Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 2: How to Get His Attention
• Part 2 of 2: How to keep it on the hook
• Warnings

Whether you are tired of chasing your beloved man or you just want to feel the thrill that comes when you change places with your lover, it is absolutely possible to get a man to run after you, and not vice versa.

Steps

Part 1 of 2: How to Get His Attention

1. 1 Catch him watching him look at you and walk away. Of course, you can approach the man who is looking at you and start a conversation. He may enjoy talking to you, and he will fall in love with you even more ... or he may be more and more intrigued by the beautiful woman who passed by, and he may want to know more about her. Let his gaze stop at you and wait for him to come to you. Or, if you know you will see him again, walk up to him next time.
   • Of course, if you really want to go up to him, it might intrigue him and seem like something out of the ordinary. You don't have to be so careful if it's not your style.
2. 2 Live your life. There is nothing sexier for guys than a girl who lives her own life.If your life is meaningful, satisfying, pursuing your career or hobby, and having several hobbies or interests that are important to you, then you will be the one you need to get to know. Whether you want to be a writer or you just really love to draw, you will interest a guy much more if he sees that you are interested in so many things besides himself. If you just watch TV and wait for his call, then he will not be intrigued.
   • Keeping busy with interesting things can help you become a more interesting person to meet.
   • If a guy thinks that your schedule is free because you are not doing anything, then the likelihood that he will run after you will be lower because he will always know where to find you: at home.
3. 3 Surprise him with your self-confidence. Guys may be intimidated by overconfident girls, but they are also highly attracted to them. Show him that you love yourself and what you have to offer the world. Instead of feeling insecure, always complaining, or waiting for confirmation from your boyfriend, know that confirmation comes from within. If you are happy with who you are, the guy will be happier with you because he will know that he can enjoy your company instead of constantly cheering you up.
   • Of course, everyone can work to become more confident. Over time, you can start spending more time on what you love to do, open up your body language and maintain good posture, and forget about the nasty little things you don't like about yourself.
4. 4 Flirt with him. You have to flirt if you want the man to run after you. You have to look him in the eyes, play with his hair, tease him and maybe even blush and act more feminine to get his attention. You can playfully touch his hand, smile at him a little even if he hasn't said anything funny, or just be playful and funny when you're together. Flirting should spark his interest and let him know what it means to date you. Flirting should be light, fun, and exciting.
   • Don't push. Flirt a little and then step back. Make him work on it.
5. 5 Be sexy. Determine what sexuality means to you and go. If that means tidying up your hair and nails, then do it. If that means looking natural and using just a little lip balm and a big smile, then go for it. You can wear sexy clothes or just a figure that makes you feel great. Do what makes you confident and gives the impression that you are looking after your appearance. If you want a man to run after you, then you have to put in a little effort.
   • This does not mean that you should do anything that seems unnatural to you. You want him to run after you, not the version of you who wears two kilos of makeup on his face and walks in uncomfortable stiletto heels.
6. 6 Show him that other men are paying attention to you. Don't talk too much about the time you spend with other guys, or the guy will notice that you are trying too hard to get his attention. Instead, show him that you are talking to other guys and be yourself when you do. Don't laugh too hard, touch him too often, or act like you're trying too hard to make the guy jealous. This should happen on its own. Whether it's a walk with your other crush or just a platonic friend, actively engage in the conversation and be motivated and the guy will be jealous of you.
   • Although it is very silly, it is true that if other guys are interested in you, then you become more desirable. A guy will want you even more if he sees that others want you.
   • Make sure it doesn't go too far, though.If a guy always sees you with other guys, he may think that you enjoy flirting, or that you are not interested in him.

Part 2 of 2: How to keep it on the hook

1. 1 Don't always be there. If you pick up the phone as soon as he rings, or you agree to go on a date with him, even if he calls you for a few hours, then he will begin to think that nothing interesting is happening in your life, except for meetings with him. If you want a guy to run after you, then he must think that there is a lot going on in your life, and that it is difficult to keep up with you. Sure, you don’t want him to think that you’re so busy that you don’t have time for him, or he will get bored, but find a balance between being busy and free time so that you have time to meet and keep him interested.
   • If he calls you, don't pick up the phone right away. It's best to wait a few hours before calling him back.
   • The same applies to messages. If he is texting you, wait a while before answering him, unless it’s urgent.
2. 2 Be a little relaxed. Once you've established a relationship and spent time together a few times, don't be afraid to show him that you're in the mood when you're not together. You need to call him at work and tell him about the things that you would like to do with him. This will make him think of you until he gets to you. Do not overdo it, choose the right moments, and he will be at your little feet.
   • Choose the right time. You don't want to tell him that you are in a playful mood if he goes to an interview or spends the day with his grandmother.
3. 3 Surprise him with your kindness from time to time. Of course, playing hard to get is a lot of fun, but if you overdo it, he will start to think that you impossible touch. You have to give in and give up a little so that he realizes that you care about him. Make him a birthday dinner. Call just to say hello. Buy two tickets to play his favorite team. Do something cute to keep him interested and then move away again. If you cook dinner for him every day, then yes, he will begin to take you for granted.
   • Find a balance between playing hard-to-reach and giving him everything at once. You cannot always behave one way or another.
4. 4 Don't tell him everything right away. If at the very second that he met you, you tell him that you have five sisters, that you dream of becoming an actress, and that you have a difficult relationship with your mother, he will feel that it is not so difficult to get to know you. Instead, make him work hard. Tell him one and unique thing about yourself when you first meet, and then serve those rare details as the most delicious chocolate in your next encounters. Make him work hard to get to know you; if he thinks that you are laying out everything, then he will not try.
   • Men love to feel that more introverted or less open women open up to them. They feel like they've won a prize.
5. 5 Do not seek communication with him as often as he does with you. Let him be the one who calls more often. Let him text you to say hello. Wait for him to suggest going to a party together that you both should attend. While you shouldn't be doing this all the time, you should wait for him to take a lot of initiative, feel busy, or have too many important things to do to worry if he calls you. Sure, you can still keep in touch with him or suggest a great date for the two of you, but make sure he responds in kind.
   • Nobody said that these strategies were invented for the patient. If you are the type of person who goes crazy while waiting for a guy to contact you instead of taking the initiative and directing the relationship as desired, then it will be difficult for you.
6. 6 Have fun with your girlfriends. Don't be one of those girls who stops calling her girlfriends as soon as you get a boyfriend. You should have fun with your girlfriends and enjoy your bachelorette parties, regardless of the status of your relationship. If a guy sees that you enjoy going to dances with your girlfriends, drinking cocktails with them, or just spending time together, he will think it's cool that you don't forget about your friends. He will also be jealous of you even more because he will think about all those guys who might come up to you during these bachelorette parties!
   • The time you spend with your girlfriends will keep you focused and help you not focus on your boyfriend.
7. 7 Be unpredictable. If you want the guy to keep running after you, you need to keep him interested. Suggest a casual weekend trip. Swim in the sea even if the weather is a little cool and windy. Go on a date to the diner. If you always do or say the same thing, then you will get bored with him, and he will stop running after you. But if he doesn't know what to expect, then he will be where you need to be! You don't have to be spontaneous 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, but use the opportunity to surprise him when the moment seems right to you.
   • Resist the urge to plan, plan, plan everything and leave something to chance. Let him take you out of the house without asking him what you will do every second of your date.
8. 8 Remember, the chase never ends. Even if you think a guy is falling in love, you should always keep him on his toes. This does not mean that you should not gradually open up to him and that you should not be yourself, but it does mean that you should be on the alert and never stop there in your relationship. Don't worry about letting go of your defenses, but at the same time keep your relationship fresh and exciting.
   • Keep complimenting him, making him feel special,and make him work on it - in a great relationship, you both must work to retain the necessary amount of love and tenderness!

Warnings

• Caution: he may have already paid attention to you, but you do not notice it!