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If you and your girlfriend have been together long enough and are willing to take her relationship to the next level, then you probably want to know her thoughts. Although asking straightforwardly is the easiest way, but "Make love?" is not a question that should give the expected response. If you really want to know if she wants to have sex with you instead, pay attention to her words and actions. Refer to the steps below to see if your girl “desires” you.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Notice her actions

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   Observe your body movements. If she can't stop touching you like hugging, curled up in your lap, wanting to hold hands or shoulder, she is ready to take another step. Sexy actions like touching the outside of your pants or placing your hand on her chest are obvious signs for you to get involved.
   • Touching you more means that she is starting to feel comfortable with you. And remember that a woman only makes love to someone who makes her feel good.
   • Notice when you both dance. Is her body very close to you? Maybe she's trying to tell you something.

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   Take note of what has happened in bed. If the two have never kissed the French style, then she probably doesn't want anything further. But if the two of you have cuddled each other for a long time, then she seems ready to "have sex". Whether your girlfriend allows you to touch your breasts and sensitive area, or even gets her oral sex by her, the odds of her agreeing to have sex with you are high.
   • "Love" by mouth are not Meaning she will make love to you. Some girls like to follow that sequence but others have sex first before they are comfortable with oral sex, or they just want to stop at oral sex.
   • If your girl is kissing for long hours and your girl does nothing more, she may want you to take the initiative first, or she simply isn't ready. If she pushes you away every time you try to touch her chest, take off her shirt, or hang her hand down her bottom, she probably doesn't want to go any further.

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   Notice if she wants more private time. Suddenly her friends are gone, and all day long she just wants to be with you, in your apartment or bedroom she probably wants to be more intimate - to some extent. It is easy to understand that if the girls do not want to do "sex", the girls will avoid falling into situations such as being alone with their boyfriend in a private space.

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   Notice your girlfriend invites you to your home. If you have never been to her house before and you are invited now, she may want more from you.Suppose you two date at night in a place very close to her, then the story leads to her own home, then your girlfriend must want intimacy. Everything is natural, but actually she needs to plan ahead, showing that she has invested a lot in bringing you to her home.

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   If girlfriend wants to spend the night at your house. A girl who never sleeps in someone's house but suddenly carrying a lot of things as if she is saying that I'm going to sleep here tonight, she probably wants more than just sleep. Sleeping next to the person you love brings a lot of emotions, so it's time to move on to the next step of affection.
   • That doesn't necessarily mean she wants sex, but it also shows that she wants more private space.

Method 2 of 3: Ask

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   Prepare. If you want to ask your girl about this, do it in an intimate atmosphere - not when you're groping on spicy noodles. So, you are ready, she is ready, what is the most needed thing? The main condom. Don't be in a hurry if you're at her or your home while you're unprepared.
   • Do not put the condom in front of her or crawl on her, just have it ready in case opportunity come. There is nothing less exciting than running to the pharmacy to buy condoms.

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   Keep it intimate. Once you are prepared, choose a place where you will be close to your ex. This means you have to take her out, spend some time alone, and make her feel special. How intimate can the two be? This depends on the degree of emotional progression. If the two of you are already in bed and most or all of your clothes have been stripped, now is the time to ask her about going to the next stage.
   • If you just kissed on the sofa and haven't done anything yet, now is a little too early to ask about that.

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   Only ask when she's comfortable. Choose the right moment, look deeply into her eyes lovingly and ask, "Are you ready?" Don't say, "Shall we have sex?" or "For me?" otherwise your girlfriend will feel too serious. You simply want to know if the person is ready, and wait for a response. Be delicate and at the right time, she will respect you more.
   • Of course you need to make sure her decision is complete conscious. Both must voluntarily, avoid unnecessary regrets happening later.

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   Respond appropriately. If all goes well, remember to use the prepared condom and join the fight. If she is not ready, respect and show her that you are comfortable with the decision. Tell her you're worth the wait and you'll give her the time she wants. Be a gentleman. If you get angry or put pressure on, the relationship may end.
   • If the answer is no, let things settle down. Don't just talk about sex just when you touch her lips. Time will help us. You should remember "Impatient sexual desire".

Method 3 of 3: Pay attention to what she says

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   Note if she suddenly talked a lot about sex. Women often talk a lot about sex when they're ready for the next step in a relationship. She can talk about it in a variety of ways, like chatting with you about someone trying to "have sex" or eliciting you to express your views on sex. Once "sex" is the topic of daily conversation between two people, it means that it often comes into her mind as well.
   • If a girl mentions "sex" while you are together, it may be a sign that she "wants" you too.
   • If she suddenly becomes curious about who your friends have had sex with and who hasn't, she might be wondering when it's your turn to do it.

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   Realize if she's giving you body-friendly words. Compliments on her beautiful chest, attractive biceps or sexy abs are the excitement of your body. Instead of liking the shirt you wear or the hairstyle you just cut, she chooses to talk about your body shape - and maybe she's picturing what her body can do to her in mind.
   • If she gives you the same compliments while you are both kissing or getting intimate, she is more likely to want more.

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   Notice if your girlfriend talks more about where you sleep. She comes, pats you on your bed and says "so comfortable," for example, you could mean "I want to lie down there with you". If she's not only complimenting but lying down on the bed and says it, enjoy it with her as soon as possible.

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   Recognize when she shows desire. This is a pretty bold move, but it is possible if your woman frankly says she is happy, comfortable and wants to be intimate. It doesn't mean she wants sex, but it's a good sign that she's interested and that you can get closer.

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   Pay attention if she talks mundane. If your girlfriend starts talking porn on the phone, texting or being in close proximity or even while chatting with you, she is probably ready for the next step. Of course there are times when she just likes to talk like that, but that also shows that she is completely comfortable with you and the two of you can go further.

Advice

• Respect her way of thinking. If your girlfriend is not ready, accept it. Don't force it because you might lose her.
• More rational in "sex". Depending on the duration of the relationship, the sexual activity you have ever tried (or not), the objective factors that influence you and your partner decide whether to have sex - even though both are interested.
• Safe. If your girlfriend wants to have sex, read the article: Safer sex. Safety comes first.
• Don't do this until you are ready. Don't let yourself be influenced by others, it is you who control it.
• Patience. Sex is not all in a good relationship. Listen to her like a best friend, protect her like a big brother, stand as a couple and play like a kid ... know each other for more than 6 months ... think "sex". Waiting is happiness if you want her to be your only girl forever. Remember, having sex can lead to pregnancy. Consider whether the two of you are truly compatible.
• Know friend ready to have sex. Even if your girlfriend is interested and you cannot manage a “cloudy rain”, please go to the next step of the relationship.
• Let her make her own decisions.
• Realize her implications about sex. This may be she's having the same thoughts as you, because otherwise she wouldn't have sparked it.
• Let her be natural: don't be too impatient.
• Don't try to have sex early as this will put pressure on the person.

Attention

• If you get your girlfriend pregnant and decide to keep the baby, remember that you guys will legally binding on the child.
• Protect yourself and your partner from unwanted pregnancy. Condom use, birth control pills or other methods that have been studied in contraception. Pulling out the penis before ejaculation is not an effective and recognized method. Birth control methods are much cheaper than the cost of raising children!
• Discuss what if unplanned pregnant. It is best to know in advance both how will this be handled if this happens; There is nothing worse than a sudden two-bar pregnancy test and disagreement about upcoming plans.
• Protect yourself and your partner from sexually transmitted diseases. The only way to avoid it is to use a condom.
• If she says no, it means no. If she's drunk, that means no. She didn't say anything, maybe not at all; Don't refuse doesn't mean agree. Make sure you get your girlfriend's clear consent before having sex; otherwise, the rape can be against you in court. More seriously, it will leave a scar that is difficult to heal on the soul of the person you have sex with.