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• Steps
• Advice
• Warning

Sometimes finding the perfect match is all based on chance. However, you can find a partner by changing your attitudes toward yourself, in love, dating and relationships. Decline the temptation to find a good friend by letting fate decide: changing yourself and your dating strategy to increase your chances of finding someone you love.

Steps

Part 1 of 2: Finding Potential Audiences

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   Enjoy being single. It may sound out of the ordinary, but it's important to be happy and confident as a single person before you're ready to find your partner. Relationships can last longer if both are healthy, stable, and confident in themselves. If you want to find a partner and if you want your ideal partner to be completely attracted to you, you must know who you are, what you want and love yourself. Some ways to help you enjoy your time for yourself include:
   • Find hobbies you want to pursue
   • Appreciate your relationships and family
   • Pursue a stable career that I love
   • Practice being confident and strong
   • Keep a journal to stay focused and remind yourself of how far you have come

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   Cultivate desirable qualities of yourself. Make a list of the traits you desire in your partner. You may be attracted to someone with a funny meek or a sweet smile. Maybe you like people who are athletic and enjoy playing sports, or you are fascinated by people who love reading novels. Whatever quality it is, consider whether you can present it yourself. If you do it this way, you will find that you can meet people with similar interests and wants as you. Furthermore, if you can meet your soulmate in this way, you can still improve yourself and learn new skills.

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   Keep open mind. Studies have shown that people can't always predict which qualities they are most attracted to. So if you make a list of the qualities you desire, you can still easily be attracted to someone in real life with completely different qualities. Having a few bad luck relationships while you're trying to find the ideal partner is no big deal. But let your intuition guide you, not the positive and negative points. You might be surprised by a great person you have met.
   • You need to especially avoid certain prejudices and biases. Do not judge a person based on skin color, religion, ethnicity or age. Take time to get to know the person before deciding if the relationship is worth pursuing.

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   Clearly identify who you are attracted to. If you meet someone who already has someone else, don't insist on having something for them. Most relationships that begin with infidelity will not last. That is the root of the scarcity and longing that you would not have had if your relationship did not begin with true love. Wait until your ideal partner has been single for a while before pursuing them to ensure your relationship has a chance to compete.

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   Develop your own social relationships. The more interesting friends you have, the more interesting strangers you will meet through them. Extend your social connections to expand your dating opportunities. Pursue friendships and close relationships if you want to meet new and promising people that you can date. Some ways to help you meet compatible people:
   • Join a meet-up group
   • Join an interest group
   • Participate in volunteer activities that interest you
   • Join the student council
   • Cultivate the friendships and relationships you already have: invite friends out for dinner, host a couple of parties or plan a relaxing hour

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   Always be friendly. Smiling and smiling will help you get to know new people, making people feel more comfortable when they're with you. If you want to encourage people to open up, always show relaxed body language and act in a friendly manner. A few glimpses of contact with someone you have a crush on are also an effective way to determine if they are attracted to you.

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   Agree to an anonymous appointment. Your friends already know who you are and what you like. Let their hunch guide you if they think you might be a match for someone they know. Not all anonymous dates are successful, but some can still be successful. Don't close yourself off to opportunities to meet new and interesting people.

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   Know how to be interested in others. There are many ways to get interested in others. In general, however, the most successful ways to always demonstrate respect, praise, express and use friendly body language. People who don't use body language, are humorous, or don't want to be interested in others are unlikely to succeed. Pay attention to the following qualities if you want to be attractive or be able to recognize attraction from others:
   • Smile and smile brightly
   • Confirm by nod or confirm verbally
   • Continue to chat
   • Use comfortable body language (arms, legs, hands freely)
   • Share personal information
   • Eye contact
   • Make a question

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   Provide in your online profile some honest information, but also keep it mysterious. Lots of people find soulmates through online dating. However, it's a hard world to navigate. Users will be more successful if they provide their personal dating profile that is honest but short. Let your resume readers feel a little bit of a mystery and don't make all the information too obvious. Get to know each other better: don't let your profile do your job.

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    Meet that person in a romantic place. More people will be attracted to the other person when they are in an attractive location. Rapid heartbeat, sweating, and uplifting emotions can make it easier for some people to develop feelings of attraction and affection. Some great physical activity places to find your soulmate include:
    • Gym
    • High places
    • Watch horror movie

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    It is important to tell yourself that no one is created exclusively for each other. Is it just one person born to love the other, and only 1 in 10,000 people can find true love in a lifetime. We all know that there is no known truth: people love each other and have beautiful relationships all the time. Never be obsessed with the idea of ​​finding the only one right for you. Instead, make it a goal, you must develop close, healthy, lasting relationships. Observe whether your soul mate appears right in front of you instead of just relying on the chance of bringing you the perfect person. Many types of full love only come about after a long time, so it can be seen that one can become your soul mate over a long period of acquaintance. advertisement

Part 2 of 2: Turn a Potential Object into a Soulmate

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   Always be alert with the phrase "soulmate". Soulmate often refers to two people who were born for each other and can have a perfect harmonious relationship. However, all long-term, close and strong relationships also arise from conflicts and disagreements. Studies have shown that couples tend to be more satisfied with their partner when they see their relationship as a journey or a journey. Try to shape your search for a soulmate in the following terms: you are not looking for the perfect person, fully in tune with yourself. Instead, you're looking for someone who can accompany you for a lifetime, with both strengths and weaknesses. Another wording is that you should be looking for someone to grow with, not someone who was born to meet you.
   • Shaping your love as a destiny instead of a path won't do you any good, especially when conflicts or disagreements arise. When two people are happy, of course the two concepts are no different.

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   Listen to your intuition. Studies have shown that intuitive reactions to others are an important indicator of whether a relationship is working. Don't try to convince yourself to oppose your own intuition about the person. If you have a good feeling about them, pursue the relationship. If you feel uncomfortable or anxious about your relationship, even though it looks good on the outside, you will need to consider finding someone else.

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   Don't let perfection overwhelm the positives. Perfection in a lover cannot be instantaneous: it takes time. If someone is right for you but they still have a few small imperfections, try to look at the big picture. A perfect love can exist between two imperfect people.
   • This advice does not refer to "imperfections" in case you are abused or controlled.If your partner tries to hurt, insult, or separate you from others, it's a bad relationship.

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   Build a strong bond of friendship. Once you've found a potential person, focus on building strong friendships with the other person. Join in fun activities together, talk about life goals, learn about each other's interests, and support each other. Couples who cherish each other's friendship will often have a close, romantic long-term relationship. People who can build friendship bonds will find themselves more attached to each other (even better sex!).

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   Put effort into that relationship. Even when you've met someone who seems to be your ideal, both of you still need to put effort into that relationship to nurture, bond more relationships so that it can last. That means you may have to resolve conflicts, get used to the other's annoying habits, and forgive each other. Some important steps to take to maintain a relationship with your partner are:
   • Listen to your partner actively
   • Forgive the other person's mistakes
   • Support the other's interests
   • Have no relationship with another person (if you choose to be a faithful person in this relationship)
   • Show gratitude to the other party

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   Dating with another couple. Going on a date with another couple will make your relationship more attractive and intimate. When you and your partner talk about intimate topics with another couple, it's a powerful catalyst. Invite two close friends out to dinner or attend a group meeting for couples to get to know each other. Let your social relationships help you and your partner become a true soulmate.

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   Kiss your partner after you have sex. Your relationship will be happier and fuller if you spend time cuddling each other after having sex. If you think you've found a partner, make sure you take time to talk about each other after sex. Doing so creates a positive feedback loop that will help your relationship grow.

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   Always have a clear set of your life goals. Of course two people can help shape each other's lives and goals. However, you also have to be yourself in both life and love. Consider what makes you most passionate about life and whether the other person can help you achieve those goals. There are many cases when feelings aren't big enough to sustain a relationship or a lifetime: you have to cherish and share your partner's dreams. Some questions to keep in mind:
   • How important is my job, can someone else help me improve my work?
   • Do I want to have children? Does the other party want it?
   • What will I be like in five years, ten years, twenty years? Can I see the other party still by my side?
   • Are my partner and I living happily in the same city / town / region? If the enemy doesn't like living in the city but you only live in bustling cities, you will have to reconsider everything.

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   Avoid vague relationships. Ambiguous relationships are relationships that are in a breakup / resumption circle. These types of relationships can be quite interesting because they are made of familiarity and excitement. However, this excitement - while quite thrilling - is often quite negative. Studies have shown that many couples who get caught up in a breakup / reconnection cycle often don't have good results in the long run. Remember that vague relationships only waste valuable time and love, and also make it harder for you to meet someone who is right for you.

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    Pay attention to feelings of peace and comfort. If you have found your soulmate, you will feel peaceful and happy and believe that your relationship is strong and pure. Your partner should support you, and you should support them as well. If you are feeling anxious, stressed, or uncomfortable about your relationship, it may not be the right relationship for you. Remember that the peace, comfort, and clarity of a relationship are much more important than drama, stress, or emotion. advertisement

Advice

• Be yourself. If you try to pretend to be someone else, you can disappoint yourself and the other person. Be who you want to be, prioritize your life goals. After all, you will soon suddenly meet someone who loves you because you are yourself.
• While you are waiting for your soul mate, people may question why you are still single. They even imply that you "have a problem" if you are "still" single. Have the courage to ignore those words. Remember that you don't have to fight to be single. Focus on enjoying and improving yourself until you meet a potential person.
• Don't be too picky. If you insist on finding the perfect person, you will definitely miss out. If you are in a room with a lot of people with similar interests, you should choose one or two people you want to get to know them better. You may surprise yourself when you can find the perfect match.

Warning

• Don't confuse catalysis with fate. When you meet someone who is extremely attractive to you, all your senses can tell you that it is your soulmate, but it could also be just because of hormones and subtle hints. Remember that your soulmate may be someone you already know, but you never considered it a romantic relationship. Be patient and take time before deciding whether someone has the potential to be the "person" or not.
• Don't be obsessed with finding a soulmate. Too long to find love will not attract the other person, it also makes you choose the wrong person.
• Over-idealizing is also quite dangerous if you ignore the basic precaution and warning signs. Remember that there are many suffering people out there who are willing to take advantage of your trust and use it against you. For example, if all of your friends and family think someone is not for you, don't ignore those warnings. They may already know something.