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• Steps
• Advice
• Warning
• What you need

Having sex on a red light day can be a pleasant experience (even better when having sex on a normal day).When overcoming cultural prejudices, the day of the red light will no longer be painful and tiring. If you and your partner are not as upset by the "disgusting" feeling as everyone else does, follow these steps to enjoy the feeling of greatness and minimize distractions as much as possible.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Keep bedding clean

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   Use a towel. You won't want your period to stick to your mattress and bed sheet, so during sex lay a towel on top and keep an extra tissue with you. You should use a towel to dry continuously, while paper towels will be used to wipe clean before the end of love.
   • Don't let the bad smell annoy you and your partner. Use a blanket to cover the abdomen and genital area to reduce the odor.

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   Adopt a traditional pose. Lie on your back to reduce blood flow during sex.
   • Also, be careful during sex as the cervix may swell and become more sensitive during menstruation. If it does start to hurt, let him know and continue the love affair more cautiously.

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   Sex under the shower. This makes falling in love easier because while immersed in water, you will pay less attention to your period.

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   Do not use your hands too much. Do not touch your genitals to keep them clean. However, if you are the type of person who needs a lot of stimulation, you are in luck. You already have natural lubricant so your partner's finger won't have to work too much.
   • That doesn't mean you should skip foreplay. That is not good at all. Think of this as an excuse for you to experiment with new tricks.

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   Choose days with low menstruation. Usually the first days are the days when menstruation is the most, so choose the days after your period has decreased to avoid doing too much washing.
   • If your partner is not afraid of menstrual issues and requires daily sex, you should consider it carefully. Should know refusing to have sex in the first few days to preserve hygiene as well as health.

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   Take a shower after the love ends. This will help you maintain better hygiene and remove body impurities.
   • If you use sex toys, wash them off right after the sex is over instead of discarding them.

Method 2 of 3: Keeping love in love

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   Use contraception. During your period, you are at a higher risk of getting sexually transmitted diseases and pelvic infections. Moreover, you can still get pregnant during the red light. Here are some effective preventive measures:
   • Diaphragm of the vagina Do two jobs to prevent pregnancy and inhibit menstruation. This type of membrane can sometimes be felt during sex, and its disassembly is tricky. However, this diaphragm is still easy to use as the gynecologist will provide a diaphragm that matches exact measurements of your cervical membrane.
   • Contraceptive sponge It is a sponge soaked in spermicide that is inserted into the vagina during sex. This device can well prevent pregnancy and absorb menstruation.
   • Male condom will help prevent pregnancy, prevent infection, and keep the penis from menstrual.
   • Condom for womanThis, along with the function of keeping the penis from blood stains, is also a good form of contraception, although the protective function is not as effective as the male condom. You can improve the effectiveness of a female condom by applying spermicide on the closed end before inserting it into the vagina.

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   Wear soft cups to help prevent menstrual bleeding. Use a menstrual cup if you don't have sex. And bring a soft cup if you have sex.
   • Avoid wearing regular menstrual cups during intercourse. They are not designed for that function and will cause menstrual bleeding. However, if you just want to have sex outside, the menstrual cup will prevent your period from flowing out. Do not use a rubber cup as the rubber scent in the vaginal discharge can be unpleasant for him. Use a cup made of silicon.
   • The soft cup is specially designed to be used during intercourse. They are shaped like a diaphragm, very flexible, and are sold in pharmacies. Remember that this cup has no contraceptive function.

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   Sperm can survive for 72 hours. It took the elves three days to swim inside and do their job. So if you don't use protection, you run the risk of an unwanted pregnancy.

Method 3 of 3: Persuade your partner

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   Talk to each other in advance. Not everyone likes to have sex during menstruation, so it's best not to surprise your partner and cause discomfort. Instead, talk to him first and find out what he thinks.
   • Some religions and cultures believe that it is inappropriate to have sex during menstruation. Whereas science does not provide concrete evidence, so you will have to respect your partner's feelings about it.

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   Enjoy the benefits. Actually, having sex during menstruation is not a bad thing if you look at it from the right angle. A lot of women are in high demand during this time, so having sex will bring more pleasure. And this also helps your cycle.
   • Having sex helps to shorten the menstrual cycle. The orgasmic contractions will dissolve any pain.
   • The pain will ease. Peaking acts as a natural pain reliever.

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   Be confident. Your period and vagina are not dirty. Doing sex during menstruation is not unusual, rare, unsanitary, or unsafe.
   • If you both like this then why not give it a try. It can be a little weird in the beginning, but you will get used to it.

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   Be creative. Having sex is often associated with the act of intercourse, but there are many other forms that can be fun for you both, even if you or your partner doesn't want to have vaginal intercourse during your period. Take this opportunity to talk to each other and think about new ideas.

Advice

• Make sure you trust your partner. Because red light daytime sex can only be done with someone you love or feel comfortable with.
• Consult your doctor about birth control pills. Some brands of birth control pills for women will have the side effect of delaying menstruation. Don't stop taking the pill (you'll also need to use another form of birth control, like a condom, as a precaution). However, these drugs also make it harder for you to get pregnant.
• Always be safe! During your period, your cervix expands, making you more susceptible to sexually transmitted diseases, infections and unwanted pregnancy. Menstrual blood also contains bacteria that can harm your partner.
• Men should also be clean! Having sex during a red light day can also increase your risk of infection.

Warning

• If you feel a sharp pain in your abdomen, it could be a sign that your partner is pushing the penis too deeply and pressing down on the swollen cervix during menstruation. Then the two of you should change positions to avoid causing pain and ask him to be more careful.

What you need

• Towels, paper towels, etc.
• Contraceptive
• Menstrual cup or soft cup (optional)