If he invites you to take part in his adventure, do not hesitate to join. If not, show as much interest as possible, but don't pressure him into inviting you.
  2. 2 Discuss. Even though your Aries man should feel that he is right, he needs to be given the opportunity to prove that he is right in order to be completely satisfied. You can and should challenge him from time to time, but remember that you must let him win more than he lose.
    • Of course, if you are one hundred percent sure of something, you should not give in to it. Your shyness isn't going to be a good decision, and don't let him win if you're obviously right.
  3. 3 Never criticize him. Usually, the ego of the Aries man requires a careful attitude towards himself. If you have a habit of correcting or embarrassing him in public, you are most likely hitting his sense of self-worth a lot, and this all leads to the extinction of his feelings.
    • Laughing at his childhood photos is absolutely not recommended, and if you start laughing at the mistake he made with his family or friends, this will lead to a huge scandal and not the most pleasant sensations. Despite all the assertiveness and confidence of the Aries man, he is very sensitive and easily injured.
  4. 4 Surround him with words and gestures of love. It is true that most Aries men are independent and impatient, but to create long-term relationships, you need to encourage them to develop emotionally. The best way to do this is with obvious tender signs of your affection for him. Deep down, he's afraid of being turned away, and constantly reassuring him of your sympathy will serve your relationship well.
    • Don't be afraid to get too close. Frequent messages “I love you” or “Can't wait to see you” will be appropriate, unless he asks you to get behind. Also, if you let him know that you've been thinking about him all day, he'll take it as a compliment.
  5. 5 Be open. If you really want to hold his attention, you need to be honest with your Aries man. Challenging him from time to time is very important, but he will not like the guessing game, so you should be decisive and confident when you need to, and honestly answer what you want when you are asked about something.
    • Do not quarrel and expect him to guess what you are upset about. Also, you should avoid tricky questions like "Am I fat in this?" He will not like being cornered, even if he knows how to get out of the situation.