Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 1: Scenarios
• Tips
• Warnings

One of the hardest things that can happen in high school is taking the insult correctly and responding smartly to it. What words to choose, what to do? But before you start denying it, think about whether you will seem smarter than the person who offended you?

Steps

1. 1 Get all the questions out of your head.
2. 2 Prepare yourself.
3. 3 Consider whether you have the right to insult this person in return. If this is the person you yourself bullied, then just apologize to him and leave him alone.
4. 4 Do not try to be friends with a person if he does not respect you or insults you quite harshly.
5. 5 Try to appear smarter with your more expanded vocabulary.
6. 6 Do not use childish insults like “you’re like that” or “have you looked in the mirror?»
7. 7 You need to be able to stop. Try to finish everything as quickly as possible, but at the same time, do so that this person no longer pokes at you.
8. 8 Look at your opponent. Use all his flaws against him.
9. 9 Try to ignore him! Observe, if the person does not leave you alone, use all your tricks against him.
10. 10 Hear everything he says! This is important because sometimes you can prove him wrong or use his words against him.

Method 1 of 1: Scenarios

Here are examples of good responses to insults: If he ...

• Says behind your back: "If you have something to say, say it to my face, not behind my back." (If they say: “I have nothing to say” ...) “Wow, you can't do it yourself! Why are they afraid of me? " Or / and “You know, I don’t care what you think and say about me, but I don’t like the fact that others might think bad of me because of you. I am tired of all this, specifically tired of it, and I will not leave it like that ”. (You can end the dispute at this point.)
• Calls you: "Give me at least one reason why you say that?" (Ask only when he calls you unreasonably, and if he cannot answer, laugh and ...) what, you are not even able to give a reason for this? Perhaps, before calling names, it is worth thinking a hundred times? "

Smart responses to insults: if someone says that ...

• You are a loser: “Even if I am a loser, you have no right to judge me! And why are you leaving everything and watching me? Nothing else to do? Oh, this only proves once again that I am much better than you! " Or "Oh well, at least I don't have to put on makeup in buckets to look good."
• You (offensive word): “You know what, I don't go up to people and don't name them (offensive word), because it's just beneath my dignity. Therefore, the fact that you allow yourself to call me that tells me that you are the most ignorant, tactless and illiterate person I have ever seen. "
• You are a waste of time: (sometimes catch an important quote / word from what he says and use it against him, it will make him look stupid) “If I'm such a waste of your time, so why are you wasting it on me now? You seem to spend more time discussing my personal life behind my back than your own. So I think now is the time to get out of my life and do yours. " (This can be done.)
• He's better than you: “Are you better than me? Why are you putting so much effort into humiliating me then, if I'm worse anyway? You have a terrible character, you need to change it, and immediately. Otherwise, you will never have friends. "
• How to end a fight:
  • “I have more important things to do than think about what you are saying about me. What you do and say in relation to other people does not fit into any framework. You are self-confident and don't care about anyone but yourself. You are not a person, you are a black hole that sucks life out of people, you are sick of me. I don't want to waste a second of my time on you. I do not treat people the way you do, because I know that by offending people, you show that you are such an insignificant person. "
  • This will help show the person that you are much smarter than him.

Tips

• To defend your point of view, speak in a calm voice, directly to your face, with full eye contact.

Warnings

• Don't repeat sentences over and over again!
• Do not raise your voice, try to look as calm as possible.