How to turn from a tomboy to a feminine girl

Author: Clyde Lopez
Date Of Creation: 25 June 2021
Update Date: 11 May 2024
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Changing your look and becoming feminine is not as difficult as it seems. You just need to start paying more attention to your appearance and behavior, as well as hygiene, in order to look and behave like a girl. Of course, any changes take time, but you can start changing right now!

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Refresh your wardrobe

  1. 1 Buy dresses and skirts instead of T-shirts. The easiest way to become more feminine is to start wearing dresses and skirts. A neat delicate silhouette will give you freshness, you will feel stylish and comfortable. Nowadays there is a whole variety of skirts and dresses in any length and shape, so you can choose the style that suits you best.
    • You don't need to wear skirts and dresses every day, but if you wear them at least a couple of times a week, you yourself will feel that you look more feminine.
    • Wear leggings or short shorts if you're worried about your skirt or dress pulling up.
    • Top with a cardigan or lightweight jumper if it's cold outside.
    • Sitting down somewhere, bring your knees together, you can just put your legs next to each other, or you can cross. This position looks feminine and speaks of your modesty.
  2. 2 Add variety to your wardrobe color scheme. Start wearing things in pastel or bright colors (yellow, pink, blue, red, purple). Military colors, brown, gray, and other neutral colors lend more masculinity to clothing than femininity. Black can create an accent on something, but it is best paired with pink or other vibrant color.
    • Don't overdo it: Don't throw away all your clothes and completely renew your wardrobe.
    • Go through the items in your wardrobe and think about what basic items you already have, you could pair them with more feminine clothes.
    • In fall and winter, opt for dark and soothing colors, while in spring and summer wear bright cotton clothing.
    • Try to incorporate pink into your style. This color is considered a traditional feminine color and gives you tenderness. You can choose a pink sweater, pink heels to include a pink element of clothing in your image.
    • Remember that you don't need to change all your clothes and buy exclusively pink things. To get started, just add some details: pink lipstick or pink belt.
    • You can choose from many shades of pink. For example, buy some raspberry-colored accessories or a lilac phone case.
  3. 3 Don't neglect your makeup. Start simple: apply a base, some blush, mascara and lipstick or lip gloss. All this will make the face a little brighter and give you expressiveness. Applying eyeliner and lip liner is a little more difficult, but the effect will be stronger.
    • If you are afraid of a drastic makeup change, apply your makeup gradually.
    • Don't overdo it with makeup! Too bright eyeshadow and lip gloss will make you not a feminine girl, but a clown.
    • If you have a very busy social life and are into sports, try waterproof mascara and eyeliner.
    • Choose a foundation that matches your skin tone. Find a few matching colors in the store and check the shade match by applying a little cream to the back of the brush.
    • Try different shades for the eyes and lips. Sometimes you will find it more comfortable to tint your eyes with more neutral pastel tones that make them a little more expressive, but at some big events you will probably want to tint your eyes brighter.
  4. 4 Start by wearing tight pants or leggings. Try not to wear sportswear and sweatpants unless you want to wear skirts and dresses.You can opt for skinny or slightly flared jeans that will look great on many body types. Leggings can be worn under short dresses, skirts and tunics. Alternatively, you can wear leggings as pants if you like tight pants.
  5. 5 Set your sneakers aside. You only need sneakers for sports! You need shoes with a small heel, these shoes will slightly raise the leg and transfer the load to the calves. In addition, it will improve your posture and make you look a little higher. Feel free to experiment, try on sandals, boots and other shoes with a small heel.
    • Start with low-heeled shoes to gradually get used to more feminine shoes.
    • It takes a while to get used to high heels and stiletto heels. So practice at home first if you find it uncomfortable to walk in them all day.
    • If you prefer flat shoes, you can buy trendy boots or flats for a casual look.
  6. 6 Wear more jewelry and jewelry, even with your everyday clothes. They say that diamonds are a girl's best friend. The same applies to silver, gold and anything that glitters. Choose earrings you can wear every day, find a neat bracelet to accentuate your purse, buy a new watch with a light leather or metal strap to add a little detail to your look.
    • Don't overdo it with jewelry if you want to be more feminine. Sometimes simplicity is the best solution.
    • If your ears are not pierced, you can wear other accessories such as pendants and bracelets.
  7. 7 Wear your hair down. Of course, the tail is good, but not always. Take the time to tidy up your hair, you can even curl or style it before going out. Experiment by pulling your bangs back, letting your hair down, making a braid or a low ponytail to keep the hair from falling on your face but still look feminine.
    • Short hair can be removed with a cute headband or headband.
    • Check with your hairdresser or stylist to find out which haircut will suit your face if you really want a new look.
  8. 8 Find the right bra. Stop by a good lingerie store like Victoria's Secret to find out what size bra is right for you. Then find some models in that size and try them on. A good bra will not only make you look graceful and feminine, but it will also improve your posture. Sports bras are comfortable, but not the best for a casual look.

Part 2 of 3: Behave Feminine

  1. 1 Allow yourself to be a little more emotional. Feminine girls openly show their emotions. Be sincere when you feel happy, when you are surprised, when you feel something. Don't be afraid to show people your tears, but be sure to blot your face so that your makeup doesn't drip. It will take you a while to get used to the fact that other people see your emotions. This change will not come overnight.
    • Don't let your emotions get the best of you. Learn to control yourself so as not to offend someone in a fit of anger and not make people feel hysterical about yourself.
  2. 2 Carry a purse or cosmetic bag with all the necessary tools and things. A purse and purse is not only a cute accessory, it is also a functional item. Be sure to wear at least some of your makeup "just in case", deodorant, perfume, pen and notebook, hairbrush, wallet and keys.
    • If you like, in some cases you can bring along a needle and thread, emergency pins, sunglasses, textbooks, whatever you might need during the day.
    • If you need to carry a backpack with you because of the many textbooks and notebooks, you can buy a large bag with a fun color or pattern to update your look.
    • Start with a bag that fits most of your outfit, and then gradually get new accessories for events, school, and travel.
  3. 3 Try to restrain belching in public, not letting out gas, and also not preening. A girl is not supposed to show various indecent reactions of her body in the presence of other people. Therefore, try to be patient and retire in the bathroom or toilet. Always cover your mouth with a tissue when you need to blow your nose, cough, or sneeze.
  4. 4 Become more orderly and organized in all areas of your life. Even if organization is not your strong point, try to keep your workplace and bag in order so you don't lose or forget anything. Be punctual is a good quality that is very useful in life.
    • In order not to forget about your business and organize your day correctly by building a schedule, buy cute markers, pens and stickers.
    • Your handwriting must be neat and legible so that not only yourself but others can read it as well.
    • Of course, no one asks you to draw little hearts over the letter "e", although, of course, such a detail seems very cute and feminine.
  5. 5 Don't get carried away with anything aggressive or unfeminine. Various dubious activities in dilapidated apartments do not correspond to the status of a lady. You don't want to stain your clothes and ruin your feminine look. Do not get carried away with activities that are not inherent in girls. For example, a hobby like wrestling or working with electric tools is not very suitable for a girl.
    • You can be athletic and feminine at the same time. It is very important to exercise and go to the gym to keep your body in shape and stay healthy.
    • Just keep in mind that dirt and sweat are provided in special places like the gym. So after a workout or sporting event, tidy yourself up and then go out in public.
  6. 6 Try not to be rude or swear words in your speech. Be polite and watch your language. You should not insert various dirty words and swear words into every sentence, because such behavior will create a bad impression of you.
    • Try not to gossip about other people. Sometimes it is difficult to keep from talking and discussing other people, especially behind their backs, but do your best.
    • Gossip makes you look bad and worsens the attitude towards you and not towards the people you are talking about.
  7. 7 Try to communicate more with girls than with guys. Start spending more time in the company of girls, pay attention to their behavior to become more feminine yourself. Go shopping together, get your nails done and just meet and spend time together chatting about life. Spending time in a female company will make you a real girl, not a guy in a skirt.
    • Try to be calm around guys. When you start to have more than just friendly feelings for a young man and see him as your boyfriend, don't get nervous. Remember that he is the same person as you, do not get lost and do not get nervous just because you started to look at him differently.
    • Don't show your bad habits in the company of guys. You can do this with your friends in their company, but be careful with the guys so as not to become a kid again.
  8. 8 Try to find out what it is like to be feminine. Watch for changes in your behavior and yourself in general. Of course, you cannot be feminine always and with everyone, and this is quite normal. Experiment and enjoy, don't be discouraged if you don't feel truly feminine after some changes.

Part 3 of 3: Maintain Your Personal Hygiene

  1. 1 Take some time in the morning to clean up and dress up. You need a lot of time to style your hair, do your makeup, put on accessories before going out.Think about how much time you need to get ready in the morning. You may need to get up a little earlier than usual.
    • Organize the amount of time you spend shaving, nail grooming, and other hygiene procedures that take extra time during the week.
    • Before leaving the house, look in the mirror. Never leave home unattended or poorly dressed.
    • You will start packing faster in the morning, as soon as you get used to it a little. So do not be discouraged if it seems to you that it takes too long to get ready.
    • Try to strike a balance between sleep and morning preparation. You need to get enough sleep so that you don't have dark circles and bags under your eyes that you have to cover up with makeup. If this happens, start going to bed early or cut back on your morning preparations.
  2. 2 Remove body hair. Once you start wearing feminine clothing like skirts or tops, start shaving or waxing regularly. Body hair does not adorn a woman. Therefore, shave every day while showering or every few days (depending on how quickly your hair grows).
    • Buy a good razor or a few disposable razors, and some shaving gel or foam to avoid injuring your skin.
    • Be sure to shave off your underarms and leg hair, especially on the part of your legs that is visible every day. In the summer, when you are wearing a swimsuit, do not forget about the bikini area.
    • Facial hair also needs to be tidied up. Pluck or tweak your eyebrows to shape them and remove hair above the upper lip.
    • If you cannot pluck your eyebrows yourself, entrust it to a specialist and sign up for an eyebrow shaping service. Waxing may cost you more, but the effect will be longer.
  3. 3 Choose a scent that will be associated with you. First, always use deodorant to avoid scaring off any unpleasant smell of sweat. Second, go to the store and choose a perfume or body lotion that will give you a delicate, light scent. It can be vanilla, fruity, lavender and other pleasant scent.
    • You can choose an antiperspirant deodorant to control sweating.
    • Don't overdo it with perfume.
    • One way to apply perfume is to spray a little on the wrists and neck.
    • Or try spraying a little perfume in the air right in front of you and taking a step forward to distribute the fragrance evenly to you.
  4. 4 Clean and monitor your nails. It may seem that this is a minor detail, but in fact, it is worth paying attention to such small things, because they help to maintain a feminine image. Remove dirt from under your nails, wash them with soap and water. Use a nail file regularly to maintain the shape and length of your nails.
    • Remove cuticles to make your nails look tidier and longer.
    • Even if you don't like brightly colored nail polish, you can also coat your nails with clear or light polish to make your hands look more well-groomed.
    • Try to do professional manicure and pedicure at least from time to time.
    • Don't forget your legs! When you wear sandals or open-toed shoes, be sure to get a pedicure.

Tips

  • When you decide to turn from a tomboy to a feminine girl, don't think about what people will say. They may ask why you changed your image, but don't let them upset and annoy you.
  • Change a little, you cannot turn into a feminine girl in just one night.
  • Try to be yourself and listen to what your heart tells you (regardless of the opinions of others).

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