Author:
Gregory Harris
Date Of Creation:
7 August 2021
Update Date:
9 May 2024
Content
Each person has their own ideas of what is really cool in adolescence. But there are a few things you have to do, and everyone agrees that it's cool. This means you have to smile, stand out from the crowd, make a lot of friends and build confidence to be really cool. So as soon as you feel cool inside, the matter remains small. And remember - there are very few teens who feel cool, so you are in the right company.
Steps
1 Think about your good qualities, there are many! Stand in front of a mirror and say something nice to yourself. Believe in yourself, and when you go out, people will admire your confidence and love you for who you are. 
2 Look good. Take care of your appearance and your clothes. Everything doesn't have to be expensive, it just has to look pretty. Create your own style and don't try to dress like anyone else unless you want to get lost and unnoticed. Take care of your hair, smell, body, skin, teeth and nails. 
3 Compliment people when you meet them (if you saw something beautiful). Meet a lot of new people and be friendly with them. 
4 Be a little flirty sometimes. It's fun to smile, watch and talk to your crush or a nice guy / girl you like. 
5 Throw parties when you can and invite friends from class. But don't lose control, or you may be in big trouble. 
6 Be as bad as you like! This is your life, you have no leader when you are cool! 
7 Be yourself all the time, because pretending and imitating someone else is bad and inconvenient. Find your best qualities, fix your flaws, and be proud of who you are. You can hear it all the time, but people will be able to spot fake and fake. 
8 Never stick with one person all the time. You may have close friends and even a best friend, but don't stick with one person or you will never meet new people. 
9 Be on the rise and have fun, if someone suggests doing something within the law, safe and that does not contradict your principles, do not refuse. Be known as someone who will always support any fun. It's delicious and it will make you mature faster when you step out of your comfort zone. But don't do anything wrong to just be cool! 
10 Make friends with energetic, fun-loving people. This will ensure that you have fun almost all the time. Ignore those boring people who won't influence you. 
11 Always find something to do. Every week or so, start a fun songwriting project and let some cool friends know about it. Always look forward to something - a school game you are participating in, a party, a concert, a carnival. 
12 Be known in the social environment. This means that you have to go to all parties, concerts, school clubs, walks and be known for your talents. Especially work on your natural talents. It will make you feel confident, happy, and famous. If you are good at dancing, join a dance group and perform at a talent show. 
13 Look friendly and open. Laugh, play and act stupid. This will show people that you are confident and fun, and they will want to get to know you. 
14 Make sure you are cool at everything. Learn new pop dance, pop music and get to know popular people. Be like popular kids because they are good examples of cool kids. 
15 Say what you want, if it's not wrong. You need to stand up for yourself and your beliefs. Create the changes you want in your life. However, don't say offensive or hurtful things to other people. That's not cool. 
16 Be spontaneous. Say unusual things. Stand out from the crowd and keep it interesting. Try not to be too fancy, as this can have repercussions and make you seem odd. 
17 Smile and laugh at what's funny, but don't do that when it's not funny, if people ask why you didn't laugh at their "funny joke," tell them that you think it's not funny.
18 Dress the way you like, which makes you feel beautiful and at ease, and does not annoy others. Do not dress provocatively, it will only give people the impression that you are asking for attention. 
19 Be modestly sarcastic. Don't always say nasty things, but if you notice irony in something, people will appreciate your quick wits. 
20 Don't do something just to look or feel cool. This is the coolest thing you can do, and in the future you will remember what you said in the past and say, “Wow, look how stupid I was. I thought I was cool, but I was so ridiculous. " 
21 Love yourself for who you are. After all, if you don't like yourself, how can other people like you? Be in tune with yourself and make choices that will allow you to respect yourself. Respect for yourself is ten times more important than respect for other people. It is for you to live with yourself, or for someone else. 
22 Don't let anyone bully you. If you have been bullied, talk to someone! 
23 Stand up for yourself. Protect not only your peers, but also yourself, show your confidence, but do not be arrogant, no one likes bragging. 
24 Remember, you cannot befriend everyone. If someone doesn't like you, leave them, they are not worth your time. 
25 Do not swear. This is NOT grown-up or cool and can get you in trouble. 
26 Have a good sense of humor. Generally, the funnier you are, the cooler you are. Don't turn into a school clown, but if you can make someone laugh, do it. Laughter is contagious and your name will spread like wildfire throughout the school. 
27 Find an attractive guy / girl.
Tips
- Never forget who you are. Coolness is simply a trait of you that is visible to other people, not personal change. Don't change yourself drastically just to be cool. Be true to yourself so people can love you for who you are.
- If you are going to do something that will draw attention to you, step into the position of the viewer, for example: you want to shake out the eraser at the person sitting in front of you just for fun. Would you like to be shaken out of the eraser at this time, and how would you react? Don't embarrass anyone.
- You don't have to be shy. If you want to meet someone, come forward and introduce yourself nicely. At parties or prom, be confident, walk up to the person, be polite and ask what you wanted. You shouldn't be shy, as most people love brave personalities.
- Have fun. If you're considered cool but don't enjoy it for some reason, what's the point?
- Don't change yourself too much! Be true to yourself. Hug your unique personality!
- Self-confidence is a good quality, but if you think too much about what people think of you, then you will never be cool, but only annoying and not funny.
Warnings
- When you get cool, don't leave old friends because they are not as popular as you; real friends are more important than being a cool kid. If you do this, it will mean that you were not a real friend.
- People cannot immediately think that you are cool, even if they notice it, they will not rush to become friends with you.
