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• Steps
• Warning

Your girlfriend's inability to show you a lot of loving gestures can hurt your self-esteem or the happiness you feel in the relationship. If you want your girlfriend to hug and kiss you more, start by making her feel good and comfortable. Show your girlfriend affection, do romantic gestures, and be around when she needs it. Make it clear that you want your girlfriend to show more affection and appreciate her feelings so that you can find a way to make your relationship good.

Steps

Part 1 of 3: Talking with your girlfriend

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   Clearly state your wishes. Be honest with her about your wishes for the relationship. Let her know you want your relationship to be more and more hugs and kisses. However, you should also respect her and appreciate her feelings; Do not pressure under any circumstances to ask her to do something uncomfortable.
   • Talking to each other about your wishes for a relationship is a way to get closer and build bonds based on mutual sincerity and respect.
   • Try saying “I would be very happy if we could have more feelings for each other. Are you comfortable with that? ”

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   Wait for consent. You should not take the initiative to hug and kiss your girlfriend in any situation unless she expresses her wishes. When discussing your feelings with her, listen to her if she is comfortable with your offer.
   • Don't pressure her to agree with your wishes. Consent will not be recognized if it is not given voluntarily and sincerely.
   • If she asks you to stop doing something, stop. You can ask her how she feels and what's wrong, but only after you've stopped acting.

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   Read her body language. Body language will tell you about a person's feelings, especially in situations where they are not comfortable speaking out their thoughts. Even though you have your girlfriend's consent, you should also pay attention to her body language to make sure she always enjoys the initiative. Stop acting immediately, if you see her doing the following:
   • Push you away
   • Crossed arms over chest
   • Turn your face in the other direction
   • The body seems uncomfortable
   • Avoid making eye contact
   • Change to topic
   • Become silent or passive
   • Cry

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   Ask her why she has been showing less affection lately. If your girlfriend is more distant or less affectionate than she used to be, talk to her about it. Sometimes it takes sincere communication to resolve problems in the relationship.
   • Try saying, “I really like being with you. I like to hug and kiss you, but it doesn't seem like you like it anymore. Is there something wrong or something you need to know about? "
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Part 2 of 3: Show her affection for her

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   Give her love and respect. Let her know you care and think about her. There are many ways to show concern - like holding hands, helping her with difficult things. Show these acts of kindness often, but be careful not to feel stuffy or pressured her to do something she doesn't want to.
   • Hold her hand as you go for a walk at the mall or while watching a movie.
   • Send her a lovely text when you know she's upset. Try the text "I'm thinking about you, my princess!"
   • If she is busy with chores, ask for help.

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   Praise her often. Mention the little things that make you love her. Praise her for being cute or say that you're happy to see her.
   • If she wears a nice dress, you will say: “Nice dress. This style looks good on you, it suits the summer style very well! ”
   • If you notice that she has a new hairstyle, you can say, “Did you cut your hair? You look very nice. I feel very impressed ... "
   • If she works hard to achieve something, you will show admiration: “I am very proud of you. You are very good and always show me the other side of me! "
   • Simple compliments are also very effective. Try saying "You have very beautiful eyes" or "Every time you smile, I feel very happy." Make sure the compliments are genuine.
   • Avoid saying watery cheesy lines. For example, the sentence "Honey, you are the sweetest thing I've ever had" sounds very cheesy, but "I am very lucky to have you" is different.

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   Give her a special surprise gift. When you go to see her, bring something special with you. It doesn't have to be something big, expensive; You can bring a candy or funny card. This is a gesture that shows you care about and makes her happy.
   • Bring her lunch or dinner. Preparing everything unexpectedly will be even more interesting. Find out what she likes and bring a meal for both of you to enjoy.
   • Occasionally write to her. The content of the message does not have to be long or smooth. Tell her to always think about her and why she is important to you.
   • Remember the things she likes and give her one of them at the next date. This is a nice gesture that shows you care and listen when she talks.

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   Keep some distance when she asks. No matter how you feel in the situation, you should always respect your girlfriend's feelings, especially when you have physical contact. You don't have to stop showing affection, but make sure your gesture is at a level where she feels comfortable.
   • If your girlfriend says you are going too far, or that she's not the type to be affectionate, learn to strike a balance between showing your emotions and being comfortable with her.
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Part 3 of 3: Become someone she can freely show affection to

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   Make her laugh. Being able to smile together is a great way to bond with your girlfriend and make her feel more comfortable around you. Try searching for jokes online or try creating your own. Or better yet, make jokes that only the two of you understand.
   • Doing silly things together. Try acting like a celebrity, re-enacting a funny situation the two of you have encountered, or coming up with your own silly words or jokes.
   • Say harmless jokes. If the girl doesn't like to joke about you, try finding a different way or joking around about others together.

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   Personal hygiene. This includes washing clothes, brushing teeth, flossing and using mouthwash. Choose a perfume or a deodorant with a pleasant smell.
   • Note that overuse of perfumes or deodorants can create a strong odor and make your girlfriend uncomfortable.
   • Always consider her feelings. If she says she prefers a scent, use that when you prepare to visit her.
   • Wash her hair regularly and let her run her hands comfortably in your hair. This is a fun and somewhat flirty move for her to touch you, if you're both comfortable with it.
   • Try to keep your appearance clean and decent. Even when choosing a dusty style, you still have to be clean and dandy.

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   Plan a special appointment. A special date is often great because it feels interesting and surprising. You can let your girlfriend know how interested you are by planning something she likes.
   • Plan a movie date, dinner, or an activity (such as bowling, skating, taking a cooking class or watching a sports game). If she is interested in something, choose to do it during your appointment.
   • Ask your friends for help. Try planning a surprise birthday party with her friends or family if you are close to them.

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   Makes her feel special. Treat your girlfriend like she's the most important person to you. Feeling special and privileged often helps her feel more comfortable and comfortable in the relationship.
   • Always remember to maintain small, but kind gestures like - open the door for her or ask her opinion.
   • If you know she's having a problem - like a project problem, wondering about a technology item, or unable to find a favorite book, ask for help. Let her know that you care even when you are not together.
   • Stay with her when she's sick. Prepare something for her to warm her stomach, make herbal tea, and find some movies for you to watch.
   • Don't ever forget flowers. You don't have to wait for special occasions to give her flowers! A rose can also make her feel special and loved.
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Warning

• When you are unsure about something, ask. If you are worried that your girlfriend is uncomfortable with hugging and kissing you, your best bet is to talk about it and respect her feelings.
• Avoid showing affection in public unless she likes it. Don't touch or kiss your girlfriend in public (or in private) without her permission.
• Don't compliment her body shape. Only compliment your eyes, hair, smile, or outfit.