Content

• Steps
• Part 1 of 3: How to keep yourself occupied
• Part 2 of 3: Have positive emotions
• Part 3 of 3: How to Avoid Conflict
• Tips
• Warnings
• Additional articles

Do you always get in trouble? Are new problems popping up out of nowhere? Do you often quarrel with your peers? If this is about you, then it's time to learn not to exacerbate relationships with others. Don't worry, no matter what situation you find yourself in, there is always a way out. If you decide to improve your life and no longer get stuck in history, then read this article to the end.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: How to keep yourself occupied

1. 1 Go in for sports. This is also one of the most effective methods to avoid unpleasant stories. Whether you play soccer, basketball, or baseball, playing in a group can help you meet many new, good people. If you take your free time with sports, then you will not have time for all sorts of nonsense. Hence, there will be fewer problems.
   • Try to become the team captain - this will give you a chance to throw out all the accumulated energy into the game.
   • Exercising will also help you channel all negative energy back on track.
2. 2 Join the club. If sports are not your strong point, you can always join a cooking club, art school, or take a French course.The main thing is to have something to do in your free time and you like it.
   • You can join several clubs at once and then choose the most interesting and suitable one for you.
3. 3 Volunteer. You will no longer want to make small scandals if you see people who really need help. If you cannot volunteer on your own, go with your parents. It doesn't matter if you're teaching, cleaning a park, or helping out in the kitchen. Find what works for you and devote at least one day a week to this activity.
   • Now your schedule is much tighter. But don't forget to leave some time for yourself as well. Do your favorite thing.
4. 4 Strive for knowledge. If you become a good student, then you will not have problems with parents and teachers. To do this, you need not so much: attend lectures, be on time and do your homework on time.
   • Try doing a little research on a topic that interests you. This will help you distract yourself and learn a lot of new and useful things for yourself.
   • Make it one of your goals to improve your grades in some subjects. Of course, we do not advise you to spend all your energy on getting the maximum scores on all tests. But you may well get 4+ instead of 4 in math.
5. 5 Try to read more. Reading will help improve your vocabulary and make you an intelligent and erudite person. Plus, you'll start looking at things in a completely different way. Exciting stories will take you to a new unknown world and open up new horizons. To begin with, read 20 minutes before bed, we assure you that this will become a habit for the rest of your life.
   • Read books ranging from science journals to science fiction to find out which genre you like.
6. 6 Create. Try to come up with a play and put it on with your friends. You can also paint, pottery, decorate your room in a wilderness style, and come up with many more activities. Direct your energy in the right direction - to create, not destroy.
   • You can also enroll in an art school or ask the teacher for additional assignments.

Part 2 of 3: Have positive emotions

1. 1 Follow your instincts. You may have been in trouble before because you didn't listen to your inner voice. If you feel that doing something is a bad idea or you shouldn't communicate with certain people, it is better to listen to the call of the soul. Feeling that "the case smells like kerosene", it is better to run as fast as possible, not worth the risk.
   • If a friend suggests you something suspicious, do not rush to subscribe to it.
2. 2 Spend time with your family. Communication with loved ones will give you a good mood and charge you with positive emotions. Of course, you don't always want to watch old movies with your parents or help your little sister with her homework, but your family will always be a reliable support for you. Close ties with loved ones are very important.
   • As long as you spend time with your family, you will be insured against new problems. The more time you spend with your loved ones, the less likely you are to get into an unpleasant story.
   • Create a weekly routine for yourself. Spend evenings on weekends at family dinner, help out the household chores during the week, and attend to your siblings at least a couple of times a week.
3. 3 Avoid bad people. Even your best friends can set you up. If there is such a possibility, look for a new company. Try to reduce communication with those who could jeopardize your reputation.
   • You might think you’ll be safe if they make history. Do not delude yourself, you too can be involved in this, although you did not do anything illegal. This happens very often.
4. 4 Find good company for yourself. If your friends are excellent students, motivated and positive people, then you too will strive to become such. And if you are surrounded by hooligans and brawlers - do not expect anything good.Of course, it will be difficult to immediately find someone with positive qualities. But do not give up, look around: perhaps there are such people very close, but you just did not want to notice them. After communicating with friendly people, you will also get a lot of positive emotions.
   • You can find friends in clubs or sports clubs (more on this later) or in various courses.
5. 5 Make friends with teachers. This is also one way to avoid problems. This does not mean that you need to impose, just try to always be attentive, come to class on time and ask what you did not understand. If you already have one of them in a bad way, show that you can you fix everything - try to catch up on this subject.
   • A good relationship with the teacher will help you avoid problems. If you are guilty, but in good standing, they will not be strict with you.
6. 6 Find the ideal you will strive for. This will help you become better and more successful. Your idol can be mom, dad or brother, school teacher or family friend, grandfather or football club captain, it doesn't matter. The main thing is that he inspires you to new achievements. You can turn to him for experience and valuable advice.
   • This person can greatly influence your decisions and life in general. Finding the right subject to follow is very important. This does not mean that he should be perfect in everything, if he was wrong and learned from his mistakes - even better.

Part 3 of 3: How to Avoid Conflict

1. 1 Don't gossip. This is one way to avoid conflict, whether it is about your teachers, friends, or family. Gossip tends to spread bad vibes and will inevitably lead to problems. Try to be always positive and then everything will be fine.
   • If you have already managed to say a lot of nasty things behind someone's back, then beware. If this is revealed, you could be in big trouble.
2. 2 You should not always try to prove something to someone. Why convince someone of something who doesn't even want to listen to you? If your opinion differs from the opinion of the guy from the next yard, what do you care? You shouldn't look for problems from scratch. Try to keep a respectful distance from it all.
   • Don't start arguing where you can avoid it. This is just a waste of your time and energy.
3. 3 Don't fight. Of course, if you are already accustomed to doing this, it will be difficult to get rid of such a habit. Try not to solve all problems with your fists. Remember that hitting the offender is more expensive for yourself. It is unlikely that you will be pleased with the consequences of such a fight. Just take a deep breath and try to calm down.
   • In such cases, just grab your hands and feet and walk away. This is won't do you are a coward, but will show you an intelligent person.
4. 4 Do not be insolent to teachers. It is impossible to always please everyone, of course, with someone you can simply not get along. Even if you are sure that the teacher is wrong, do not shout about it, be polite (oops). Try to compromise (if possible). In such situations, you must always keep yourself in hand.
   • While you are in school, do whatever is asked of you. When you become an adult, you will be able to set the conditions of the game yourself, but for now you will have to play by their rules.
5. 5 Be polite to everyone. Just say hello and please to everyone, from the neighbors to the service staff. If you are unfriendly and rude, then in the event of a conflict, no one will be on your side.
   • Remember to have good manners at home. You should not be polite just for show, you should not be familiar with your family.
6. 6 Watch yourself. You may think that healthy sleep and three meals a day have nothing to do with your desire to avoid problems, but you are wrong. Remember that a healthy mind is in a healthy body. If you have not slept or eaten all night playing computer games, then the likelihood of your aggressive behavior is high.
   • And also, if you focus on yourself, then you just physically do not have enough time for all sorts of nonsense!

Tips

• Be positive.
• Don't make scandals at school. Teachers cannot always protect you.
• If your friend has been attacked and threatened, do not try to solve the problem yourself. If things get serious, tell the teacher about it.

Warnings

• Do not get yourself into trouble. It could end badly.
• Try to avoid conflicts.

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