Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 4: Setting for Success
• Part 2 of 4: How to Show Your Feelings
• Part 3 of 4: What not to do
• Part 4 of 4: Creating Happiness
• Tips
• Warnings
• What do you need

It seems like it should be easy to just say "I like you" ... but in reality it can be one of the scariest things ever! Below you'll find self-confidence boosters as well as ways to make sure everything is going according to plan. You will also find great ideas on what to say to your partner! Just get started with Step 1!

Steps

Part 1 of 4: Setting for Success

1. 1 Give him signs. You should always give your boyfriend the opportunity to figure out that you like him so that he can do something about it if he has such a desire. Flirt a little and make sure you spend time together. Try small touches and other hints. Just don't drag it out!
   • Try biting your lip every time he looks at you or smiles nervously. Look into his eyes and then slowly turn away.
2. 2 Choose the right time. It is important to choose a good time to talk. You don't want him to be distracted, upset by something else, or just busy! This will kill your chances before you can get started. Talk to him about finding the right time to talk, or try to catch him when you know for sure that he will not be busy.
3. 3 Talk to him alone. Talk to him alone. If you admit your sympathy in the presence of other people, then he will feel pressure and embarrassment, and you do not need it! People who feel cornered may refuse to express their true feelings.Instead, pick a moment when he is alone so you both can have a heart-to-heart talk.
4. 4 Be bold. When you confess your feelings, you just have to come forward and say how you feel. Be confident in yourself! Guys will think this is sexy. You also need to be bold because you will need to take the lead in talking about your feelings and whether the two of you might have something.

Part 2 of 4: How to Show Your Feelings

1. 1 Just say it. The most basic way to admit your sympathy is to just walk up and say it. It takes courage, but usually people will appreciate your honesty and be flattered by your courage. This will help you avoid gimmicks and show how much he means to you. Here are some examples of how to say it:
   • "Hi Kolya. I think you deserve to know that I have very strong feelings for you. You shouldn't reciprocate them, but I thought it was right if you knew."
   • "Misha, you are special. You are kind, smart and funny, and I feel much happier next to you. I want us to become more than friends. I hope that you see, like me, that together we can become a great couple. "
2. 2 Use his interests. Use his interests to confess your feelings. You can use this to confess (like rock climbing with him) or you can use this to confess in a unique way (like inviting him over and stopping the movie at a Han Solo / Princess Leia flirting scene).
3. 3 Use a song. You probably don't remember what songbooks are, but using songs to confess your feelings is an option.
   • Find a song that you know he will like. Ask him for a USB stick to transfer the file from your school / work computer to your personal computer. Leave the mp3 songs on the flash drive, naming it so that he understands "MISHA - Katya Wants to Hold Your Hand" or some other hints on the song.
   • Good song variations include "I Want To Hold Your Hand" by the Beatles, Frank Sinatra "Let’s Fall In Love", or Daft Punk’ “Digital Love".
4. 4 Give him a gift. You can give him a gift to confess your feelings. Try to make it suitable for your partner, and if you are already friends, try using it to remind you of the great moments you spent together.
   • Decorate the little wooden box with your initials in the heart, and fill the box with your photos together, movie tickets you watched together, or other reminders of the fun things you did together.
   • Put together a rest kit: two movie tickets, two packs of candy, and a note like, "I know you have had a tough week because of all these exams. I'd love to relax with you. If you're not interested, don't problem! Invite whoever you want ... but I wish I had the opportunity to make you laugh so I could forget about my trigonometry. "
5. 5 Write him a letter. There is nothing more romantic than a good old handwritten letter. Write him a letter telling him how you feel and put it in his locker or (if you know his address) send it to his house. You can also leave it in a place where it will definitely find it.
   • Sprinkle them with your perfume to make this step even more exciting.
6. 6 Make a video. Make a YouTube video confessing to your partner (you probably shouldn't mention his name). Tell him how you feel and why. Then email or send him a QR code with a link to the video. You can also print the code and put it in your locker or glue it inside the textbook.

Part 3 of 4: What not to do

1. 1 Don't put pressure on him. Don't go straight to "I love you" and don't talk about your future together. You should avoid certain conversations about the future because it creates additional pressure and expectations for him ... it is stressful and can scare him away!
   • Instead, say that you want to try it or that you hope it will become something real in the future. "I hope we can try to become more than friends.", Etc.
2. 2 Don't be weird. Don't be weird when you confess your feelings to him.This means not asking, not bargaining, and try not to touch him or disturb his personal space until you know that he shares your feelings. You also shouldn't be around him all the time if he needs time to think about what you said.
3. 3 Don't use social media or your phone. If you can, confess your feelings to him personally. Using social media or posting might seem like a little light or, worse, taken as a joke. This is not where you want to start a relationship with him.
4. 4 Do not hurry. If you don't want to rush to confess and if he shares your feelings, then take your time with a serious relationship. If you want to go through the agony of recognition, you should first make sure you really like him, right? This can be a lengthy process that will continue even after you start dating.
   • Just focus on getting to know him for who he is by spending time together and talking about what matters to you: what you both want in the future, what your principles are, and how you enjoy spending your free time.

Part 4 of 4: Creating Happiness

1. 1 Don't worry that he will refuse you. Don't worry about being rejected. Rejection can be terrible, but after a few years, you probably won't remember it at all. Remember: this is his grief. You still don't want to be with someone who doesn't like you as much as you do. You deserve the best!
2. 2 Ask him out on a date. If he reciprocates your feelings, make sure you ask him out if he doesn't call you! You shouldn't feel bad about admitting your intentions or taking the initiative: sometimes you need to get what you want out of life! Once you've confessed your feelings, the date will simply turn into a date idea and follow up. Just invite!
3. 3 Look for good guys. If you have failed with him, or if he acts like a real jerk by refusing you, you should pay attention to what kind of guys you like. Stop chasing guys who don't respect you and who don't like you the way you are. You can see that your chances will go up if you focus on what's important: the good guys who set their priorities right.

Tips

• Make sure you really like it.
• Find out if he has a page on Facebook or another social network.

Warnings

• Don't tell anyone that you like this person - just friends you trust.
• If he doesn't like you, don't demand a relationship. It will really make him dislike you.
• So he might not like you

What do you need

• Self-confidence
• Friends (whom you trust)